Expulsion in the presence of giver

I've received a number of enemas in fanatasy/role play situations. All of them were pleasurable. But I was always disappointed if the person who gave it was not present to observe the expulsion. For me, the experience is much more intimate, with heightened feeling of submission, even humiliation, if the receiver is there to observe, and examine what I left in the pan. What do other enema lovers think?

Personally….for me….I'm all about the prep, the nozzle insertion, nozzle inflation (if applicable), the filling and potentially the stimulation of other parts during the process…..but I leave the expulsion to the receiver to handle in private. If it is a punishment enema….then there will be some humiliation added to the process….but not the expulsion part. It's a personal choice….each to one's own.

I love being watched expelling, its a huge turn on for me, but I understand a lot of people might be put off by watching a bowel movement.

Doesn't bother me either way!

I have a love hate relationship with being watched but I don't think I would be happy with the person examining what came out.

Out of all the enemas my wife gave me over the years in the bathroom, she'd never stay for my expulsion, although she'd return after I flushed, holding her nose, for additional refills. She only ever allowed me go give her one enema - and I got to stay as she sat on the toilet - but that was only because she exploded before I could even turn to leave. I rubbed her lower back and bottom as she pushed to expel. She has also given me several out in the yard using the garden hose.. and she stays and watches each expulsion into the grass there, ready to plug the nozzle back in for refill. She's even commented on my anus prolapsing a bit as I expel with force. Without an enema I have fingered and massaged my wife's anus on the toilet to help her go. As kids my sister and I always watched each other expel and examined the results, because that's what mom and grandma did.

Only one woman demanded i leave while she expelled, didnt matter really as i left slowly and she exploded as i opened the door, hehe

Ages ago after giving an enema to a chappy, I asked if I could see him expel as well. I had a chamber pot ready, and although he laughed at my request, was happy to oblige. He never asked the same of me, but I though it a very intimate part of what we were doing, and would ask again.

Hmm.. I just fantasize about it, but I think it's better if the giver watch the expulsion, for both satisfaction..

Yes, definately. They need to see the results should another enema be needed

I find expelling my enema in front of another watching to be be highly erotic, especially when they check the contents begore flushing and deciding if another is “ needed ”. This might go back to growing up when Mom did the same thing to me, and believe me, a 2nd round was almost always in order. This can be even more erotic and arousing if the giver is fully clothed while your totally naked.

As kids we expelled in front of each other as a matter of course. The expulsion was just another part of the game, along with giving. As an adult I knew one kinky domme who watched me and was watched during expulsion. I gave her several enemas, and for all of them I was close by with an arm around her shoulders and a hand on her tummy during cramps. During my expulsions she did the same and sometimes masturbated me. I think we both enjoyed the utter trust and submission that goes along with sharing that most intimate act.

I think it does add to the whole experience and it is a great way to get closer with your partner/lover and develop trust and a stronger bond. My enemas are always painful (it’s just how my body works even when everything is perfect, and I got a few doctors to confirm that it can be expected with my conditions and that, at the same time, if I want to take them, enemas are not dangerous or harmful… as long as I do what everyone else should do when taking them responsibly, of course). I have only had 3 partners give them to me, and countless medical professionals. 2 out of 3 were incredibly good and understood my need for them, both from a health and a sexual standpoint, and gave me my bags of whatever solution we agreed was necessary and made sure that the desired results were achieved to the best of their abilities. A third person literally walked out on me when the enema did its job and left me there with pretty bad cramps and a bathroom to clean up… it was a very humiliating experience for me.

While I would never expect anyone to be there if they didn’t want to be, I would not want to be given enemas (or, tbh, get intimate in any other way) by someone who was not interested in the whole process. At the same time, I have been the giver, too, and always checked with my “takers” whether they preferred to have their privacy, especially when expelling the first enema of a series, or were comfortable with me being with them. Furthermore, I’ve universally respected their wishes.

I personally love watching women expelling enemas. The sounds, facial expressions, it's all part of the process. 😉😃

If someone is getting an enema in a play scenario, IMO the giver should certainly watch the expulsion and check the results to be sure the enema was effective and ‘productive’. The bag should remain in prominent view until the expulsion is complete.

When visiting the now long gone London Enema Clinic Denise in her strict matron role supervised my expulsion into a large china old fashioned bedpan. To encourage my expulsion she subjected me to painful nipple play which certainly achieved a result. My very first enemas in childhood given by the District Nurse were also overseen when expelling on a comode next to my bed.

When my Mom gave me enemas in the bathroom as a kid she stayed in the bathroom cleaning up the equipment while I sat on the toilet expelling my enema. Most of my enemas though were given in bed and I had to expel them into a chamber pot on a stool beside my bed and she stayed there as I expelled and then checked the results to see if they satisfied her. If they did she wiped my bottom. If not she would prepare a second enema to give me. When I got enemas at my grandparents' home during the Easter holidays along with my 3 younger boy cousins as part of a “Spring Cleaning” my mother, my aunt, and my grandmother were all there in the bathroom as I was being given my enema and expelling it. My grandmother would be preparing an enema for my next youngest cousin while I sat on the toilet expelling mine and I got to see my cousin being given his enema while my aunt held him down in knee-chest position in the bathtub with my grandmother wielding the big red open-top enema bag filled with hot soapy water.

@Sean: ……watch the expulsion and check the results to be sure the enema was effective and ‘productive’. The bag should remain in prominent view until the expulsion is complete.

Gets me excited reading and thinking of when I did such things with various women… especially leaving the bag in prominent view! One question I have - is it better to leave the bag hanging empty or do you fill up so it bulging with soap foaming over for the recipient to see while expelling?

I'd respect their decision if they didn't want to be present, but for me I would much prefer the administrator of the enema to be present for the expulsion. If just feels like it adds so much more to the experience.

What's Good for The Goose….. I am always Happy to not only Watch butt to be watched as well. It's even better when you Give and Take Mutual Enemas at the Same time.

For years I felt I wanted to be alone to expel. My wife would give me the enema and let me go to the bath to expel it. Once, I had a huge block and, even with the large enema, it would not move. She came in and asked what was wrong, so I told her about the difficulty. Her response was to relax and not try to strain. She walked toward me on the toilet and put her hands on the back of my head, cradling me on her chest. With one hand, she rubbed my back, and then quietly whispered in my ear to relax and let nature work. I can tell you, it worked.

She was dressed only in a nightgown and my head was cradled between her breasts. As I tried to relax, she moved slightly and my mouth was over her right breast. I started to suck slowly. in a minute or two, I suddenly felt the blast coming, and it did. I filled the toilet, so she pushed the handle to empty the toilet bowl. She still held me close and even more erupted over the next several minutes. Her breasts tightened as I sucked, and I felt her begin to breathe irregularly. Then, with a tight squeeze, she had an orgasm, kissing my head as she came down from her own delight. I was soon empty, but she still gave me a second enema to make sure.

Now, anytime I was getting an enema for real constipation, she stayed in the bath and ‘helped’ by hugging me close to her to get me to relax. We both loved it, and the smell was never mentioned. A year ago, she passed away and something is now missing as I take my enemas.

@Red_Devil

Having the enema bag in full view while the recipient is expelling is a strong hint, but, IMO, having it obviously full of warm, soapy, water, immediately ready for another filling, sends an even stronger message that, if the recipient didn't ‘produce’ well enough, the syringe was ready for another enema.

What goes in must come out. I've talked the guy into letting me give him an enema. At some point he realizes that there is an urgent need to use the toilet. I follow him in as he rushes to sit and I then start a conversation about whether or not he is comfortable with me staying with him while he expels or would prefer some privacy. The bowels quickly win the debate and the noisy expulsion begins. “Oops, I guess the train has left the station,” I say with a smirk. [feel free to suggest another idiom]

@Miss_Sarah you are a kind and giving enema mistress. Would you let your partner watch you expel? 🌹❤️

(blush)…. Yes

With the right person it certainly can add to a level of intimacy and deeper love from the acceptance that care for you regardless of what’s going on….

@Red_Devil

Having the enema bag in full view while the recipient is expelling is a strong hint, but, IMO, having it obviously full of warm, soapy, water, immediately ready for another filling, sends an even stronger message that, if the recipient didn't ‘produce’ well enough, the syringe was ready for another enema.

Oh, but if the bag is full of soapsuds already it is a shame to waste them even if the recipient produces prodigiously.

My enemas have been given by mistresses. On one occasion after giving me the enema she entered the bathroom and held me. She gently caressed my head as I expelled. It felt great, a feeling of nurturing, especially since a hard spanking preceded the enema.

Enemas can be one of the most intimate experiences between two people. And the presence of the giver during expulsion cements the intimacy.

I agree .. it is very special and intimate and it creates a level of trust too.