Meeting a stranger for a mutual emema/spanking session

Over the last couple years I enjoyed reading posts but never acted on any posts or requests. I saw an ad from a member who lived over 100 miles away and we had common interests. We arranged to meet at a public location for a chat and then proceeded to his place. I never had anyone give me an adult enema before and definitely never a spanking. I have a new friend and we will meet again closer to my place.

I have told this before. I have met three girls from online sites. Not for enemas but dating and we met in a public place. One I still go out with. Another was nowhere near what she said she looked like and her photos were fake. The third I watched go into the club with a couple of men. Then it was weird on this site. When I first joined I had a couple of guys contact me on my private email. That was disturbing. I was stalked once. Then I had a girl from here message me and tell me that she was in a hotel near the airport. She named the hotel and wanted to meet in the bar. It was scary because she never said anything about flying in and staying a few days and she said she was visiting her sister. I thought, "why would she stay in a hotel if she is visiting her sister?" She kept telling me that all she wanted to do was give me enemas. What she didn't know is that I had a friend who was the manager at the hotel she was at. We used to work together at an ISP. I called and asked to speak to him and he checked the room and there, in fact, was a girl there but a guy also. So I blew that off. I mean who would want to just give someone enemas and nothing else was to happen. It just seemed fishy. I would never meet someone strictly for enemas. I would meet someone at a public place, talk and get to know them and there has to be an attraction. Meeting just for enemas would be like meeting someone for sex.

All the people i have talked with were to far away…it all sounds fun

Thats why we would NEVER meet anyone in those type of situations for that exact reason. All of our play date/mates are personal friends we have met or friends of friends of whom asked us about bringing them along some time for a meet n greet. Nothing personal, but we don't trust anyone except ourselves and the good lord Jesus Christ in these days of craziness!!!

I have met a few and given enemas and shared them too. Most guys are genuine and want what wifey, girlfriend or boyfriend wont do—give enemas. One guy was so touched he cried. One guy gave me a 3 qt from a barium bag with bigger diameter hose and nozzle and in about 3.5 minutes there was no question— i took it all. One guy got an 8 oz adult bulb of warm soapy water and bitched about having cramps all day—turned out he was a male RN. All in all very special guys loved enemas amd some got a good bj and climasxed as the enema finished—am amazing exquisite pleasure. Chad

I have posted about this before. I have met 3 women on enema sites, gotten to know them over several weeks or months, and then met with them for play. All three women were wonderful and the play was great. Two were single and got married later so that stopped our play sessions. One was already married and when we played her husband was there also. That was not my first choice but it worked out. I remember the first time I was starting to undress her and I turned to her husband and asked him if it was OK for me to undress his wife. He said yes and the play began. I did enjoy watching them have sex while I was present. Our play stopped because I quit traveling to her area.

My husband and I were going to meet another Zity member at a hotel for enema. But it turned out even better because the Zity member ended fingering my butt and pussy and I fingered his butt while my husband watched. I was nervous at first but it was extremely exciting. We did again but then COVID came so we never met again.

It can be done but should take months to get to know each other before you meet so there are no surprises. Even dinner in a public place first so you can each go your own ways and then decide later. The ladies should also tell someone where they are going and who they are going to meet. If you don't have the persons real information and know everything there is to know about them you should not be meeting. That said I do enjoy the first time when she has a big blush on her cheeks and a nervous little smile. Very nice! Stay safe people

Make friends and establish trust first. By the time you meet someone for an enema - or other kinky activity - they shouldn't be a stranger.

Make friends and trust first. By the time you meet someone for an enema - or other kinky activity - they shouldn't be a stranger.

This is EXCELLENT advise.

I'm glad you found someone in the Ads section. I've been keeping an eye out but I haven't see anyone advertise in KY or OH. I think it would be fun to find someone on this forum and eventually meet up with them. Where we could play around with enemas or something else.

I was stalked once many years ago from the old Nozzleville when Nicole ran it. A guy somehow got my address, and eventually my phone (I'm guessing he traced my IP address). I eventually found out ‘his’ name. I then got a bunch of my biker (Harley) buddies to show up where he worked during his lunch break. Never heard another word from him. Guess he didn't want to play after all.

@BigJane Hahaha! It's good to have great friends like that!

Sing this to the tune of “Big Bad Jane”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KnnHprUGKF0

@gwhap “Make friends and establish trust first. By the time you meet someone for an enema - or other kinky activity - they shouldn't be a stranger.”

Said it the best. I have naively meet with people after exchanging lots of messages and have had a few bad experiences. Yes, looking back it was very stupid and yes part of it is I’m still very young and naive.

Agree it’s always best to first meet in a public setting to chat in person! There are some who appear interested but when it comes time to meeting in a mutually agreed public setting, they have an excuse for not doing so!