I am an older married guy, no sex with my wife for a few years, and for several reasons we sleep separately in two separate rooms. My sex is solo but I still enjoy porn, zity, and sex toys as often as possible. I have always been in the “more is better” camp, but last night rediscovered the power of my imagination.
I went to bed as usual, but was not particularly tired. I did my usual routine of scratching my balls and stroking my cock a bit. I finally turned over on my right side, And with my left hand reached back to scratch an itch on my bottom. It felt nice, so I started rubbing my rear cheeks and my anal crack. Shortly my left middle finger found its way to my anus, and started rubbing it slowly and gently. Now I have always enjoyed anal play, but it was always with all sorts of toys and lubes, but I have not tried anything dry back there since crayons when I was five years old. But this was feeling very interesting, so I continued pushing and my muscles relaxed and let my finger inside just a tiny bit. The focused feeling I had on that tiny area multiplied through all my groin, and I knew I had to continue. With each little baby step of insertion I felt more and more aroused. When I had just two knuckles inside me, my mind was racing with fantiasies and I was bucking back and forth like a wild man.
After that long introduction, my question is: Have any of you gents, older or otherwise, had any experiences like this that dispelled the old “more is better” adage? If so, I would love to hear your stories!