What is your Spanking/Corporal Punishment turn on?

I have two things that massively turn me on. The first is photos of clothed women sitting down and pointing to their lap with bare or pantyhose clad legs. If there happens to be a flash of knicker, so much the better.

Although I'm straight, the second is the idea of being in a headmasters study, being ordered to either drop or remove my trousers and underwear, and going over his desk for the cane.

Any comments, what's yours ?

My avatar 😃!!!

Losing all my control being firmly held in place for spankings very hard and long, with no mercy, lasting till well after i can no longer beg or pleas understandably, as in my avatar. Unfortunately, it will not happen BUT my wife has been doing a good job of spanking me with “My Vermont bath brush” 😃!

I couldn't agree more regarding the images of a female preparing her lap for the spanking she is about to give. I would add hearing her demand. Pull down your pants now!

I consider myself fortunate that I have many, near limitless, things related to Corporal Punishment that ring bells.

The one that jumped out at me though when I read the question is the memory of mom saying we'd have to deal with something at bed time.

After my bath, I'd be in bed, in PJs, trying to read a book and listening, watching, for mom in the hall. Sure enough, she'd arrive, come and sit on the side of the bed and review with me what she'd promised would be dealt with at bed time. She'd never be angry. Quiet, firm, no nonsense as she told me how disappointed she was and how sorry she was but I needed a lesson. She'd ask if I knew I needed a lesson, I'd nod and she'd say, “Alright, I'll go and get the spanking brush and be right back,” or, worse, “Alright, I'm going to go and get the strap for you.” I don't know what was worse watching her walk out of my room to go and get a dreaded instrument of correction from her room, or seeing her come back into my room holding it saying. “time to get ready for your spanking Tommy. Please stand up,” or, “Push the covers aside and roll over for the strap now Tommy.”

I couldn't agree more regarding the images of a female preparing her lap for the spanking she is about to give. I would add hearing her demand. Pull down your pants now!

Nothing better in my book…

Being asked “do you want me to use the belt on your ass?” or “would you like to lay across my lap?”

For me it is far more complicated

Being “ told off for a miss deed , because I know I let someone down. ( hate letting people down)

Corner time, esp if this is with skirt tucked into waistband and knickers at knee height. Or troussers and knickers at knee height

The humiliation of knowing he is watching me, and commenting on how my misdeeds affects him and how my body is betraying me.

Than being told to bend over and hold onto my ankles as he comes and stands close behind me.

That hand , resting on my buttocks before that first slap.

So for me the turn on is not so much the physical pain. It is the process leading up to it that arouses me most

Love the mental image of your knickers at knee high 😄

It was the whole situation. I felt I was always in one of two states, recently spanked or soon to be spanked. It was never far away when I was home there was the paddle hanging on the kitchen tool wall or the hairbrush all was on the nightstand in the bedroom. When we were out together a little squeeze of my butt would give me a thrill, so would a lot of other seemingly innocuous little things. Being spanked was never completely out of my mind.

When the spankee has to stand in front of the spanker while the spanker takes down their pants and underwear. You get a nice eyeful of what the spankee got going on in the front and it adds that extra flavor of embarrassment😘

I am not at all interested in the BSDM thing, pain sex or ANY of that sort of thing. However, a gentle, light, bare-ass spanking given by a stern, knowing and mature woman, one of her hands doing the spanking and the other hand administering a hand job in front would really be a fun fantasy for me. If this should ever happen, I wouldn't hate it!

When the spankee has to stand in front of the spanker while the spanker takes down their pants and underwear. You get a nice eyeful of what the spankee got going on in the front and it adds that extra flavor of embarrassment😘

Eye contact is so important when it comes to spanking role play to remind the spankee that the spanker is in control of this whole situation/scenario 💗

I like a good spanking, I don’t want intense spankings but slow methodical start out hand being very verbal ,move to a leather paddle again not to intense but turn my butt bright red with lots of verbal involved,ultimately I want the spanker to be in control and let them decide how things go