Would you prefer virgin enema taker?

Would you prefer to break in a virgin enema taker or rather give one to someone who is more experienced with receiving enemas?

No. I definitely prefer one who is experienced and knows enemas can be so much more than just cleansing.

It all depends on the person. I have given enemas to virgin enema takers and experienced ones before. I have also taken them from both.

I've not had the privilege of either, with wives or SOs. My only enema partner was male and highly experienced. If I have the option in my next life, I would prefer an experienced lady who derives sensual pleasure from receiving enemas and maybe enjoys exploring some other links as well. Seems like a win win to me.

I actually like a first time receiver. their anxiety level and embarrassment is a turn-on, and walking them slowly through their first can be a fun experience for both. I like to go slow and use a wand to take their mind off it and it usually turns out well. I try to avoid large crampy enemas although my late partner lived for them.

Certainly easier if the reciever has more experience and genuinely can make it more fun affair. Guess depends on how reciever reacts.

Given that I enjoy enemas, and do not usually use them for punishment, I prefer a partner who enjoys giving and taking, not merely one or the other. That said, I am looking for a shared experience, which a virgin to enemas would not be likely to provide. So, experienced for me.

I have to admit that I daydream about breaking in an enema virgin, but I think we all agree that like sex, an enema is usually better with some experience than it was the first time.

I have to admit that I daydream about breaking in an enema virgin, but I think we all agree that like sex, an enema is usually better with some experience than it was the first time.

Yep without a doubt. It's still fun to walk someone through their first though. Very exciting.

I've given to two enema virgins and it's not a pretty picture. They crap all over the place. Let me give to a qualified receiver any day.

Would you prefer to break in a virgin enema taker or rather give one to someone who is more experienced with receiving enemas?

I think I would prefer an experienced taker. They would know what they like and how they like it. That then means I could push their limits, boundaries, to add that bit of Domme to make the experience “hot” for me.

But…as I was a virgin once, I might have some insight on how to be a first time taker. Not that my advice might be considered good by some.

@MissStress would you be against a USA-Brazil joint venture? 😉

Za

@MissStress would you be against a USA-Brazil joint venture? 😉

Za

@zaboots There will be no joint ventures without the expressed approval of my sub, he may even need to be tied up in the corner to “supervise”.. I am a one man enema giver currently.

@MissStress that is sweet between you and sub.

I completely understand 😃

Za

Yes, I understand your agreement and dedication to your sub as well. Applause. But nonetheless, an interesting potential arrangement. If he approved and you were to proceed, do you think you’d arrange to fill your sub up with a suitable (agreeable to you both) enema and retention device to serve out his supervision time full?

Eric

On the original query, with the exception of one single enema playmate who I met on the old BethTyler site back in about 1998, I’ve only given enemas to ex-GF’s and ex-wives, a few of whom were enema virgins. I had no problems with any of them, but I would still prefer to give an enema to any future GF if she was already experienced. I enjoy enemas given and received between my GF and I as normal equal playmates or lovers, but even more so doing them as D/s lovers as we have with my last several GFs to add the heightened moaning, groaning and begging plus embarrassment and humiliation to the enjoyment and mutual arousal of an erotic enema.

OTOH, I have to admit that watching a brand new enema virgin lover discover that all the enema sensations she’s feeling are actually making her more and more aroused and needing an orgasm really is a delightful experience for both. I had two different exes many years ago both taking their first ever consensual erotic enema from me. With the first, after filling her with about 2.5 quarts, and starting to work on her orgasm, she really wanted to climax but swore she couldn't do it holding her enema, so she agreed to continue after she emptied herself, and had terrific orgasms. With the second, she thought she could manage to hold it so we kept going and she had both at once. Until we eventually broke up for other reasons, both women continued to love taking and giving ereotic enemas together with me. So first-timers can certainly be successful and erotic, too.

Eric

There used to be three "enema virgins" my family. Their first-time experiences over the years weren't without some embarrasement and anxiety -- I did have a little fun with my husband -- but thankfully no accidents or disasters, which I credit to my expert direction! 😂

However, three "enema virgins" were enough for me. I can't imagine what nurses went through years ago, giving first time enemas to frightened patients to prepare them for surgery -- not something I'd like to do for a living!

It is a bit of fun to have a first timer to see their expressions however most times they start to panic at the first cramp and usually hadn't taken very much before they want to stop so it was never about the volume….

There used to be three "enema virgins" my family. Their first-time experiences over the years weren't without some embarrasement and anxiety -- I did have a little fun with my husband -- but thankfully no accidents or disasters, which I credit to my expert direction! 😂

However, three "enema virgins" were enough for me. I can't imagine what nurses went through years ago, giving first time enemas to frightened patients to prepare them for surgery -- not something I'd like to do for a living!

I would agree. Many, many kudos to my RN mom and her colleagues who gave many medically-required enemas in their careers, and I’m sure got some professional satisfaction out of performing those procedures. But it seems a great deal more enjoyable to explain, perform and coax a playmate or lover through an erotic enema with the goal of a unique enjoyable and erotic experience than a medical necessity.

Eric

OTOH, I have to admit that watching a brand new enema virgin lover discover that all the enema sensations she’s feeling are actually making her more and more aroused and needing an orgasm really is a delightful experience for both. So first-timers can certainly be successful and erotic, too.

I agree with this. It is your job as the first time enema giver to go slow and not get carried away. A good first experience leads to further opportunities later on. My goal is to give her enough to have a good result without having problems or accidents. Sure it can still happen but a small towel ready to put between her cheeks for an emergency can keep any accidents to a minimum. I will sometimes start with a bulb so I can keep track of how much has gone in. After getting past the first I try to get a little more creative with some stimulation. The key is to go at their pace, not yours.

There is a certain elevated level of excitement when giving (or getting) a first enema for other than medically required reasons. But it doesn't always turn out as we would have wished. Truth is, not everybody is going to like it and respond as you do to an enema. As some others have said or implied, you always remember your first, but it was not usually your best. Practice and experience is good most times.

I want a bag whore right out of the gate like me….any questions.

I can see the appeal of a virgin, you can mold and shape them to your desires right from the get go. They may the be much more receptive, submissive, to what you say and want them to do.

Nope….. I want someone who knows and loves them and wants them. I want an lady who I don't have to school.

I belong to a health club with quite a variety of members. I've discussed enemas with many over the years and had quite a few virgin sessions. It's quite fun to see them make the sexual connection. I don't think I've ever given an enema to a lady that wasn't turned on my them especially if I get to go down on them while holding - big O' every time. Haven't done all that many male virgins but a few yes, one was a husband and wife combo - that was interesting. On the other side when I worked in a large Boston hospital I met LOTS of medical professionals that indulged in bag action, always interesting to sample their kinks.

It depends on who the experienced woman is and who trained her. I like to break another women's enema cherry. It's like when they find out you have speculums in different sizes and they have never seen inside themselves or anyone else. I'm not sure if it is because I am a nurse they seem to be more responsive and want to experiment and explore. Sex, speculums, and enemas seem to fit easily for women/women. I have remarked many times on here that I will not let anyone touch me back there unless I am clean. I have been told by a number of young and my age women that I am easy to talk to. It's not like I say right away come to my place, lets have sex and do enemas. Most of the time after a few dates and we are in bed I will bring it up that I don't let anyone touch me back there unless I am clean. This tends to lead into how do I do it. I have only had a few freak-out and think it is gross. Most that were grossed out tend to want to try after I explain it will make sex more enjoyable if they like being touched back there. Some will ask if I did it before we went out. I will say yes and then they will ask if they could try. I think it is fun and really fun when they start having orgasms from me rubbing or licking them while giving them enemas.

I have rather a virgin enema taker… Psychologicaly more interesting. The mix between excitation and fear is always interesting!

I like to encourage and reassure.

And to sit in front of her and to put my hand on her sex when she is expelling is … delicious !

I have rather a virgin enema taker… Psychologicaly more interesting. The mix between excitation and fear is always interesting!

Always different and very exciting. There is nothing like popping that cherry!

I think that, even for experienced enema receiver, you can take them to the edge of their comfort level and be at that point where they are losing control and afraid of what happens next. I find that very exciting, just like with an inexperienced receiver.

I would rather give to a older, mature woman who is more experienced. 😉