Type of play doc for ladies

Are you a gentle and comprehensive Doc, or a a strict and bossy one?

If the patient is complaining or is nervous how do you react?

@sofia6969 I’m gentle but firm. I like to be friendly and explain what I am doing during the exam. If my patient is nervous, I will reassure her and explain the exam even more.

I am a gentle Doctor. I look at my patient to observe her reaction during the examination.

I chose my words carefully to raise the tension for her. Not to scare her, but to make her more aware of things.

I tell her what I am going to do. To make her aware of what is going to happen.

I tell her what I see and what I feel, to make her more aware about her vulnerability.

I will not humiliate her, I will be a gentleman doctor.

I will make sure she enjoys it to the fullest and have a great examination.

If I am a play doc, it depends on the person and the reason for the exam if I am gentle or bossy and rough. If the exam is just for fun, I am gentle. If the exam is because the person wants it to be bossy or rough, I will then be bossy or rough.

When I am the one who is getting the exam, I generally like it to start out gentle, but later get bossy or rough. Especially if it is from a group of play doctors who are some males and some females.

In general, I suppose i'm a gentle and comfy one since i must be sure that the patient is in my control and no problems will ever disturb him. but it happens until the patient doesn't begin to behave like a piece of shit.

As play doc, I'm gentle by default unless I was asked by my patient to be strict for the sake of the roleplay.

As patient, I usually prefer a gentle doctor but sometimes, I would also enjoy being bossed around a bit while being examined by a grumpy doctor.

I’d like a gentle but firm and strict doctor when necessary

I would put that in this way:

“Gentle and unyielding with a lot of empathy but if you go too bratty and uncooperative… well, then things get complicated for you and amplify the pain and discomfort, so why resist, when it's for your own good, little one?”

I would put that in this way:

“Gentle and unyielding with a lot of empathy but if you go too bratty and uncooperative… well, then things get complicated for you and amplify the pain and discomfort, so why resist, when it's for your own good, little one?”

Amazing

I guess I am a bit paradoxal but cruel in his actions, and caring and sweet in his words.

Aloof but friendly as long as my patient is cooperating, but stern and even cold if they aren't. Let me make it very clear, young lady (or young man), it is my job to examine you thoroughly, and I will do just that. This is going to happen, so it's better for you if you cooperate; I can and will restrain you for your own good if I feel it necessary.

In general, my habit is to be quite gentle and slow as an examiner. In fact, I somewhat specialize in working with patients who might be younger and more inexperienced, or who are otherwise nervous or uncomfortable with the exam. In these cases, it's often best to be as accommodating as possible, for example offering a good deal of explanation before different procedures, using smaller specula, making sure insertions of fingers happens gently and slowly, allowing the patient plenty of time and space to relax. Usually this works very well, and soon my patients find getting their examinations much easier than before. At the same time, it's very important that exams be thorough and complete, so being gentle is really a means to the end of checking everything as carefully as possible, even or especially in those parts of the exam that can be difficult or uncomfortable (e.g., the rectovaginal exam).

Of course, some of my play patients have preferred a stricter approach, and if that's what they want or need, I'm always happy to provide that. (It's a fun change of pace for me, too.) After all, in the end exams are ultimately about patients being totally exposed to their doctor, whether we get there by discipline or accommodation.

I usually find myself playing the role of the caring gentle doctor. I'm all business when conducting an exam but I do want my patient to feel at ease.

A good bedside manner here. I've had a few patients tell me that I exceed the level of care given by their real Dr's. I also take good notes so I can refer to past information during their next physical.

I do have some patients who like to question some of the techniques applied that cross the threshold of an appropriate assessment, or express apprehension, and I share that it's necessary and provides a better overall result for their examination.

With the above in mind, I talk with each beforehand so I'll know what buttons to push, or what they're looking for with no major surprised. In my experience, each patient wants something a little different than the others.

A good bedside manner here. I've had a few patients tell me that I exceed the level of care given by their real Dr's. I also take good notes so I can refer to past information during their next physical.

I do have some patients who like to question some of the techniques applied that cross the threshold of an appropriate assessment, or express apprehension, and I share that it's necessary and provides a better overall result for their examination.

With the above in mind, I talk with each beforehand so I'll know what buttons to push, or what they're looking for with no major surprised. In my experience, each patient wants something a little different than the others.

ugh swoon… this totally gets me, the caring and thorough kind. especially when performing actually uncomfortable things while asking me to take a breath and assuring me you're almost done.

In terms of corresponding on here, I'd just like to find a ‘play doc’ able to hold up their side of the conversation.

I guess I am a bit paradoxal but cruel in his actions, and caring and sweet in his words.

that's not paradoxal. That's abusive or sadistic. ;]

I am gentle and polite. Skillful and professional. But as in roleplay doctor there is “role” so sometimes my patients ask for a little deviance or a kinky assessment.

Doctor MG

Now that I am older (69), I think it contributes to the Marcus Welby image. I am gentle and polite, and the women I've examined have responded well to that and have been able to feel at ease with me. I especially enjoy doing the stethoscope exam, and all of the women I've examined said that I took more time listening to their hearts than their real doctors did. One of the best patients I ever had was a 22 year old woman who had not been stethed bare chested since she was a child before her breasts developed, and she said that I was the first man to see her breasts. She had never heard her own heart before, so I let her use my cardiology steth to listen to her own heart and mine. I got to perform her first-ever breast exam and teach her how to check the twins at home. I have been able to put a patient so much at ease that she almost forgets she is sitting there topless.

I'm a gentle but firm play doc, I love watching a patients reaction both pre and during exams. The first patients first sight of the instruments, and reaction to the exam.

But I always discuss with a patient what they need and want from an exam and how they want to be treated by the doc.

Always gentle, comprehensive, and well spoken in regard to the medical dialogue. No corniness, or stumbling over the ordered steps of a well planned exam. I at least like to think I do well with a nervous patient having second thoughts.

I am generally gentle but can be form of the patient desires it.

I’d like to think of myself as a bit of a mixed doctor; I’m gentle and compassionate, but there are times when I need to be more strict. When I’m the patient, I prefer a doctor or nurse with relatively the same demeanor.

This play doc has the best patient ever. I desire no other! Thorough and realistic and prolonged are best. I’m gentle, until I’m not. I do crave her telling me it hurts and she is humiliated. Of late, I’ve become too easy on her. She has been topping from the bottom and refusing the anal exam she so desperately needs. I may just insist on her taking an enema next time.

Having a mix of interests grounded in clinical examination, I'd say it all begins with a gentle slow consultation to learn about the patient. Overtime, the patient might change as well, becoming a bit more of something else between submissive and bratty. Treat the patient with what they need to complete the examination and always remember it's not over until the Doctor says.

I believe that basically the exam is to fulfill the patient's medical fantasies, and not really the play doc's fantasies, as that may be the one and only time they choose to do a play exam, so they should have it their way. By the same token, when I am the patient, I want my time as a patient to be enjoyable for me in whatever way I want that particular exam to go. Therefore, it is my policy to discuss all aspects of the play exam before I even meet the patient for the first time, and that includes what kind of a play doc they would like me to be, which is all a part of their medical fantasy. I see it as being an actor playing a role. Now that role may and often does change with each new play patient and even sometimes with my established patients, who may want a different personality type of doctor for their next exam with me. People are allowed to always be free to try a new medical fantasy, it is what makes life interesting. Still, I find that while some may want every exam to be pretty much the same each time, others just want to have new surprises the next time. A good play doc with return patients does get a feel for what each patient will want or accept and will know instinctively what each patient's boundaries and limits will be.

I believe that basically the exam is to fulfill the patient's medical fantasies, and not really the play doc's fantasies, as that may be the one and only time they choose to do a play exam, so they should have it their way. ... A good play doc with return patients does get a feel for what each patient will want or accept and will know instinctively what each patient's boundaries and limits will be.

Totally agree, if only because the person in the patient role assumes more risk because in having their body manipulated by another person. I was (and am) very grateful that my first play doc was 1) very serious about medical role play and 2) was willing to tailor the experience to someone who was completely new to fetish play. He certainly fulfilled a good many of my fantasies during that first role play!

That said, I often think about being in a place where the doc's fantasies guide the exam--which is something that, for me, could only happen after repeat visits build up a really solid level of trust between the doc and the patient. As always, I'd want to have that clear and open conversation beforehand to articulate what my hard limits are, but I'd also like to kick it over to the doc and basically say: You know my limits. I trust you. The body is yours--be creative and have fun! (And let's agree to a safe word in the off chance I feel a need to use one.)

Being in the position of mapping out how things were going to play out was what I needed for those first few outings. Being in a place where there is enough trust that I can give up even more control, for me, just seems like a natural (and exciting) progression of the role play.

I believe I am rather gentle and comprehensive, indeed.

If my patient is nervous I start by letting her listen to her heart with a stethoscope, and mine. For some, inserting the speculum while they listen seems to help focus elsewhere

Totally agree, if only because the person in the patient role assumes more risk because in having their body manipulated by another person. I was (and am) very grateful that my first play doc was 1) very serious about medical role play and 2) was willing to tailor the experience to someone who was completely new to fetish play. He certainly fulfilled a good many of my fantasies during that first role play!

That said, I often think about being in a place where the doc's fantasies guide the exam--which is something that, for me, could only happen after repeat visits build up a really solid level of trust between the doc and the patient. As always, I'd want to have that clear and open conversation beforehand to articulate what my hard limits are, but I'd also like to kick it over to the doc and basically say: You know my limits. I trust you. The body is yours--be creative and have fun! (And let's agree to a safe word in the off chance I feel a need to use one.)

Being in the position of mapping out how things were going to play out was what I needed for those first few outings. Being in a place where there is enough trust that I can give up even more control, for me, just seems like a natural (and exciting) progression of the role play.

I totally agree with you both! it is all about trust and confidence. And in all circumstances it has to be en felt totally safe for the patient. Remember a doctor is there for the patient, not the other way around. This is even more important when you are a playdoc, a heavy responsibility lays on your schoulders!.

I personally as a patient love a professional doctor with an slightly caring hand however, the submissive part of me needs them to get handsy while I become more uncomfortable and they take extra measures to make sure I stay still for a thorough exam how ever they want. Also being specifically a cardiophile, the doctor being in lust with my heart is a massive turn on.