How to get her/him to share t… | Enemas for the ladies 1/1

Okay, ladies, this one is for you!! I’m not sure whether it’s a “survey”, a need for some “stimulation”, or a request for help (probably this).

My SO (i.e. wife) is not into receiving. She is very comfortable giving, but I think the first, and only, time I got her to indulge, I may have been a little too forward and it didn’t turn her off per se but she didn’t have a pleasant or exciting experience. I need some guidance about how I can get her to try things again with, hopefully, a better outcome. So, I need/want to know what, or how you get turned on by being given an enema. Let’s try this systematically, to satisfy my need for structure, (Hope this isn’t too clinical, but I really would be happy to have her as part of my kink.)

Questions basically all boil down to “What turns you on (sexually) about getting an enema”?

Nozzle? Type (adult rectal, such as might be used with a regular bulb; douche, either the common fluted used with most douches, bulbous – larger end, or other; penis shaped – from a couple inches to humongous; butt plug style – again from an couple inches to really big; or colon tube, from 15 inches or so on up?

Insertion? Stimulation of your anus (as in just when the nozzle is touching your butt and entering); feelings of longer “tubes” further up your rear?

Flow? First sensation of water, when you begin feeling or sensing fullness, when you start cramping or really getting uncomfortable?

When do you start getting wet? When do you start feeling “horny”?

What do you really like most about the experience?

Do you make love while holding or after expelling?

Do you fantasize and what about?

Bottom line, how can I help my lovemate more amenable to participating with me in enjoying what I think is my ultimate kink? (Doesn’t that alliterate nicely…lol!!!)

Thanks all for your help. Guys, feel free to add to this, but I really want to get the ladies perspective!

This ones right up my canyon.

Nozzel long and bumpy medium or large bore faster fill less presure long makes it easier to take. my fave. Ball Style Sealing Silicone Enema Douche Nozzle (siliconenozzles.com) I stick it in till there is just hose outside and my hole closes over the top of it.

Excitment Anticipating the enema watching the bag fill and the air being sent out of the hose. I lay down and close my eyes then feel the finger lubing me Usualy sets me off . The insertion is a minor part of the experience .

Flow I do 4 quartz I feel presure a little after 3. At 4 I feel I have to go but enjoy the sensation and hold it in till it settles or I nearly erupt. Cramps are not a thing unless its done wrong the bag not totaly filled or the hose not filled with water first leaving air in the system.

Geting wet wile the bag is being filled sometimes later handling the nozzel.

Like the most. The sound of the water going in to me and feeling myself expand. The release when I am a lone just let it rip out blasting farts and gloop going AWWWWW ! Its embarasing with company.

It is just recently I accepted having company wile doing my enema. It was allways a solo experience for years before that uunles it was for a sceen in the play room.In the play room it is a control experience not the same as a plain gentle enema to poop or relax. Now I do it with my girl friend we do it together and recently like just this week had my Husband/ Master in the bathroom chating with me about geting a new satelite dish and actualy felt comfortable doing my enema with him there and evacuating infront of him. Before I would ask him to leave . Like I filled the bag and everything with him there and felt totaly normal. I feel proud of myself for that. It may become a together thing.

Making love .Wile holding I like light stuf just making out no penetration. After I have evacuated a good long fuck up the arse feels great. Wile holding I am not aposed to a vibrator in the cunt or a visit by MR Hatachi.

Fantasy I realy just drift into the experience. A lone I like music and a blanket if its cold . I can lay there all warm inside and out for a long time all relaxed some days. Even nap filled up.

It is realy up to your love mate. Some people just don't like having an enema or prefer doing it alone. Let her make the sceen. Posibly if she has more control like the choice of equipment it may be more of a safe experience. A little romance can go a long way. Please sweetie let me stick this up your arse anfd fill you with water pleaaaase! is not much of an enticement. Sort of sounds bad of me but well bribes can work wonders against inabitioins. I turn a little red admiting this vonerability.