Getting into a gynecological exam game involves being comfortable with your body and ready to break free with your partner. The best is that you know this one or that you have traded before to ensure your confidence.
Regarding the consultation itself, it must take place as in real life. More intimate developments are rarely considered from the 1st session but can be negotiated for the following ones (I am thinking in particular of enemas that are not part of a classic exam)
The first part consists of getting to know each other, answering questions about your gynecological past and your intimate life. You have to get to be confident enough to completely undress.
We will then proceed to the more technical part which must include taking blood pressure, palpation of the breasts, palpation of the abdomen, insertion of a vaginal speculum and examination of the cervix, vaginal examination by inserting 2 fingers into the vagina and by pressing on the lower abdomen then finally touch recto-gainal with 1 finger in the anus and 1 finger in the vagina.
For your safety, make sure that the practitioner is wearing gloves or at least a 2-finger finger cot for touching them and ask them beforehand how their instruments (especially the speculum) are sterilized
Above all, you need to be lying so convinced that you really want to. What memories do you have of your gynecological examinations with a real doctor? Did it make you want to start over for fun?