Enemas, Medfet, BDSM, E-stim... do you get aroused talking about your kink?

.…whatever your kink. Do you enjoy (or even get aroused) talking about your kink? Many of us have wives, husbands, partners and a few just acquaintances with whom we share our kink(s). There are a number of us, however, whose partner may not actually share our kink, and while they may be “OK” with it, some are really not “keen” on it and others find it, well, kinky! I enjoy getting into the “nuts and bolts” of my kink(s) with others but have a real hard time (other than here on Zity) finding folks to “talk business” with (let alone, PLAY with!)

Do you have others to talk with in your circle? How did you meet/find them? The search is an exhausting effort and introducing enemas (or whatever your kink is) into a conversation requires a lot of “inventiveness”. What’s been your experience?

I do. Both my sisters know what I'm into. My mom knows a little. A couple of my coworkers know a little butt when I talk at work it does put a smile on my coworkers face😀

I hope you are giving them all the kinky details 😈😉

@Temptaker4u 💯😈

I'm squarely in the camp of, “my significant other is OK with my kinks but not really into them.” We're best friends and married now for 31 years but sexually, she's vanilla and I'm very rocky road… Her interest in anything other than straight up hard fucking is nil. I however enjoy the nuance of foreplay, fun and exploration of my kinks. It makes for an interesting compromise in our relatio0nship.

I unfortunately have a very vanilla husband and nowhere to chat about my interests outside of Zity and the friends I've made here.

Several years ago I did have a few exams from a play Doc, but that has not happened for the last several years. I also had a short stint of belongong to a now-defunct BDSM Dungeon group.

It was nice when I could meet up with others for play. Maybe someday it'll happen again.

This is interesting to me and makes me pause to think. Congratulations by the way I love it when a member here actually makes me pause and review myself.

I don't go to lunch with co workers and employees and say things like.. hey last night I had a visitor that requested that I wear my cat suit and brutally spank him or her.

But that's not to say I won't say something to make them curious like…they ask..you are in a good mood .. and my response being.. oh I have a 2.0 currently up my ass and it feels great…

Now they wonder…is the boss really wearing a butt plug or did she just say something off the top of her head?

Keep them guessing.

Yet there are several local people that are into our kinks and we are in communication so I have that and even with them I don't share everything with them.

Even here on Zity there are somethings that I don't bring up or draw attention to. But now and then one of you filthy animals will say something that grabs my attention and you get a PM….lol.

Well if you allow private messages that is. I'm pushy but not that pushy.

Have a great day.

I live in a small town in Pennsylvania. It is very hard, and risky, to talk about my interests. My spouse used to take part but lost interest after “change of life”. I miss the old days. Would like to meet/correspond with folks (male/female) who have those same interests.

I enjoy talking to other like minded people about my kinks and fetishes. I do however find it difficult to talk to my partner about them. He’s pretty vanilla, like he wants to be apart if it and shows interest but for some reason I just have a hard time talking to him about it. I’m from a small town in North Eastern Pennsylvania.

I have a number of close friends who I divulge all the gory details of my kinks. My wife on the other hand is not into sex anymore and never had any interest in kinks. I have to practice alone or with my friends 😢

I am now open about my fetish & will talk about it with anyone who wants to listen. I’ve even showed them pics out of my albums on here 😈

It's been quite liberating for me, but I choose my audience partcipants carefully and establish a level over time…

Apart from a couple of partners, who were aware of my liking for enemas and subsequent anal play, only my current partner is aware of this. I think that is why I am so pleased to have found this site; I feel that I am not alone in my sexual cravings/leanings. I can remember in the 1970s getting a magazine here in the UK called Forum, and in their letters page seeing that others enjoyed enemas either as a prelude to anal sex etc or enjoying the intimacy and closeness of looking at and fingering some ones anus which I and a lot of people find thrilling.

Certainly get aroused discussing my kinks. But my sharing is limited to Zitybiz for a couple of reasons. The first being never has a friend brought up their sexual fantasies(except for one who admitted having a thing for Grace Slick and masturbating to her picture) and second, members here are understanding and accept the kinks without judgement.

There are not a lot of people on my side of the screen with whom I share my proclivities or fantasies.