Taking care of my wife's bowel health

My wife suffers from constipation and I have to take her rectal temp and shove laxative suppositories into her anus. Anyone like me here?

Why not give her stool softeners, change her diet, increase her fluids and take for to the dr?

Have her drink lots of water…

Miralax is tasteless and works very well to soften hard poo, making it easier to go.

Miralax works too well. No enemas needed!

Remember that castor oil is the only laxative that will not work in the intestines by irritating them, but by activating and synthesizing certain substances in the human body. So any habituation of the human body or diminishing laxative effect is absolutely impossible. Now I am taking castor oil since August 1992 - this always with the best results.

This post is really fishy to me as a former caregiver and current caree.

Care givers don't “shove ” suppositories they administer or insert them.

Shove is defined as push roughly ,not something a wife or husband or a care giver should be doing .

2nd - the days when rectal temperatures where gold standard are long gone. Infrared and laser thermometers from ear or forehead are more prevalent and user friendly with much less liability to cause harm.

So if this is a kink scenario related posting between consenting adults have fun enjoy and be safe .

However if this is a serious caregiving situation its borderline abusive and negligent. We either care for someone because it's nurturing and we love them and want to restore them to there best health, or we do it as a profession and a way to support ourselves and provide comfort to the sick.

Your choice of wording hints at burden and/or kink fantasy. Maybe you should edit it to make clear, which is it?

And what your intention is with the situation?

My best girl friend that I used to live together with quite a few years ago had a similar need with her bowels that your wife had. She would be constantly constipated every week and need help often to relieve her constipation. Since we shared the same bedroom and bath I was always available to help her with her problem. My girl friend primarily took enemas several times a week to empty her bowels. Quite often though, I would give her a suppository gently up into her rectum about a half hour before her enema to help the process. LOL. Jeanette.

I'm disabled and incontinent so my wife gives me diaper checks through the day and suppositories as needed. usually a few glycerol inserted deep first thing in the morning does the job but if there's no action by lunch its magic bullet time