Locktober, No nut November.....Diaper December?

My wife and I came up with a twist on the whole Locktober/No nut November idea. We started with Locktober and this weekend decided to expand it. Heres the rules:

Locktober - I must wear a cage 24/7 for all of October. So far so good. Im able to cum all I want but its not easy. I use a combo of dildos and Hitachi to get off. They arent great orgasms but keep me from climbing the walls.

NO Nut November - Heres where it gets fun. Im not allowed a single orgasm for November, however Im free to do anything I like. I have two concerns. 1. Wet dreams. Although not a teenager any more a few weeks of heavy stimulation without cumming often leads to a wet dream. 2. Getting over excited when having sex with wife. Im pretty good at controlling when jerking off but a heavy session with the wife my lead me to blowing a load.

Diaper December - if I fail at No Nut, they its diapers 24/7 for all of December. Thats a tough one with family and friend get togethers, work Christmas parties, etc.. only two people know I wear at night. My family all assume I outgrew bedwetting (it actually came back with a vengence and got worse in my 20s, but I didnt tell anyone).

Super excited for this one. Ill keep everyone posted!!

Very interesting! I like it!

I agree interesting, why not go a step farther for Diaper December. Diaper December is diapered, and caged 24/7.

I wish I had someone to play these things out with , my girlfriend has shunned it all . When we first got together she was happy to do anything with me , diapers, chastity , pegging , she even wore and used diapers too.. then she got pregnant with our child , after that she stopped wanting anything to do with it all , she thinks she was “secondary” to any other toy or kinky thing. Its kind of hard , I had to throw away all kinky items including dildos and butt plugs , feels like I have thrown away half of my sexuality and locked it away .

Sorry I just vented on your post ! This is my first post on here aswell! I am looking forward to hearing how you get on. I won't keep it a secret that I hope she diapers you for December .

A very nice experience.. I'm curious and very interested about your denial sex life and power relationship with your dominant wife..

@Rabban_the_Clyst - my wife and I have a fully open, no secrets relationship. Its extremely freeing and satisfying feeling completely vulnerable and trusting with a person. Likes/dislikes - nothing is off limits.

She has progressively become more dom and me more sub. Primary intimacy is her pleasure but at the same time I usually not denied. Traditional sex is rare but at the same time we have a very sexual relationship.

As for Locktober update - still in the cage and the wife has been pegging quite a bit lately. Combined with a hitachi im able to sorta, kinda orgasm which is about all I can ask for, but some days I really wish I could rip this cage off and jerk myself crosseyed. November will be a challebge!

After this bring on Jerk Off Jan and Fuckin Feb to make up for all the lost time 😉

Then Medfet March followed by Anal April 😂

Tonight before bed shes unlocking, then the hard part begins. Not sure how it will go and whether or not a wet dream will lose it for me.

Without having my aide apply my penis electrodes run the wires and prepare me to masturbate orgasm ain’t gonna happen . The good news using electro sex I don’t need an erection however my diapers are pretty much cock cage unto themselves , my G/F and I haven’t had sex in 14 years two problems I can’t really feel or move much ,and she could flip the armrests up on my wheelchair and ride me after using a vacuum erection device to achieve and sustain an erection , but she isn’t generally physically capable of that , we used to joke we were going to have our aides put us in bed together and turn up the stereo to prevent traumatizing them for life .my G/F is also menopausal and ordinarily has vaginal dryness so she would probably require a super soaker of lube in her vagina to enable any penetrative thing . So good luck otherwise your everyday next month will be like all my December’s of recent memory , although 5 X’s a day I get penetrated by my aide with an 18 FR Coude catheter , give that a try?to add some depth .LOL

i did previously to VED use medications I injected into my penis until they frowned on that until last resort and then used Muse Penile suppositories , honestly the penile suppository was fantastic after insertion you had to roll your penis between your hands for 30 seconds to spread it around your urethra , then medication combined with arousal / foreplay would cause a fantastic rigid erection medication only said “generally sufficient for penetrative sex ” I could generally go a couple of hours if I didnt ejaculate, after ejaculation your erection would begin to go soft naturally after 10-15 minutes( so there was a little “headroom” for an encore . Then insurance stopped covering erectile medications due to the ability for castrated pedophiles to possibly reoffend by using medication . And Muse isn’t actually a medication it’s a hormone . Because I use nitro central acting oral is to risky , but since I can’t really physicaly have sex it’s a non issue .

…….annnnnnd I lost it. Had been edging and wifey playing with me all week. Last night she pulled out her strap on and slowly ran it between my penis and butt (which I find particularly sensitive) and that was all it took.

Good news is I can now cum freely. On the other side I need to start thinking and planning for 24/7 December and what to do in all the holiday social situations.

Good news is I can now cum freely. On the other side I need to start thinking and planning for 24/7 December and what to do in all the holiday social situations

You say you lost, but at least you finally got some relief, so maybe it was kind of a win! As for what to do for 24/7 in diapers in December, I say just try and enjoy. No one has to know what's under your pants. Just try to get your wife to change you before going to gatherings, and hey, when you have to go, just go! Seriously, good luck, try to have fun, and keep us posted!

…….annnnnnd I lost it. Had been edging and wifey playing with me all week. Last night she pulled out her strap on and slowly ran it between my penis and butt (which I find particularly sensitive) and that was all it took.

Good news is I can now cum freely. On the other side I need to start thinking and planning for 24/7 December and what to do in all the holiday social situations.

How is it going? I guess if you dress sensibly you can keep it well hidden, but if someone asks then you probably just say it's a medical condition and it won't be permanent.

So far so good. Had two Christmas parties this past weekend and no issues. I just need to watch how much I drink to avoid overloading (Im really trying to avoid changing at someonea house. Seems super risky to me).

Also careful about dressing properly. Baggier dark pants and a looser shirt helps hide everything.

Just an update. Decided to keep going in the new year. Ive really made an attempt to just “let it flow” and Im already seeing a difference in going more frequently but less volume.

Its back. Day 6 of locked up. Feel different this year now that Im in diapers/pullups 24/7.

@bozo It’s good to hear about another round of fun this year. We’re looking forward to reading about all the ways in which she torments you while locked up. Please keep us posted on your latest predicaments and challenges.

Anyone have any ideas for diaper December? Now that I wear 24/7 I need a new punishment if I lose no Nut November. We've been trying to come up with something but no ideas yet.

Any suggestions?

@bozo Here is half an idea, only partly thought through… Maybe once each day your wife adds a suprise into your diaper that you don’t get to see. You have to wear the diaper for your usual time but with this added item as a mysterious object always present. Maybe some days it is slightly uncomfortable to sit on, maybe some days it is sticky or smelly. Lots of opportunity for punishment or puzzling.

Possible items could be a marble, small rock, a Reese’s peanut butter cup, ice cube, a packet of ketchup or mustard with a small corner clipped off, a dollop of honey, a dollop of vick’s, a Lego piece, one of her used tampons, a quarter cup of chocolate chips, a salad crouton, a scoop of glitter, a raw egg in its shell, a hard boiled egg without shell, a peppermint candy, some styrofoam packing peanuts, a crumpled up piece of wax paper, a squeaky dog toy, a box of tic-tacs that is half full, a tea bag.

It’s sort of like an advent calendar, and every day in the afternoon or evening you will get to change your diaper and discover or confirm your suspicion of what you’ve been sitting on all day. It’s like the 12 days of Xmas, but all month long. 😁

So last year you failed to control your urges and you figure being diapered all year did not help you learn how to control your urges.

If you can not be a responsible adult and control your urges for a simple month maybe your wife needs to demonstrate what being responsible is.

For starters your should be required to wear a littlekeepers onesies at all times.

https://littlekeepersleeper.com/

This will keep your hands out of the places it should not be. Having the zipper in the back makes it impossible for you to undress but easier for her to get you in and out of the onesies. It can be worn under your normal clothing so there is no reason not to be in them 7/24 just like your diapers. This is how your wife can show you that it is possible to go for a month without giving in to your basic need for a climax.

One problem with the onesie is monitoring the state of your diaper could be problematic. If your wife just attached a smartdiaper sensor to your diaper this issue would be resolved.

https://www.amazon.com/Wearable-Humidity-Sensor-Instant-Prevent/dp/B01N8RD32C#:~:text=Meet%20SmartDiaper!,diaper%20after%20they%20wet%20themselves.

with this your wife will know if you are in need of a change or not. You will have no say or input in the place and time of a diaper change. This will allow your wife to model how a responsible adult manages a basic body function.

Also as a added bonus the app will notify your wife if you wander off and get to far away from her phone.

If wandering becomes a issue she can always make you wear a walking harness

https://www.childharness.ca/specialneedsharness.html

If she gets all the accessories she will know the harness will stay on and where you will be at all times.

You want to get up and leave the kitchen table, Nope not happening until she say so.

You want to wander off, The leash will put a stop to that.

Want to get up in the middle of the night for a drink of water, Oops you can't sit up, besides that is what a baby bottle is for.

Knowing where you are will make the diaper changes a much simpler process.

People who can be responsible can have lots of freedom, The folks that can not be responsible need to be taken care of until they learn how to be responsible. the harness will just be a constant reminder that you have not learned how to be a responsible adult.

With a well defined lesson plan in place in case you fail your no nut november challenge I suspect you moto for november will be

"failure is not an option"

The boss sometimes calls me a”pee head”. Should I decide to debate the issue I find a wet diaper pinned snugly around my head and face with the used plastic pants pulled over the diaper.

Rather unpleasant and teaches a diaper wetter to watch their mouth…

Probably doesn't fit in with your desires, but do keep in mind that multiple well designed studies have shown a correlation between frequent ejaculation and prostate (and general) health, and zero decent studies have shown any benefit of not ejaculating. A month will probably not kill you, but the evidence is against it.

I wonder how bozo is doing for no nut November.

I also am curious as to what his wife has decided the consequences of failing to make it is.

If consequences are not set beforehand there will be a lack of motivation on both parts.

Bozo wanting to make it all the way to december

And

His wife having reasons to challenge his will power.

I don't think his failure last year was as a result of him lacking self control but she just couldn't wait to get him into diaper 7/24.

Based on the fact it went well beyond december Bozo is going to want to think very carefully about the long term impact on his life if he fails the No nut November challenge.

Next year he maybe asking again for punishment Ideas since this years ideas will still be in play and I see cribs, high chairs and play pens in his future.

Hi everyone. Sorry for the delayed update. Life has been busy (moved apartments) but heres what happened:

Locktober was a succes and I actually didnt cum at all during the month. Usually I can cum with enough anal play and a hitachi but I was held off this time.

Nonut November? Since Im basically 24/7 now we needed a new punishment. My kinky wife suggested I would need to taste my own semen if I fail.

What happened? I failed on purpose. Not for kink reasons but the non stop edging and lack of cumming left my testicles extremely sore. I was in agony and needed relief. My wife didnt enforce the punishment as I was in pain and it was incredibly relieving to orgasm.

Time to think about next years challenge!

@bozo...I love Your wife...she is so good to you!!!