Taking stethoscope to girlfriends home?

Hi guys!

I have met a wonderful girl and now we have been in relationship a couple of months. I have not told her my fantasies yet but I would like to do that. What do you suggest to do? Should I take my stethoscope to her house next time when I go to meet her or should I first tell her that I am cardiophile?

I would tell her first. It might turn her off if you you just show up with a stethoscope

I think telling her in conjunction with showing her the stethoscope would work best. Cardiophilia is probably the easiest kink of this variety to explain, and you can very easily explain why it turns you on and how it can make for really intimate time between you two

Okay, so I'm someone who has never been in an in-person relationship yet myself, but I have told several people about my cardiophilia already, and there are a number of ways to approach it. If it's a girlfriend specifically, I think the best thing to do is have a nice conversation first. Start off with something you know she'll be interested and talk that out for a while to show her your attention so then when that one is over she'll likely be more open to what you have to say. This is where you can tell her your fascination for human heartbeats, and who knows how she'll react? But almost everyone I've told this to hasn't judged me or even thought of it as a weird thing, so I can only bet she'll probably find it a cute quirk you have. 😃

The next thing you should do is mention your stethoscope since she now knows about your cardiophilia, so you should probably show her the magic tool. See how she reacts and as tense as it will be, the first thing I recommend doing is offering her to listen to your heart. Giving her the ability to hear all the excited emotions for her from within may be a marvelous experience to her! But if it isn't, I'm sure she'll at least still adore it as something that fascinates you. The next thing is to ask her if you can listen to her heartbeat, and there's a slim chance she'll turn you down. But given the friendly conversation from before and the fact that you let her choose what to do with it first, the pressure of you listening shouldn't be there anymore.

Worst case scenario is she finds it weird and you never reveal your stethoscope, but if she's as wonderful as you say, I doubt this will have any negative impact on your relationship whatsoever. Good luck friend! 😃

I think you'd rather tell her first, trying to explain her all about this passion, then you will show your “magical tool” and ask her to listen to her heart. I remember when I got engaged with a girl, and just after a couple of days I told her everything about my stethoscope-philia, so that when I went for the first time to her house, just after one month my stethoscope patient-end was on her mother's back.

I think it's easier to talk about it when you have the talk about fetishes. Generally that talk is easier after you've already been intimate.

Tell her first about your fetish. See what comes of it. She likes the idea. Take your stethoscope and have fun all day and night. May even led to more medical play. Best wishes with the idea

Did You end up taking your stethoscope or telling her your fetish?