Plug discomfort

Im trying to get myself to wear plugs for longer and longer periods of time. Especially at work. But am having trouble pushing past the distraction and discomfort. I really want to be able to have it in most of the day like a good sissy, but it is hard to still get things done. Any suggestions?

Try a different plug! It took me a few tries before I found my favorite! The first time I put in it was there for 6 hours!

I agree with Ozzy. Keep looking for the right plug that fits your ass. I went through several plugs for years and finally found one that works for me. Called the “worlds most comfortable butt plug” from Mrsleather. The “snug Plug” looks similar and the njoy 2.0 is marvelous. I now wear my WMCBP just about every night sleeping with it in me and many times during the day for hours on end. Also size is important. I have settled on the “medium” for long term wear but each plug sizes differently. As an after thought, don't rule out getting a plug harness. They work good too. Enjoy the search. I am still always looking for a new and better sensation LOL.

Like the guys before me rightly said - need to find the plug that suits you. For long term wear during daily activities you want a plug that is really comfy - usually has long and slender neck, pronounced head and base that is rather "longish" shape instead of round. For the materials I'd go with glass, stainless steel or really soft silicone. Size should be smaller rather than bigger. Check out squarepeg egg plugs.

Happy plugging!

Hold it in with the handyman's secret weapon: duct tape

Thanks for the feedback. Do you find that it should be a little uncomfortable/distracting

I wake up with mine wondering if it’s in or not. So no. its very comfy.

Keep on searching for a nice and comfortable plug is part of this joyful journey

I have a homemade heated plug which relaxes the anus and colon making for an easier relaxing hold and other benefits

Thanks for the feedback. Do you find that it should be a little uncomfortable/distracting

A little uncomfortable no, Distracting? Absolutely but because of it feeling so good being in there, not because of any discomfort. While I have tolerated some plugs in the past that have been slightly uncomfortable I kept looking and trying more out until I finally found the perfect plugs for me.

It's all been said before. My experience, smaller metal ones with a defined narrow shank are good for all day wear. Wider necks need tape or other mechanical support to hold in place.

I started my exploration with an Njoy plug. It was very comfortable, and I still feel it is a good design, but maybe not the best for long term wear. I have since tried a variety of silicone plugs and have settled on the Snug Plug 2 as @EasyEntry mentioned. It has a great profile for comfortable all day wear. Large head, slim neck, T-shaped handle.

One recommendation I would share: after using lube to insert the plug, add a little more lube around the handle and the neck where it enters your pucker. Keeping the handle slippery will reduce rubbing and chaffing between the cheeks. When I wear my plug all day I keep a little container of lube with me and occasionally go to the restroom and reapply some lube to the handle.

It should be comfortable to wear, not painful. Yes, it is a pleasant distraction when you think about it, but there are certainly times I forget it’s there until I move in a way that reminds me. I think my enjoyment is 75% having a naughty secret and 25% physically arousing stimulation.

I have a plug like ozzy's, but with a different handle choice, mine is flat and round and fits snug between the cheecks. I have a med, large, and extra large and by far my medium is the most comfy for long term wear. Like Ozzy, I can sleep with it and wake up and wonder. However, long term wear at work or out and about, I struggle with distraction. If I'm at home working then it's no problem. It's more of a psychological thing for me. What is weird, is I wear cock rings all day, everyday but the distraction is different I suppose.

You'll find the right one, but it is a trial by error thing for sure. Hey, but it's a fun journey!!

Good luck! 😃

I think it would be hard for me to wear a butt plug at work ( pun intended LOL) I would be just too distracted and wanting to put my hard-on in a co-workers butt. Plus, I would be worried it would slip out of my butt at the wrong time.

I my hole is small should I try butt plug?

If you feel the inclination to do so, then you should.

But of course, start small, with small narrow plugs that can be slipped up into you with little discomfort. And keep it in for short periods at first until you get used to it. Then you can go to progressively larger sized plugs.

That is how I started. My gf once cut my interior anal muscles with a sharp fingernail when we were first together. It hurt like hell, but of course healed.

Even so, so 50 years later I can still feel the scar inside. Therefore when I started with plugs back in the 1980s, I ended up making my own out of heavily varnished wood. This because those for sale in sex shops, were really too wide for me. They really hurt.

But, starting with a ridiculously small and thin home-made plug (so small I now have to laugh how dainty it looked) I increased the size over time until I could accommodate store bought plugs.

You will probably be able to use plugs, but start out small and be patient. Don't rush things. And by that I am talking about periods measured in months.

And just like in any training regimen, keep at it regularly.

so what can i use for small things like in home made?

I carved my first ones out of hardwood. But you will need some hand tools to do so. I started out with wooden rods I carved and sanded into shapes I was looking for.

Then varnished with several coats of high gloss varnish.