I imagine this has been discussed but thought that it might be interesting to see how others have been provided with an exam. This one was done by the nurse coming to me rather than going to a clinic or doctor's office. Here goes:
I thought that I might share my experience receiving a life and disability insurance physical that was supposed to be “nothing” and it turned out to be rather embarrassing. Since it was required, I arranged for the nurse to visit my office at work and be done with it. I was expecting to merely provide a urine sample. It was several years ago when I was 43.
She arrived at the appointed time, 11 am, and I had arranged for no interruptions and brought her into my private office on the 4th floor overlooking the highway. I doubt anyone could see in from across the way so it felt reasonably secure.
She was quite pleasant and reviewed history etc., and then handed me a urine container and told me to go pee. I was not required to provide it with her present and left for the bathroom and returned with the sample in a plastic container shielded in a white paper bag.
Next, she asked me to remove my sweater and shirt for a BP check and to listen to my heart and lungs. The stethoscope on my bare back and chest felt super cold. She also took an oral temp. All seemed to be going fine and I figured it was nearly done until she told me to remove my pants and undergo a posture check.
Stripped down to my briefs was most unexpected and definitely made me very anxious and anticipating what else could be done? I leaned fully over touching toes. She feels my spine and pulls down my briefs somewhat to feel more. My cheeks are nearly bare.
Rather than being permitted to pull them up, she directs me to remove them and present myself for a genital exam and DRE. The reality of being naked in my office struck me like a ton of bricks and also was terribly embarrassed. I wondered if others could overhear me coughing as she squeezed my testicles and rotated them. My penis dangling as she did so. Then I was ordered to lean onto my desk. Gawd how horrible as I had papers and reports facing me while I spread wide open. She parted my cheeks more and did a very fast finger though I did grunt some before removing her finger and then wiping it onto a card for a colo-rectal test. Then she returned and went deeper into me feeling my prostate causing me to gasp. She clearly felt my prostate. She tells me that it’s all over and that I can dress.
She discretely waits for me to dress while putting away her things and finished writing things. I am surely blushing from the exposure and examination. I sighed when she left and hid in my office for some time afraid to return and face my colleagues. I did go to the bathroom, I felt my penis had dripped some in my briefs, and wiped myself from the exam. I felt very gooey and surprisingly aroused but decided that it was best to wait and relieve myself later.