Consideration of public

On another site there was an entry with the person wondering if they were becoming a ‘prude’. They thought it inconsiderate to show your diaper or part of it in public. Not legitimate accidents but intentionally. Was wondering what others thought?

I don't consider myself a ‘prude’ but do think that purposely showing our ‘underwear’ in public is discourteous. Also reflects on the ‘displayer’ in a less than positive light. For me this applies to any underwear, and yes, I know, that certain style tops for women can't help but show bra straps; maybe I am a prude, for I don't find that attractive either. I just think letting John Q. Public see my diapers intrudes on their space in an intrusive way. So should I buy onesies or diaphanous slacks?

If you're showing a diaper on purpose, what is that purpose? Is it part of your fetish? If so, then that is a huge no-no. (If not, then you're in denial, or trying to screw with people on purpose.) For fetish play, all participants need to consent. Unless you're in a space where it's agreed upon that fetishes are to be shared, this is breaking the biggest rule.

Goes for all fetishes, this is why it's generally frowned upon to have your partner on a leash in a public space (people used to do this at anime conventions until people figured out this is inappropriate in the later 2010s). Also goes for trying to get your real life doctor to perform an exam or procedure for the sake of your fetish.

My diaper never shows. No reason. I do always wear under shorts, or cooler temps, sweatpants. But, no reason to show.

My nappy never shows unless by accident and I am ultra careful to avoid any tell tale signs I am a wearer, my underwear my business !

I try my best to hide it when I go out. I don't think others needs to know. I do consider the usage and will not poop in them due to smell but will pee in them. As I wear and try my best to cover others don't seem to be bothered if they notice the bulge it creates. I don't think people should show it off for their fetish. For people with difficulty I can understand if they try to cover it up but will show little bit.

This all comes down to common sense and respect to others. As a genuine incontinent person that does wear diapers 24/7. I never on purpose had my diaper to show for any reason. I'm sure of wearing all these years it has showed at one point or another by being an accident. Especially going around in a soggy, soiled diaper that the stench is overwhelming. This is just Wrong! I don't see or understand why people do type of stuff. What kicks or whatever do they get out of this? It just looks bad on genuine people struggling with medical circumstances look bad and disgusting. There's a place for fetish and it's not around people that doesn't want to partake into.

With all the Old Timers wearing modern day “diapers” these days it's common to see them being purchased at the grocery store. It's getting to be a “no big deal” scenario. It's like that comment made in the 1939 Gone with The Wind movie: “Frankly my Dear--I don't give a damn”… Buying adult diapers has the embarrassment level the same as buying a jar of pickles….