Told my wife

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i told my wife abt my diaper fetish. she accept it. now, i enjoy the activity during the weekend 😃

so the idea is, tell the truth to your partner, she may accpet it as part of life 😃

cheers.

My wife told me during one of our "what are you sexually willing to do?" conversations that she's up for most things, but urination and defecation related stuff are out of the question. I had been working my way up to diapers, but at that point I figured odds were good she wouldn't see the attraction I have to diapers.

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My wife loves to see me in my babywear ...usually cloth diapers and rubber pants. Many mornings I wake up with a soaking wet diaper but she loves to baby me and change my pants. Usually leads to great lovemaking.

As far as I know, my wife of 20 years does not know about my diaper fetish.

However, 4 years ago she changed her job, and now cares for sick or elderly adults. She changes incontinence pads, baths or showers them, fits adult-sized diapers to old men. Occasionally the conversation will come around to her work, and what she has had to do for these people.

This morning, as I lay in bed not quite ready to get up, I felt the need to pass wind. However, I passed fluids as well, making a small mess on the sheet. I was horrified. My wife said that she would have to have me in pads. She was not at all upset, and seemed to take the whole thing.

This has made me wonder, does she already knows about my interest?, was this a way of signalling that it is OK for me to reveal my desires?

I am too scared to find out, if I am wrong, and she is horrified by the concept, I might lose her for ever. It is different with a girl-friend, where you can walk away if she does not like it. Our lives are intertwined, I cannot bear the thought of separation.

I told my wife before we were married i figured she deserved the truth.It was after i asked her to marry me.if she wanted out before we got married. it would be simpler for both of us the truth will set you free

That is awsome that she excepts it. Mine just said she didn't like it and didn't want me doing it at all now she just says not around her.

That's really great that you have an understanding wife that loves you for who you are and not by what you wear.

Because of my medical issues that has made me incontinent, I have lost a number of boyfriends. Some accepted the idea and tried it but you can see that it was not their thing however I have had a good relationship with one for a couple of years and it is becoming serious.

Anyway that's great and I am sure that you will be much relieved what ever way you interpret it.

Being in a diaper with some one you love is great i cant think of any thing better other makeing love in a wet diaper telling my boy friend was really easy i all ready knew he was a bedwetter he refuced to sleep with me and I found he had plastic on his bed and I saw diapers in his closet I work in a hotel as a maid I have a few wet bes a week I had a good one i saved it for last I had him meet me at work i took him in that room he say the wet bed and asked if i had a lot of it i then said it dont bother me I am a bedwettr too that was when he told me he wet that was 3 years ago I was 19 22 now I am still with him and still wetting it is fun

My wife knows i wear diapers because my need is actually medical rather than for fun, but you would probably find that your wife may have an incling already of what you get up to in private. They always say about a women's intuition and its true, even if they dont know exactly what your up to, they usually know your doing something sneeky (If your AB/DL and trying to hide it from her).

I wish I could find a diaper girl😃

I could not tell my wife. Doing something different is her being on top.

One of the biggest mistakes blokes make is underestimate their partners - especially when it comes to being secretive, being dishonest and thinking she won't know. Oh, but girls do know!!

The one thing I have learned the very hard way is to be honest and open with your partner/wife, and to respect that they are more astute and observant than you think - by a long way!!

My advice to anyone is to tell your partner sooner rather than later, to be truthful and open. OK they may throw a wobbly and be upset, but they will also appreciate far more the courage you had to tell them. There is always a compromise, always a way round it if true love is there.

Far better than deceit, secrecy and lies!!

It is always better to b honest if it was ment to b she will understand and b suportive or at least excepting my not want to b involved but b ok with it

My wife is much like diaperemikie's. She know about my diapers and my fetish for them, but just doesn't want me wearing them around her. When I did tell her, she suggested that I go see a doctor and see if he can figure out why I have this diaper interest. So, basically a shrink. That was my gift for being honest with her.

Most people won't believe what I am about to say, but as long as I am having the experience, it doesn't matter. I've been fortunate, I told my now Fiancee, and she is fine with it, although it took her a little getting used to it. She later found that for some strange reason, if I sucked her breasts while messing my diaper, it was a great turn-on to her. Now we do it all the time. and many times we have made love, with the front of my diaper pulled down and her on top. She has even made me stay in my mess for an hour or two. She has also worn, but only if we have had a coctail, I guess it lessens her inhibitions. I am blessed indeed!

Personally, I think it would be best to find out well before you get so involved with a person that you end up marrying them, because that's where things can go badly wrong...

I told my wife befor we married about my diaper interest.

She understood that this is a fetish but not why I am excited on diapers.

So after all I have to enjoy the diapers alone...

Told my wife a couple of years ago about my diaper fetish. at first she was fine with it and would actively participate. however recently she told me that she doesn't feel comfortable with it anymore and wants no part of it. how do i get the magic back. she is very open minded except when it comes to this. any help?

I told my wife after five years and she wanted me to get help to get rid of the fetish but i had to tell her that this is something that i cant change and that is part of who i am. she finally accepted it but she told me not to wear them around her.

My wife said the same thing to me also but then i explain to her about it alittle bit she understood and told me not to wear them around her

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told my wife a couple of years ago about my diaper fetish. at first she was fine with it and would actively participate. however recently she told me that she doesn't feel comfortable with it anymore and wants no part of it. how do i get the magic back. she is very open minded except when it comes to this. any help?

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I feel for you my friemd - exactly the same thing happened to me 8 years ago. I met this girl, and we had a superb couple years, though not married. Then she suddenly switched from actively liking and participating in diapers, wearing them, etc. to not having anything to do with them. Heartbreaking... and we split up shortly after. I sincerely hope this is not your case, but my 'girl' started an affair, and was the reason she stopped.

I would suggest, if I may, you talk with her openly and ask why the change. Ask that she is truly honest with you and not 'spare your feelings' - better you know the real truth however bad it may be.

My gf knows but doesent get involved

You might be able to just tell her that you like dressing like a baby/toddler, and dont like to do anything in your diaper. You could lead up to something else later. That way she gets a little at a time, instead of everything all at once.

Good for you guys! Its nice when it works out.

Early in our marriage, I tried to get my wife interested, and she went along with it a little, I guess to humor me, but she wouldn't participate. For whatever reason, lately (we have been married 17 years), she has dropped the word "diapers" into conversation more often than I'd expect, and mentioned how funny it would be to see me dressed up as a Baby New Year (I declined, I didn't want to have this just be a costume thing). So maybe she's loosening up, maybe it's just a coincidence. If she only realized that if she'd just put me in diapers once in a while, and really be in charge of me being in them (so I couldn't say no), she'd have me wrapped around her finger... 😁

I'm currently toying with telling my wife of 18 years as I'm tired of sneaking around. I've dropped a few hints but I'm just a bit worried that she will think me less of a man for like diapers.

I told my ex wife shortly after we met and she was enthusiastic at the time. Skip forward a few years later an it became a bone of contention -big time. She started resenting my fetish and would use it against me in arguments. Boy, that was fun. Anyway, we are now divorced and I'm not entirely sure how to trust other girlfriends with this part of me.