From my point of view, along with my siblings and those of a few friends, I would classify “Enema Dependency” as Urban Myth for the following reasons.
When any of us got sick growing up, we all received daily enemas as long as one of us was still ill. So, there were times growing up, we got daily enemas for four to six straight weeks, returning to normal within a day or two of the enemas stopping. This wasn’t a one time thing, it happened multiple times growing up.
After our RN grandmother taught us personal hygiene as preteens and we were responsibility for ourselves in the enema department. Within a couple of months of school starting that fall, by pure happenstance, my sister an I both needed the bathroom when we got home from school one afternoon. Unbeknownst to each other, we were both constipated and needed a couple of enemas. I was first to say something about needing the bathroom and when I explained the reason, she told me, “I’ve got the same problem. Tell you what, I’ll give you a couple of enemas, then you can give me a couple of enemas.” I agreed, then we both got total undressed, went to the bathroom and took care of ourselves. Our normal routine was a couple of times a week, however, it was daily whenever one of us was ill. And quite frankly, we used illness as an excuse too do more enemas. Because by this time, enemas had become quite pleasurable and we were using them for that purpose over the constipation issues that started my siblings an I doing them together in the first place. And we never had any issues being “Enema Dependent” physically that is.
Once I was married, my wife an I used enemas during sexual foreplay multiple times a week for the first five years of our marriage, and never became enema dependent. On weekends, we were involved with three other couples during those same five years, doing enemas together frequently enough to know, no ever became enema dependent. Always returning to normal within a day or two.
However, that’s not to say enema dependency can’t happen to someone. All I’m saying is, it hasn’t happened to anyone I’ve ever known, who does enemas on a regular basis, be it daily, weekly, or monthly in over sixty plus years.