Prepping Properly for Anal Play & Pegging

Hi everyone, in the past 3 years i have had a medical condition that has prevented me from getting an erection (long story) so there was no intercourse for my wife for almost 2 years during that time, she relied on her sex toys and me giving her Oral, and i also bought her a Dildo to play with but she was not really into that, she said it just wasn't the same feeling using a dildo to thrust herself with, so i started to feel guilty.

Long story short, around 12 months ago i did a lot of research on pegging, and after a lot of research i ended up buying her a set of 3 RealRock Skin dildos (7', 8' & 9') made from a beautiful silky smooth TPE material, and also a 9" Adam & Eve rechargeable vibrating dildo, which is the go to dildo for her pegging right now, so Dildos can be a good replacement for the real thing when it isn't available, as long as you buy the right dildos and harness, and use the right lube, and it may not be the case for some women, but my wife absolutely loves being pegged with her dildos.

Anyway, i have always been into Anal play, and we have done some basic ass play over the years, but nothing extreme, and she has now offered to try out some pegging on me with her dildos, so we have had a few attempts with the 8" dildo, but as much as i did prep by giving myself a warm water enema using an enema syringe (5" stem with a bulb) about 1 to 2 hours prior, there was always some leakage of some kind, and we use a water based natural massage oil for our lube, and it works great with the TPE Dildos, so that massage oil is also part of the leakage, but often is has some poop mixed in with it, and it really turns my wife off.

Also, sex for us is usually spontaneous, but usually initiated by me, so sometimes i might prep during my shower but i never know when it will happen, or if it will happen at all that night, so if the wife wants to peg me, if i am not prepped, i usually decline.

Is there something that i am missing here, and if so, can someone please explain how to prep properly.

Cheers

You don’t need a large enema to prep for anal. Often a 1-2 quart enema will result in residual water getting “sucked” out during pegging or anal Even after a couple hours. You only need to clean out 6-8 inches to prep. A couple of small bulb enemas 10 minutes or so prior are adequate Prep.

We very seldom had a problem with toys or anal - once or twice over many years, often with no prep. Butt, if you play back there its always a risk. No big deal. Go with it.

if you’re going for high anal (snakes etc) then a more thorough clean out is warranted.

Hi Rigel, thanks for your great explanation, very much appreciated.

You can see the Enema device that i use in the image below, i supplied a link to it because i was not sure if we are allowed to post images directly into our posts.

https://i.postimg.cc/qvcHGx2q/All-Toys.jpg

I would usually insert that nozzle as far as i can and squeeze it until i feel myself filling up, and then i pull it out and release the water kind of forcefully, and i would sometimes have to repeat this at least 5 times to be sure everything is clear, so i am assuming that this is what you are refering to doing in your post.

I never gave it a thought to rush into the bathroom and do a few quick flushes just before the wife is going to peg me, or insert a toy, or her finger, to me it kind of takes away the spontaneity of the act just flowing on from whatever we might have been doing prior to starting anal play, and the 2 times that she did offer to peg me, it was straight after i finished pegging her, she would put the harness on, clean the dildo, and away she goes.

I also understand that there will always be some form of leakage during any anal play, especially with the anus being tight, and using the massage oil as lube on a dildo or some other toy, and maybe there will also be some residual water still inside me as well.

So, i will change my prepping habits and focus more on doing my enemas just prior to any anal activity, even if it does mean rushing to the bathroom for a few minutes first.

The following is what my wife will be using on me.

https://i.postimg.cc/9fh2ZNSr/Sensara-9-Adam-Eve.jpg

I don't have a ton of anal experience, but the times that girlfriends/ wife and I have played back there, we've never done any prep. It has always been spontaneous and never planned, at least on my behalf. From my experience, as long as you and/ or your wife poop regularly and don't feel the urge to go at that moment, you're good to go. I mean, you are sticking an object up your butt… so it is always a possibility.

You don’t need a large enema to prep for anal. Often a 1-2 quart enema will result in residual water getting “sucked” out during pegging or anal Even after a couple hours. You only need to clean out 6-8 inches to prep. A couple of small bulb enemas 10 minutes or so prior are adequate Prep.

Can someone please tell me what is the safe amount of water to insert each time when using one of those enema bulb type syringes (mine is in the following link)

https://postimg.cc/yDNG19QC

Mine holds 250ml so when i have squeezed the water in, i hold it for a few moments, then i release it, and repeat this until i am ejecting clean water, and usually it takes about 5 or 6 goes to get it clean to my satisfaction.

I have read that it is not a good idea to do too many Enemas in a short period of time, not really sure why this is.

In the past when having anal sex with my ex husband we didn't prep at all. On my last few play dates we didn't prep at all at least I didn't. Don't know if my play partner prepped before I got there. This next play date we will be cleaning out the backdoor🍑💦

@chelle300 When does this happen? Can’t wait to hear about it.

@EnemaAndIvory hopefully the 22nd

Preparation fancies the prepared😉