The other day I was with my partner who I hadn't seen in a while. We had been having a good time and it ended up with them sat on my lap with them looking down at me. At some point the realisation that we had been sliding into a dominant and submissive relationship without realising happened which was exciting and slightly jarring. Deciding to talk about it the next day as it was late we went to sleep. Next day we spent hours looking into having a non sexual kink relationship as they're a sex repulsed ace and I identify as aegosexual.We now have a shared document with body boundaries, affection boundaries, specific types of touch boundaries, what allowed and whats not within our powerplay, things we'd like to try and things to talk about section. This makes me so happy and we spent so long making sure that it was detailed enough with both soft and hard boundaries labelled.I mostly just wanted to share because I'm so happy and ask if there's anything we may have missed? This is our first time in this kind of dynamic so I thought I'd ask more experienced people!