Websites or apps for meeting other people into enemas?

I haven't been able to meet anyone for enemas on FetLife or Zity. There's really not a lot of personal ads in my area and they are usually cis men looking for cis women.

Does anyone know where to find people for enema play?

It’s hard trust me!

I have been using Alt.com. It IS a PAY site but I have to say I have had very good luck for several years. Granted, I am located in New York City. You have a better chance being located in or by a large city. Good Luck.

I know this sounds dumb… what what does “cis” mean?

Okay …..what is CIS?

In addition to FetLife and zity, here are three options.

• enemaguys..com - this is great site devoted to gay male enemas. It is free, but donations accepted, and well-run.
• spankthishookups.com - this is a free gay male spanking site, but interestingly many of the guys there are into enemas. Some say it on their profile, others not. If you indicate an interest in enemas, guys will reach out to you.
• Recon.com - this is a much ‘heavier’ BDSM site, but guys there into enemas.

Connecting with guys can be very wonky. Some seem interested then veg out. I find my best buddies are those I have connected with and can form a friendship and we have some chemistry together.

I have tried the recon app but they really don't like trans people there. At least in my area.

Cis is people who are not trans. Short for cisgender. I spend most of my time around trans and queer people and often forget everyone doesn't know that word.

I have tried the recon app but they really don't like trans people there. At least in my area.

Its a common problem in society, even in the bdsm scene there is a large representation of people openly against trans. Always found it wierd, why openly opose transgenders, if you dont like it, simply dont interract, why protest against what someone else has in their pants….

So cis stands for transgender. I’ve been around gay- transgender my entire life up until ……now Actually. My friend that grooms dogs is gay. My cousin was gay- trans I’d say. He dressed as a woman. Up until he died from illness a few years ago. I knew his friends too. Went to his shows. To his favorite night spots. Had a lot of fun together. Miss him/her a great deal..

So cis stands for transgender. I’ve been around gay- transgender my entire life up until ……

Cisgender is the opposite of transgender…

@Dr_Philip Philip Cisgender is the opposite of transgender…

Yes - it is a person whose gender identity matches their sex assigned at birth and whom feel this gender describes them. Also - Cisgender describes gender identity. Straight describes sexual orientation. Being cisgender isn’t the same thing as being straight, but they can overlap: People can be both cisgender and straight.

Over the years I have met a few good enema buddies on this site but as others fave mentioned they are few and far between. If I could add another site to the list www.silverdaddies.com. I have met many guys into enemas on that site just by searching for the term enema. I would also like to say enemaguys and fetlife are very good sites for finding others into enemas.

Good Luck everyone

ps. Also a great way to find others into enemas is to attend a efest. Always a great time and lots of like minded enema lovers.

It seems to be easy or at least easier for guys to meet guys for enema and bi-sexual play than it is for a guy to meet a woman, as men greatly outnumber the women. Women onto enemas are our queen bees - with lots of us drones buzzing around hoping to find one…

What are good sites for meeting women that enjoy discreet enema and wet diaper play?