Talking to yourself when taking an enema

When I give myself an enema I talk myself through it.

You know you need an enema Linda, now stop fussing and do it. Get the bag and fill it up.

Make it soapy just like when mom fixed your enema. Now pants off …. right off.

You're going to get an enema now, Linda. Yes, a good enema. A soapy warm enema up your bottom.

Look at the nozzle. You know what's going to happen don't you? That's right it's going to give you the enema. Enema … enema … enema … all that soapy water going waaaay up and filling you up.

That's enough Vaseline, stop stalling, time to insert. Legs apart, bend a little forward … reach back … slide it in …. now open the clamp …

Alright, now lift the bag. Up it goes, let the enema flow. ….. yes …. ooooh …. that's a good girl … take it … take it … you know you need this so take it ….. yes, lift the bag higher … up it goes …. the enema is going to fill you up …. way up so it works …. breathe deep ….. relax …. let it fill you up …. clip it off, let the cramp pass … okay time to start again … I know you don't want it but you need this Linda and you need it all, don't you? …. alright then, open the clamp and lift the bag …. enema … enema … you're getting an enema …

That's it …. take it all … be a good girl and take it all …. I know you feel full but you need to take more …. yes more …. you don't don't want a spanking too do you? … take it all or mommy will have to spank … spank … spank …. spank …. there, the bag is empty.

Now you need to hold it. ….. hold it …. let the enema do its work …. hold it ….. be a good girl and hold it for mommy.

There will be appropriate moans and groans and likely a little rub to distract my attention from how full I'm feeling.

Most of my self talk will play in my head. Some will be said out loud in a quiet but intense voice.

My self talk is encouragement and, obviously, some role playing. Often it is mom giving me an enema again. Sometimes my husband. Sometimes a few others. Mostly I enjoy an enema and how good it makes me feel and part of this is talking my way through it and often reliving days gone by.

I wonder what others are thinking, saying to themselves, when it's give yourself an enema time?

I also do some enemas self-talk in my head encouraging myself to take the full soapy 2Q bag and hold it for at least 5 minutes. Mom made me hold for 10 minutes.

Talking to yourself is normal and healthy while taking enemas or really during any other activity - even answering yourself when you ask yourself a question.

Start to worry when you have to ask yourself to repeat what you just said…….

LindaB, never talked to myself during an enema, but reading your conversation with yourself was quite arousing.

I usally don't talk to myself, because it always becomes an argument. The worst part is that I always lose the argument!

Usually it’s mostly in my head, things like you need to give yourself this enema, or get this nozzle lubed and take your enema. These thoughts always include saying enema over and over again and sometimes I will repeat out loud softly enema , enema , enema. Hearing or saying the word enema has always and still does get me very excited.

It's time to take an enema right now

I can feel it going in

The enema needs to come out now

After a large expulsion of water: Ohhh god!!! That felt so good!

We need to do another enema

After a series: It's time to clean everything up. There's no time to cum tonight. Taking enemas is a regular part of life and not a special occasion to cum. We need another tomorrow and this will help us make sure it happens. It's time for bed now and you're not permitted to touch yourself.

Both being Switches, my ex and I used to love mixing several of our fetish/kinks together with her being Domme and giving me large, long sexual enemas as her sub. I’ve always loved enemas but the addition of doing it as Domme and sub adds another type and level of enjoyment to it for both of us. An important part of the D/s for us was a good deal of conversation, commentary, narration, moans, groans, and any other vocalizing that made it more dominant or submissive for us. She would often remind me during my enema that the more controlled, submissive, embarrassed and humiliated we made me feel and act, the better her Domme enjoyment of her arousal and orgasms.

So being solo now for several years, I almost always add in that same sort of D/s commentary at least in my mind as erotic fantasy with my Domme or very frequently actually talking to myself about taking my sub enema.

Eric

Sometimes I need to give myself a quiet peptalk to retain the enema longer, because what’s stuck in there needs to come out. I'm more disciplined when my husband is giving me the enema. He's a better nurse to me than I am on myself. He’s also my favorite coach! 😇

Sometimes I talk to myself, but not often out loud. Good girl, take your enema, turn over, hold it, be a good girl and do it!

Linda- I found that very arousing and interesting. I've rarely been able to get myself through the hard parts of a cramp or long holding, although I have no trouble when somebody is giving me the enema. I will now try your approach the next time. Thanks for a great post and question.

Yes, I tend to say things like “just breathe” and “take it like a good little girl.”

To original poster LINDA: YES! I have talked to myself in the exact same way while giving myself enemas. It is a way of returning to that same mental space of being the little, vulnerable, shy, ashamed, soft, smooth, pale white, naked skinny twink enema boy growing up being given enemas by mom. https://en.zity.biz/gallery/image/84676

Mom would talk to me during my childhood enemas using the word “enema” frequently and that word became the trigger for me. Both my late wife and a former girlfriend knew that saying “enema” while they were filling and stroking me would have a predictable and quite pleasant result. So yes, I do talk to myself during solo enemas, sometimes out loud but mostly not, recalling many of those memorable conversations of my past.

I always give myself a verbal coaxing much like Linda and LisaK above. It enhances my experience from the preparations to administering and eventual release. Let the good times flow.

To be honest, I don’t recall. Self talk is not something I am famous for. But next time I’ll take notes. Ok?

Recently, I took a series of enemas; an SSE, a rinse, a 3 quart coffee enema held for 25 minutes, and then a final 4 quart saline rinse. I don't normally take a 4 quart enema, seldom actually. However, I had progressively made each enema larger than the one before. After adding salt to my four quart pitcher, I went ahead and filled it to the top with very warm water. It was as if I had an internal dialog going on with a soothing yet sexy woman's voice saying, "You can do it, take it, take it all, take every last drop!" I had glanced at the shrinking bag and found myself saying out loud, "OK, OK, I'll take it, I'll take it all". I put my head back down and the next thing I knew I heard the sucking sound as the last of the water drained into the hose. I clamped the hose and removed the nozzle. I stood up and admired my distended belly in the mirror. I was also fully erect, with the tip glistening with pre-cum. I could hear that inner voice again complimenting me on taking it all. I was rubbing my belly and said out loud to myself, "You did it, good job! This feels so good and full!" I quickly got on the toilet and had a strong, protracted release. Felt so good!

Just wanted to send thanks to all who have replied with so many interesting comments.

Nice to know I'm not alone when it comes to self-talk.

Linda

Talk to myself every time the water goes in just like my Mother and wife used to… encouragement never hurts!

Self talk is very helpful. I'll meditate before starting so I get my mind cleansed of all the day to day stuff, so I am fully in the moment. Even better if you have a partner or playmate to encourage you to take it and then suffer while you are holding it. Retention nozzles are great!

I often talk to myself as I’m watching that silicone bag emptying and feeling that very warm solution filling me. Often saying out loud… “oh yes, yes fill me up… you can take all of it!” Just one of the joys of taking Solo enemas.

"get those clothes off and go lay down in the tub while I fix your enema" "I told you you're getting an enema when I get home from work" "you should have gone to school and you wouldn't have to go through this" " if you don't quit teasing your sisters about their enemas, you'll get one as well" "momma, how come you have the enema bag?" "quit fighting me on this, your sisters take their enemas like big girls".

These phrases take me back to the early beginnings and occasionally, I just need to remind myself as I capitulate and succumb to the enema I'm about to get. It would be great to hear these from others, but sometimes it's just me, myself, and I.

Since there is no one else here to talk to, WHY NOT?

If I talk to myself it's usually before the enema begins. I will say something like:

Your getting an enema later today.

You like me giving you enemas?

I think it would be best if I give you a series of enemas today.

You like it when I use the big black douche nozzle don't you..

It may sound silly but it really gets me wanting an enema..

This may sound weird but I do talk to myself by saying things like be a good boy and take all your water and that's a good boy fill up. Or if I am really horny I will say things like take it you hungry anal slut or something like that almost trying to humiliate or kinda degrade myself as I do it. But If I do good and take all of it or if I am using the shower attachment I will say good job boy you did it you are all clean for some anal play or anything like that.

Guilty as charged. I'm not sure how much I imagine in my head is being said or I actually say out loud. I'm sure it's a mix of the two.

I don't, I just focus on the warm filling, keeping cramps at a minimum, relaxation, and the happy ending on the last filling. 😜😉

I always talk to myself when taking an enema. That is how I get myself into the "zone." I repeat retro phrases (real and imaginary) from enemas long ago and relive the delicious, indescribable pleaser. I always lie on my back to look up at the bag while it drains into me. And while I am lying there, I might hear the words, "I put you into the tub because I am going to give you a big enema, and you are going to need to take it all because if you don't, we will have to do it all over again." And there are other phrases like, "I think we need to go into the bathroom, and I am going to strip you down, bend you over the tub, and give you a big hot soapy enema." There are dozens of scenarios I repeat over and over, and then I go to the "zone" for a level of pleasure few people will ever know ... except for Us.

When im starting to fill up and watching the bag i will say now take your enema all of it

While most of my enemas have been given to me by mom, then my wife, sometimes on a business trip, away for a few days, I'd get lonely and an enema bag/bulb would become my best friend.

When I've self administered I might have self talk along the lines others have mentioned here but I also have had two way conversations with my mom, my wife, another female, in my head telling me I was getting an enema, etc. and then my reply out loud that I didn't want an enema, enough please enough, etc. etc.

Better than hanging out in the hotel bar!