Enema scenarios that turn you on

If you had the chance to give someone an enema, which of the following would turn you on the most? (A) someone totally resisting the enema in need of a spanking while getting it (B) someone eager to receive an enema gyrating their hips and responding by orgasm, or (C) someone lying very still and unresponsive oblivious to what's going on. Option (C) is a major turn-off to me, but I am torn between A and B.

For me, definitely B. I enjoy most when my play partner enjoys. Given that, if my play partner enjoys being spanked or hit with a cane, I will happily oblige too - but resistance does not do anything for me.

Most definitely scenario A for me. 😈

Actually I like a little fussing before the enema. A few swats to redden the bottom and a little fussing and squirming as I penetrate that secret place. A flush on both ends is particularly exciting to me. If she gives off an embarrassment vibe while I prepare to insert the nozzle I always think that is hot. Walking to the potty doing the little dance with her cheeks clenched does it for me too.

Either A or B …..

I'm not very fussy.

B for me anytime. 😜

B. Although I rather think that in reality there are a lot more than just three reactions.

B would really turn me on.

A mix of a-b

B. Although I rather think that in reality there are a lot more than just three reactions.

I’m sure you’re right. Let me offer another reaction that my switch Domme and I (as her enema sub) would do most of the time. It’s between or a mixture of OP’s A and B. We love the D/s roles especially taking enemas (mostly me receiving but sometimes she loved being sub to me and getting filled, displayed and orgasmed). What we both enjoyed was having the sub be a little resistant and very vocal about not being made to take a “forced” enema. This would go on most of the whole enema plus orgasm time, so the sub would enjoy moaning and begging and the Dom(me) got to enjoy listening to all the submissive whining while dominantly forcing the sub to do her/his will. (e.g., among others, frequent comments or instructions would be Oh, yes, I’m inflating this rubber balloon in your ass until it’s tight enough; just relax and don’t fight it, subbie, ‘cause you’re getting every drop in this bag; don’t fuss about your belly getting nice and tight and big since the water’s going in until you get to the right belly size………….etc., etc.,etc……..) This would commonly go on for a few hours, sometimes even extending the enema hold overnight. We accentuated it all even more by forcing our other mutual kinks on the sub, which was usually rubber suits, gloves and hoods, thick rubber canvas sneakers and some bondage. Really wonderful time for both of us.

Eric

A) The sub not wanting to submit to an enema, then squirming / struggling as it's administered to them no matter what. Then having them embarrassingly having to expel in front of you.

Actually I like a little fussing before the enema. A few swats to redden the bottom and a little fussing and squirming as I penetrate that secret place. A flush on both ends is particularly exciting to me. If she gives off an embarrassment vibe while I prepare to insert the nozzle I always think that is hot. Walking to the potty doing the little dance with her cheeks clenched does it for me too.

Moppy,

How do you mean a flush on both ends? Meaning her bottom turning red after “a few swats” plus a facial reddish flush from her embarrassment? Or something else?

Eric

B for sure. But adding a bit of role-play, with feigned resistance, could be fun as well.

My mother telling me... "Mike! If you want me to give you this enema, You had better come in here now! If you don't, I am going to take it down! And, if I do! I do NOT want to hear another word about you wanting me to give you an enema!!!"

A. For sure knowing that “There will be a spanking either during or after” 😃

Moppy,

How do you mean a flush on both ends? Meaning her bottom turning red after “a few swats” plus a facial reddish flush from her embarrassment? Or something else?

Eric

That is exactly what I mean. The embarrassment factor is very cute for me.

That is exactly what I mean. The embarrassment factor is very cute for me.

My switch Domme ex and I would trade enemas but mostly me as the sub. We weren’t much for spanking, but would do a little now then to remind the sub who was controlling their colon and fate. But embarrassment and humiliation between the two of us was a huge turn on. We’d mostly enjoy it during enemas through the giver giving firm orders and narration about what was definitely going to happen to the sub and then the delightful squirming about and moaning, groaning and begging we’d love to both express as well as hear as the filling, long retention and distention progressed.

Eric

A…That's the way I received my enema's growing up. It didn't matter who was giving it to me, my mom, Aunt, Uncle, or Step-dad I would always put up a fuss and protest when I was told to get undressed and come into the bathroom for my enema. The giver was always annoyed at my antics so I would go over their lap where they proceeded to spank my naughty bare bottom till it was bright pink and me crying.

Even to this day if I find a good role playing E-Mate who is a Dom or a switch I will act out what I did growing up.

Some smirks rising here - prepackaged answers waiting for the question to pop up. Let's see: "spanked", "hit", "cane", "swats", "redden the bottom", "forced", "struggling", "crying"...

No brainer. Even if there's «more to the picture than meets the eye» (Dr Higgs hit the nail on the head), it's a solid B for me. As I see it, C is the most depressing scenario.

I forgot: no woman dropped a line to date.

Well, A types, have fun... 😈

How about none of the above (or below, as the case may be? The dom/sub relationship is certainly present in many situations involving enemas; yet there is another side(?) to things. How about giving or receiving an enema as a loving part of the relationship? Gentle, erotic, surrounded by an atmosphere of caring and with the purpose of pleasure and mutual enjoyment. A guy giving a woman an enema and in so doing employing soft touching and caresses; teasing her rosebud with the nozzle, playing with it to heighten her senses and letting the solution flow gently to warm and sooth her insides while setting the stage for either retention, insofar as that pleases her, or expulsion with the accompanying feeling of emptiness and comfort if that’s what sets her mood? How about an enema given in such a manner as to make her visibly wet, allowing her to pleasure herself while the hanging bag empties itself into her, or pleasuring her by whatever means she most likes, and bringing her to orgasm at the appropriate time?

Just a thought….now moving on….

“B” for me, but with a little of “A” mixed in!!!

A and B for me. leaning more towards B.

Since I'm an “A” with a bit of “B” mixed in, what's good for the goose is good for the gander…

Somewhere between A and B for me .

H. How about giving or receiving an enema as a loving part of the relationship? Gentle, erotic, surrounded by an atmosphere of caring and with the purpose of pleasure and mutual enjoyment. A guy giving a woman an enema and in so doing employing soft touching and caresses; teasing her rosebud with the nozzle, playing with it to heighten her senses and letting the solution flow gently to warm and sooth her insides while setting the stage for either retention, insofar as that pleases her, or expulsion with the accompanying feeling of emptiness and comfort if that’s what sets her mood? How about an enema given in such a manner as to make her visibly wet, allowing her to pleasure herself while the hanging bag empties itself into her, or pleasuring her by whatever means she most likes, and bringing her to orgasm at the appropriate time?

That describes what happens in a lot of instances. I always try to make it erotic, that's the whole point. Spanking is up to the spankee. My late partner loved a hot ass then a good enema with some stimulation. To each their own. I really do like the red faced embarrassment factor though, very cute!

That describes what happens in a lot of instances. I always try to make it erotic, that's the whole point. Spanking is up to the spankee. My late partner loved a hot ass then a good enema with some stimulation. To each their own. I really do like the red faced embarrassment factor though, very cute!

As I mentioned earlier like you I especially like the humiliation of giving an enema, and a nice facial flush and sweating is great. But my best greatest enjoyment is from the vocal sounds of moaning, groaning, complaints and begging, whether she or I are the sub that night. Delightful.

Eric

A and B for me I think😃

I can think of another scenario for enemas that I really like. It is to be told that I will be given enemas as a means of punishing me. That they are going to be repeated until what comes out of me is as clear as what goes into me and each enema will be slightly warmer or hotter and larger than the last one. Eventually large enough to force me to have to throw up from the pressure inside of me. This enema will, of course, have to be given to me with one of those inflatable double balloon nozzles up my butt and with me being held down, but not tied down for it.

As for the one giving the enemas to me, I am a male and I like them better from other males. However, I will also submit to this from a female. Even to get this done to me by a group of males is also a turn on for me. Especially, if the males tell me that after my digestive tract has been well cleaned out that I am going to be taken anally be each one, one right after the other is a turn on. Of course, I will have one right in this and that is that I can insist that they all use condoms – no bareback.

I'm going to suggest a (d) option: being told you need the enema, and cooperating because you believe you “have to.” As much as you don't want it - and as humiliating as it is - you do as you're told. You helplessly comply with whatever your “caregiver” instructs - no spanking needed.

I believe A, B, and D all have their place. And couples should change, often, not do the same all the time. Repetition can get very dull.

So to me do them all. Dream up new ones. Dress up. Be naked. Be your fantasy. Creativity is the key to long lasting, pleasurable relationships.