Ever since my wife and I were married she has been seen on military bases for the majority of her medical needs, I have noticed a trend. Normally, for most of my career, the wife of a man who is in the military was seen on a military base. She is assigned a primary care manager (PCM) and he or she takes care of most of her routine appointments and specialty referrals. Now unlike private practice doctors who might be older, military doctors can be Captains or even Lieutenants and could be between 22 and 32. Also, in the military clinics, regular doctors (PCMs or Primary Care Managers) perform women’s annual exams and the only time that a woman goes to an actual gynecologist is if her PCM finds a problem during his or her exam.
Let me tell you a little about my wife Ava. She is Asian and is very beautiful, sexy, slim, and attractive. She has light brown skin and long straight jet black hair. She goes to the gym 5 days a week and has been working out for a long time and she is in incredible shape. She is 5’3” and weighs about 115 pounds. She is somewhat shy and does not enjoy having her annual checkups.
When we first got married, Ava got a female PCM assigned to her and then went to have her annual exam. She complained that the PCM was rough, fast, and didn’t explain what was going on. The next year her PCM was gone so she had to see a male PCM and after the checkup was over, Ava said that he was much more gentle and thorough with her and did explain what was going on. Since then, she has preferred to have her PCM be a male.
I started to believe that Ava was getting extra special attention from the military male doctors because the second time she went to see her PCM for her annual pelvic exam, coincidentally her PCM was unable to be there so a different (also young) male doctor stepped in to help out. Now within 13 months two young male military guys had thoroughly examined sexy and beautiful Ava in the stirrups. Another re flag for me was that any time Ava was seen for any kind of problem, her PCM would always start off the exam by telling her how many more months that she had before she was to come in for her annual pelvic exam and pap test. He would always explain to her how important it is to get the exam done on-time and not let it go over a year between exams.
Now this is good but I thought that it might be a little suspect. It seemed almost like he couldn’t wait to get her in the stirrups. I mean, did he make certain that all his patients had their annual pelvic exams every 12 months without question; even fat and ugly woman? I don’t know for sure.
One time she had gone in to be seen for dizziness and was told to have a blood sample taken. She was notified that her blood was low and she is anemic and to come back in so that her PCM could try to figure out what was going on.
At the appointment her PCM asked her some questions and told her that he had to check her out to see if he could find where she was losing blood. He had her remove her clothes and get in the stirrups and then he put a spot light on her privates. She said that she didn’t watch but she could feel him spread her open with his fingers. After that he opened her with a speculum, shined a spot light inside her, and thoroughly looked around.
She said that she felt that since it was not a routine exam and that he was actually looking for something that this could be a normal way that doctors search for an area that she may be losing blood. I personally thought that it was suspect of a young Captain taking advantage of the situation but I am not a doctor so I wouldn’t know and as long as my wife was OK with it then I was OK with it and if it was not a normal routine procedure to check for anemia, then it was the Captain’s lucky day to see and feel my beautiful wife.
We then moved to another Base and then she got a new male PCM. During his initial evaluation, he noticed that she had been diagnosed with anemia. He told her that anemia could be a serius issue and since the root cause had not been figured out, he needed to basically see if he could locate the problem for himself. Ava said that within the first thirty minutes of her initial evaluation, he convinced her that it was in her best interest to let him try to find the root cause of her anemia by letting him visually inspect inside her vagina almost the same way as her last PCM at our previous Base. I guess it was his lucky day too.
At this point I was definitely seeing a trend. It seemed like almost every time she would go to see a PCM, he would find a reason to put her legs up in the stirrups and spread her open. We stayed at that base for a few years and my wife went to dental school and got her license.
A few years later we got moved to a new Base and she got a new PCM. When I signed in at the hospital, they asked me if it mattered to my wife if her PCM was male or female and I told them that she wanted a male doctor. When I told the lady that my wife specifically wanted a male provider the lady looked at me funny as if the wonder why so I told her that in the past she had told me that male doctors are gentler than female. She said okay, then she gave me three choices of possible male providers that were available. I don’t remember their names but one was a colonel, one was a major, and one was a captain. Logically thinking about it I chose the captain because he would be the youngest of the three.
An initial evaluation was scheduled for her and one of the first things that her new Captain PCM noticed during that evaluation was that she was due for her annual physical exam. There again, right off the bat, initial evaluation, Ava was up in the stirrups again. He did the complete annual exam to include her pap and pelvic exam. She said that he was nice, courteous, and very thorough with his exam.
A few months after that, my wife saw that there was a job opening in the dental clinic on the base which was in the same building as the family practice doctor’s offices. My wife put in for the job and got it. So now she worked in the dental clinic with is in the same squadron and building as her PCM.
Ava had made a lot of friends at the squadron and seemed to be very popular. I know this because when I went to the gym and worked out with her, there were always guys saying “Hi” to her and she told me that they were either her dental patients or guys from her squadron.
So now she told me that she felt kind of uncomfortable about having her annual exams done at the Base clinic because she saw her PCM sometimes in passing in the clinic. I told her that he had already done an annual exam on her and so it would be nothing new to him if she were to have him do her next annual physical exam.
Now that she was working with the military and had also gone to dental school, she had learned about chaperones and the importance of them to most doctors. What she was surprised to find out is that in the military clinic the policy is that any patient can request a chaperone if you want one. The funny thing is that unless you specify that you want a male or female, you will just get a chaperone. It could be a girl or could be a guy. It is basically anyone who works there and is available.
Now in the military the guy to girl ratio is about 8:1 and in the medical clinic there were about 14 people working there. Most are lower ranking males but there were a few females. These people do not have degrees and are just working there because that is the job that they got when they came into the military. So basically they are just there by chance or maybe by their request to have that kind of job.
Now in the past, whenever my wife’s PCM would ask her if she wanted a chaperone, she would always decline because she said that “It is just one more person that is going to be watching and I don’t want that.” Over the years, I have told her from time to time and it was kind of a running joke with us that her PCMs had been doing extensive vaginal exams on her as often as they could and that the exams were more thorough than normal because there was no chaperone present to witness it. She said that sometimes it seems that way too but she didn't know for sure.
To try to prove my theory, I made a bet with her. Since her annual was coming due again, I told her to ask for a chaperone at her next annual exam just to see what the PCM would say and do and how he would react to not being able to be alone during the exam and to see if the exam would go more quickly or less thoroughly.
I bet in my mind that she would end up getting a male chaperone simply because there were more guys working in that clinic than girls. It's one thing for her to have a male doctor. It's really not that big a deal because he is a doctor. However, a chaprone is just someone in the Air Force. It is just someone who happens to be working in that clinic just like a military cop who works the gate or a cook in the dining facility.
Just like she always did, Ava prepared the night before her exam by neatly trimming her bush and shaving everything from her clitoris down. She went to her exam the next day and I talked with her afterwards. She was upset with me. She hit me on the arm and said “Thanks a lot!”
I asked her to give me a complete synopsis of the entire exam because I wasn’t there. She told me that at her appointment everything was routine and even though she was in the same squadron as her PCM and they knew each other, he was professional.
She arrived early for her appointment and waited in the waiting room. At her appointment time an airman girl called her name and took her in the back and got her weight and height in the hallway where the scale was. As she was being led to the exam room she passed by an airman guy she knew who was one of her dental patients and also a guy she sees in the gym regularly working out. He was a young guy about 21 years old and an E4. One time in the past he had asked her if she was married. They briefly said hello in passing like normal and she thought nothing of it other than she didn't realize that he worked in that clinic.
Once in the exam room, the airman girl left and her PCM Captain came in. Like normal he asked her a lot of health questions. After that he told her to take off all her clothes and put on the gown. She then told him that she would like a chaperone present during the rest of her exam. She said that her PCM gave a deep breath and then said OK and then went out of the exam room to get a chaperone while she got undressed.
About a minute later the door opened and her PCM came back in. She said that her heart instantly sank because following the captain through the door was the airman guy that Ava had just passed by in the hallway earlier. He closed the door, and then stood right by the door.
She thought that surely this guy couldn’t be the chaperone. Her mind was racing. Not only did her PCM bring a male chaperone, but it was a guy that she knew found her attractive. Being that she was the one to request a chaperone, how could she say anything now?
She didn’t know what to do at that point….should she say something or not? She tried to catch her breath for a second and see what was going to happen.
She kept her eyes on him and he stayed on the far side of the room behind were the Captain was standing in front of her. She thought that as long as he stands back where the doctor is blocking his view, then he is not going to be able to actually see the examination so it might not be worth making a big deal about it.
She said that what she thought was that this is going to be this guy’s lucky day to see me in a lying down position with my feet in the air but he won’t be able to see actually see my private parts because his view is blocked by the PCM.
She was still thinking about the situation and what she should do when the Captain opened the front of her gown exposing her small breasts and started to do the breast exam. She said that she was watching the E4 closely to make sure that he would stay in the back behind the Captain and if he did come around, then she would ask for a female chaperone. Ava could see the chaperone’s face and he could see her face too but he stayed by the door behind the PCM. She said that he continued to look her way but he didn’t move from his spot. She said that she was very relieved that he stayed in the back where he couldn’t see around the Captain.
After the breast exam, the Captain told Ava to lay back and put her legs in the stirrups, put her butt down toward the end of the bench, and then spread her legs as wide as she can. Ava did what the Captain said which completely exposed her entire vulva to the doctor. She said that her PCM was not satisfied with her position and told her to slide down a little farther and then he pushed her legs even farther apart. She said that she felt like her knees were almost to her chest.
Then, to my wife’s dismay, the doctor told the chaperone to bring over the floor standing spot light from the corner of the room.
Ava said that her heart sank again! What could she do now? She didn’t object to him coming into the room in the first place so how could she explain that she just thought that he was going to stand in the back and not be able to see her exposed?
Ava said that she looked over at the chaperone with big eyes as if to beg for him not to come over hoping that he would object the Captain’s request. Instead she said that he didn’t hesitate at all.
There was nothing Ava could do at this point to stop him from walking right up between her legs which were now spread wide open. He went over and got the spot light from the corner of the room and brought it over in between Ava’s legs.
She said that her doctor then directed the chaperone to focus the light on Ava’s vagina. Ava told me that he actually said “Ava’s vagina”.
Ava said that the chaperone took his sweet time adjusting and focusing the light directly on her vagina but then it started drooping down so the Captain told him to help by holding the light in place. So now the E4 was right next to the Captain and was going to be able to watch the entire exam!
There was nothing Ava could do at that point but just hope that the Captain would go quickly. Just as if read her mind, he started to really take his time and get very thorough.
She said that it was at this time that her doctor mentioned that the airman chaperone had just mentioned to him on the way down the hall that he was really considering becoming a gynecologist and it was a real coincidence that he was called in to chaperone a pelvic exam and pap smear. Ava said that it sounded like the doctor had switched his focus from completing the exam to a focus of teaching the airman guy. It was as if the Captain implied that it would be OK for him to use Ava’s pelvic exam as a OJT teaching tool for the chaperone.
She said that she instantly thought that it was just a line of bullshit that the chaperone had told the doctor in an effort to trick the Captain into letting him watch the exam closely.
Sure enough the doctor acted convinced that this was the perfect opportunity to start showing the chaperone exactly what was involved with a pap smear and pelvic exam.
The Captain took out the speculum and spread her wide open to do the pap and then he asked the chaperone to point the spotlight so that it would shine directly at the right angle deep inside her. She said that he really took his time aligning the light as the both of them looked inside.
Now normally once the doctor had her spread open with the speculum, he would take the swab and it would be done. But this time as he was spreading her vagina open with the speculum he started asking her health questions maybe to try and take her mind off what was happening and after the speculum was in place, he stood up and away from her spread legs so that he could look at her face to face and talk to her and he seemed to get distracted away from what he was doing.
Meanwhile, the chaperone had a complete unrestricted close-up view with his spot light of her vagina spread wide open by the speculum and this time he wasn’t being shy about it and actually sat down on the doctor’s stool and was looking inside her from about 2 feet away as if he was the doctor.
She said that it almost seemed as though once the doctor inserted the speculum and spread her open, he knew that there was nothing that she could do but lay there and be observed by the chaperone, so he prolonged it by asking questions and kind of moving away to give the chaperone the opportunity to look all he wanted; which he did.
Finally after a few questions, the Captain sat back down did the pap smear and then took out the speculum. My wife said that it seemed as though she was spread open forever even though it was probably only 3 or 4 minutes.
The doctor then told the chaprone that the pap smear was complete and that it was time for the pelvic exam.
She said that she wondered at that point if it could get any worse and of course it did.
He started pointing to different parts of Ava’s vulva, naming them, and telling him what to look for on each of the parts.
“This is Ava’s outer labia and you really need to inspect it for pimples or warts.”
He then spread Ava's labia wide and pointed to her inner labia, urethra, and vaginal canal. Then he pointed to her clitoral hood, and then pulled it back exposing her clitoris.
She said that she could feel her pussy being spread wide open as both of them watched and she wanted to just close her legs and stop the whole thing but she knew that she couldn’t do anything now but bear it.
She said that she almost felt as if the Captain was spreading her vagina open just to show the chaperone what her pussy looked like on the inside. She said that the Captain stretched her labia open for what seemed like 30 seconds as if he really liked what THEY were looking at and didn’t want to stop.
She said that the Captain then inserted two fingers deep inside of her. He felt around for 30 seconds or so thoroughly pressing up, down, and side to side while pushing on her lower abdomen. While he was doing that, the chaperone spoke up and asked what he was feeling for and the doctor tried explaining it but then finally gave up because the chaperone kept looking confused. Without even asking Ava's permission, the doctor said, “I will show you what I'm talking about” And then handed the chaprone a pair of rubber gloves. Ava said that she thought to herself that certainly the doctor is not going to have the chaperone put his fingers into her but before she could come up with the words to say, the chaperone had already slid two fingers inside her vagina and was in the process of exploring around inside of her as if he was looking for something. As the doctor was trying to direct him on where to feel, she said that the chaperone kept saying that he was not feeling what the doctor was describing as if he knew that if he played dumb and kept listening to the doctor's directions that he would be able to continue fingering Ava, which he did.
Ava said that the entire time this was happening all she could think of was that her PCM just gave this random guy from the gym, who she has seen many times checking her out, permission to not only see her naked with her legs spread wide open and her vagina spread open in a bright light, but also the opportunity to finger her thoroughly. Finally, he admitted that he could feel what the doctor was describing and he pulled his fingers out of her.
So, I think that I won the bet and I believe that it was kind of a set up from the beginning. I mean, it was no secret why my wife was there. Everyone in that clinic could look in the database schedule and read who had an appointment and what the appointment was for. The information is private but anyone in that clinic could see it.
The guy that ended up being the chaperone knew my wife because he was one of her regular dental patients and she had cleaned his teeth before in the dental clinic. Not to mention that he saw her all the time in the Base gym.
I believe that he saw her name in the schedule and that she was coming in for her annual pelvic and pap exam and then he made sure he knew which room she was being seen in. Then he stuck close by the room that she was in just in case the doctor asked for a chaperone. Then, in an effort to possibly watch or participate in the exam, he tricked the doctor by saying that he was interested in becoming a gynecologist.
He is not the only guy that works there in that clinic and for all I know, being that Ava is in the same squadron as the guys in the medical clinic, they all probably know her because she is very attractive and sexy. They could have even talked about it privately that morning and drew straws to see who would be the lucky one to be her chaperone if there was a request for one.
It was definitely the chaperone’s lucky day and now he has seen and felt my wife…inside and out. She still saw him in the gym from time to time. She told me that it was very awkward when he came in for his next dental exam.
Ava now goes off base for her annual exams.