For the younger ladies. At what age did you start masturbating.

This is for our younger ladies. I'm wondering at what age did you realise you could masturbate to orgasm and how did you find out. I'll start the ball rolling by telling you I was about eleven. Touching myself low down was alway pleasant, but one day I saw my older sister touching her pussy quite deliberately. I asked her what she was doing and she told me, ‘I’ll show you" and proceeded to do so. She also watched me while I had my first orgasm. I've been doing it ever since, sometimes solo and other times with my sweet little girl partner.

My wife told me the story of her early years. and once in particular because her Dad caught her. She was 13 before she started feeling erotic feelings, and she used to lay on her stomach on her bed with her hand under herself and rock up and down on her hand.

Her Dad came in and just glared at her and left. she felt humiliated.

Annie3434. You and I are almost alike. I remember my sister after she got out of her bath she would come to the room. Turn out the lights and get in her bed. After some time I would hear her moaning. I felt really bad for her. I thought she was having nightmares. Then when I was 12 I was supposed to be sleeping over at a friend's house. her father got sick and they were taking him to the ER. My house was on the way so they dropped me off. As soon as I opened the door I waved that I was alright and they left. I heard my sister moaning again. If we were doing something we shouldn't like talking on the phone to a boy etc. we would leave our door open a little so we could hear the car pull in the carport. As I got to the door my sister was naked on top of the covers masturbating. We had always been told to only touch down there to wipe and bathe. I watched my sister until she noticed me and freaked out a little. Then she told me what she was doing and how good it felt and that I should try. She said all her friends do it and of course, I wanted to be a big girl too. So I took everything off and she touched me there and just a little rub and told me to do it. She wasn't dumb. She knew if she talked me into doing it also I would never tell mom or dad. Then I had to show my best friend.

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Can i ask how much older were your sisters? Did them showing you that change your relationship with them at all

Reply to stripsearches. My sister was 4 years older than me. No, it did not change our relationship, except after that she never hid her masturbating from me but did it quite openly. I never hid from her either, found it quite erotic having her listen and watch me, but we never did each other.

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Stripsearches01 My sister is two years older than me. No, it didn't change anything at all. It actually made us closer because I wanted to do it a lot. I mean a lot and I didn't have to hide it from her and as I have stated before we shared a room growing up.

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Well I didn't have an older sister to help me. I knew at about age ten or eleven that it felt good to touch there. And the washing machine on spin cycle increased my attention to being rubbed there.

Where I grew up I didn't have many neighbor hood girls to hangout with. But a few friends at school. On a rare occasion I was invited to a sleep over and it was a normal 12-13 year old girl sleep over. The host, let's call her Janet, was leading some activities and it was a fun evening. Then we got ready for bed. And there was challenges about PJs vs underwear and t-shirts. I chose panties and t-shirt. Then once in the bedroom the games started. The self wedgies and walking around and giggling. Everybody was watching butts and camel toes…like we knew what those were. Janet and her best friend were in here bed and the rest of us were on the floor. I did notice that once in awhile Janet had her hands resting between her legs when we were talking about boys and the like. The talk did bring up penises, go figure. And I had brothers so I got lots of questions.

Anyway… so once things quieted down I watched Janet get up and check if everyone was asleep. She had a Jenny Linn bed with a footboard. Hard rounded wood with notched ridges along the top. I watched her grind against the foot board with her crotch. She softly moaned some and went back to bed.

As we were leaving the next day Janet and I were in the bedroom and I asked if grinding like that felt good. She blushed and admitted she loved rubbing and she could get so excited she would wet her panties.

Made me think. I got really familiar with my footboard and soon more orgasms happened. And I haven't stopped since then.

I wonder why this post is directed at younger women - We all learn to masturbate and enjoy orgasms at some time in our lives. How many real young women are members of Zity anyway ?

I wonder why this post is directed at younger women -

I think that using ‘for the girls’ is not much more than a generic way of referring to ladies/females. But by using ‘girls’ it sounds a bit more friendly and perhaps old fashioned.

@Annie3434 wow that’s pretty amazing.

I was 13, I was in the bathtub, what I was doing felt good, and just didn't stop until I came, so it was an accident.

I got really familiar with my footboard and soon more orgasms happened. And I haven't stopped since then.

DAD: “I wonder what's happening to the finish on this footboard?”

FAITH: “Beats me!”

I was very young. In fact, I'm pretty sure I have self-stimulated since I was a toddler as I loved sitting on the arms of chairs. But my first memories were in elementary school. I didn't know what it was until I was much older though. I used to play doctor at a young age too. A neighbor girl remembers when we used to tape tweezers to our arms to simulate IV lines….lol.

I started at approximately ten… my mother caught me which humiliated me however we had our talk. I learnt that the most sensitive organ in the body for teenage masturbation is the ears…

Listening for footsteps.

@concrete "my mother caught me which humiliated me however we had our talk."

I'd like to know more. What happened? 😃

I'd like to know more. What happened? 😃

The humiliation is that she saw me while I was vulnerable, naked with my south pole opened, intimate and private.

The talk was that young ladies should not be doing such things… the usual prim and proper girl talk like I really listened.

Parents were good but there were cultural obstacles that made the talk happened.

Around age 11 I knew something was different ‘down there’. I was an only child so no sisterly help. Around that time I had a really intense physical exam I came home and started examining myself in the mirror and in bed. And of course with all the touching the examining soon became caressing and that's how it all began.

God I was very young. I have a vivid memory of my father walking into the living room and seeing me with my hand in my pants watching TV around age 5 or 6? He beat the hell out of me for it which made me stop doing it in public and only doing it in my room when I was alone. I had an older sister but she was more than 10 years older than me so it's not like it was something I could or would discuss with her. I did find her vibrator around age 12 or so. Now I have a cousin that I did stuff with like @Faith relates. We ‘practiced kissing’ and touched ourselves in front of each other, and later touched each other on sleep overs. I've always had a high sex drive.

God I was very young. I have a vivid memory of my father walking into the living room and seeing me with my hand in my pants watching TV around age 5 or 6? He beat the hell out of me for it which made me stop doing it in public and only doing it in my room when I was alone. I had an older sister but she was more than 10 years older than me so it's not like it was something I could or would discuss with her. I did find her vibrator around age 12 or so. Now I have a cousin that I did stuff with like @Faith relates. We ‘practiced kissing’ and touched ourselves in front of each other, and later touched each other on sleep overs. I've always had a high sex drive.

@Nurse Phillips I hear ya! 😜😉

God I was very young. I have a vivid memory of my father walking into the living room and seeing me with my hand in my pants watching TV around age 5 or 6? He beat the hell out of me for it which made me stop doing it in public and only doing it in my room when I was alone. I had an older sister but she was more than 10 years older than me so it's not like it was something I could or would discuss with her. I did find her vibrator around age 12 or so. Now I have a cousin that I did stuff with like @Faith relates. We ‘practiced kissing’ and touched ourselves in front of each other, and later touched each other on sleep overs. I've always had a high sex drive.

I wish I could have started a lot younger, maybe early teens. There was always a lot of family around until I left at age 18. I couldn't even take a bath without a younger sibling or cousin knocking on the door.

I never had a room to myself. Even when I shared a room with just my baby sisters someone was always coming in checking on them.

I had a daughter around 11 that would sometimes watch TV laying on the floor on her tummy with a round log like pillow between her legs. Didn't really think much about it until one time I realized her breathing was a bit heavy and her face was red.

I had a daughter around 11 that would sometimes watch TV laying on the floor on her tummy with a round log like pillow between her legs. Didn't really think much about it until one time I realized her breathing was a bit heavy and her face was red.

I had a chat with my mine fairly early age that if wanted to do that to go to their room. I think it was more innocent thing but when tired would either have hand there or squeezing a pillow. I think more self smoothing when tired at first but had the talk about what anatomy is private, good touch bad touch and benefit of privacy in room if wants to do that.

For me i was masturbating because it felt nice before double figures i didnt know that it had a name just nice feeling.

@molliewhite Right. Point out that it's not something wrong, but something that should be done in private (and possibly discuss the hygiene / safety issues).

I feel like I first did it really late after all these replies! I started at 15 purely from coincidence of brushing over my clit by accident and wanting to find that feeling again leading to me learning how to masturbate