Who else knows that you get enemas? (besides your enemate)

My shadow

My shadow

Only the shadow knows. 😃

@Luscious_Liza My mother-in-law as me how do I stay so slim ...my wife said he gets weekly enemas !!

Wow! - exposed by your wife. Could start a thread about wives and spouses exposing to other their spouses enema interest.

Several of my cousins know because we all got soapsuds enemas one after the other as part of a "Spring Cleaning" during the Easter holidays at my grandparents' home, plus several of my aunts and my mother's female friends because they discussed enemas they gave their kids and even shared recipes. Several of my schoolmates know because we sometimes talked about being given enemas when we'd been sick.

When I was getting enemas one aide would focus on administering it as two others focused on ensuring I was all right. When you have a person who can’t protect themselves or act independently it becomes a team activity, I would be positioned and secured in my toileting chair in bedroom by my safety aides and then wheeled into shower the aide who would be in charge of administering it. They would have been in bathroom preparing it and insuring the bathroom was as safe as possible, once in the shower the bag was hung, nozzle inserted and balloon inflated, a bucket slid into the chair & after about 20 minutes the balloon would be deflated and the nozzle would self extricate as the desired enema effects happened. I would always receive and retain mineral oil versus a strong castile soap or bisacodyl meant to clean out any stool that was lubricated by the oil, the mineral oil residue would frequently make guest appearances in my diaper.

Currently… only my wife and a former girlfriend… of course my Mother did when she was alive, her Mother and I suppose my Father too..

@gboy could you talk about this "spring cleaning"?

Brazilian. The "Spring Cleaning" started at suppertime on the Wednesday following Easter when we boys were given prunes stewed in senna tea for dessert. We had to eat as many prunes as our age in years. Then at bedtime we were given 1 or 2 tablespoons of Castor Oil which caused urgent runny diarrhea early the next morning. Once we had all gone we were given a big hot soapsuds enema using green liquid medicinal soap which we were forced to hold for 5 minutes. This was followed by a dose of bitter metallic tasting worm syrup washed down with senna tea. We weren't allowed to eat anything all day and the worm syrup and senna tea were repeated again at lunch and suppertime. Before going to bed we were given a dose of Epsom Salts in warm water which had us up several times through the night pooping out loose watery diarrhea that sometimes had tiny threadlike worms in it. First thing the next morning we were given another soapsuds enema that had a teaspoon of turpentine in it to flush out any remaining worms. We were all so totally emptied out that it was several days before we had another bowel movement and if we hadn't had one by Sunday night we were given a dose of our usual laxative. For me it was Feen-a-mint or Ex-Lax and for my cousins Agarol all of which contained phenolphthalein at that time and sure got us pooping again.

@gboy this and more than cleaning is torture.

Until now no one knows; until... once a friend's wife said to me that she knew what I was into...

When I asked how she knew that and what it was, she just grinned...🤔😎

I'll ask her about it again when I get a chance😎

Since a few weeks we have been leaving two bags with tubes, nozzle and colon tube hanging on the inside of the bathroom door. In the meantime, some friends and acquaintances were in the bathroom to wash their hands. Nobody has said anything yet. Well, you only see these things if you close the door from the inside...

Who else knows - well safe to say everyone here does 😉 and that's a good feeling. 😄

My lover and enema partner are the only one who knows, they are the same person.

Recently, I added a neighbor. I couldn’t resist. She retired after 40 years as a medical surgical nurse and then did home care for several years. She’s 83 but looks younger. We met while I was walking my dog, and I was admiring her garden.

We got to talking about her time as a visiting nurse, and I shared with her my story of having home nursing from a wonderful young nurse in my 20s. I opened up and told her that the nurse taught me many things about home nursing that I would use caring for my family, including how to give an enema.

Catherine used to give enemas to prepare patients for surgery and also during home visits if ordered by a doctor. She said that an enema is good therapy for the body when a patient is ill. A warm water enema can help calm the digestive system and let it rest. Nurses don’t know about any of this today. Much of society is phased out the water enema and embraced the pharma disposables, which are nothing but salt water that you can mix and do in a bulb syringe for free.

I hope that we will have more chats. She said if I ever needed her help for anything, she lives only a block away. I could feel my mind beginning to fantasize. Sometime when I’m not feeling well, I would love to call her and ask if she would come over, be my nurse and give me an enema. I wonder if I could throw my inhibitions to the wind, and would she do it? It’s fun to think about!

When married, my ex made sure her mother and best friend knew she administered enemas.

My mom gave me my first enema at age five, as part of a punishment for playing “doctor” with a neighbor kid. I think she would have been too embarrassed to tell my dad about it so only she knew about that one.

I knew I was being punished, but when that warm water shot into me, I was surprised and also thrilled with the sensation of warm water filling my bowels. All through my teenage years, when no one else was home, I would sneak into my parents’ bathroom and used my mom’s enema equipment to self-administer enemas. I always tried to put everything back the way I found it so my mom wouldn’t notice something was misplaced or wet or whatever. If she did, and she probably did, she never mentioned anything. I was one of six kids, but by then the three oldest were gone. I doubt the other two kids received any enemas, punishment or otherwise, so if she suspected anyone, it would have been me. I think she just let it go because she felt guilty about punishing me as a child that way. I’m grateful she did because giving me that enema started my interest in and love for enemas for the last 60 years.

Not long after my wife and I got married in 1979, I talked to her about the benefits of enemas. She wasn’t interested, but had no problem with my enjoying them whenever I wanted. About 10 years ago, she let me give her several over the course of several weeks, hoping they would help with her constipation.

Our daughter knows that I get enemas and that my wife got a few.

I mentioned enemas to a daughter-in-law and gave her some equipment so she knows.

So, that’s four women in my life who know I get enemas, but only my wife knows that I get great pleasure from receiving enemas.

Oh, I forgot two others. Our youngest son and his wife know because they have seen all the enema equipment hanging in the bathroom. I have just never discussed it with them.

"Who else knows?" That's the prime reason I joined here; so that I do not feel alone or outcast as a result of my love of enemas.

There are several who are aware of my use of enemas. Aside from those with whom I've shared this wonderful procedure, my former urologist and his staff were aware.

I've also shared with several colon hydro-therapists and nurses who administered enemas and colonics to me. They were quite the advocates as well.

Undoubtedly, some family members are also aware, but the topic isn't discussed very often. They've likely observed some equipment hanging or stashed in a particular drawer. I've also handed off a disposable bag if it appears to be a viable solution prior to a test, procedure, or for a migraine or digestive issue.

It is not a recent discovery that I am into enemas, however I do not have an enemate so I usually self administer... safe to say it was only myself until I came here on zity biz, I guess it's everyone else on here now 😃

Nobody and that is what makes it more fun, not my thing except to feel clean inside.

My Willliam however loves them, and if I do not advise him he would do them too much.

He is on Parkinson's medications, rather a lot as the disease progresses, they work in the colon not the tummy.

I worry that he is pushing his meds through his body too fast, I think I need to talk to the doctor.

I do not to embarrass him(well maybe a little) I am sure Doctors in real-world deal with and hear much worse.

Peace.

Caz.

My partner does (duh), and so does my GI doctor who I have asked questions about safety/equipment and other health related issues concerning enemas over the years (and who has prescribed enemas for medical purposes on a number of occasions, including some very unpleasant ones. My point is, the topic has come up), a couple of female friends of mine who have been dealing with similar conditions as me, and probably my roommate, because it’s my house and I don’t always feel like hiding my bags and nozzles (I won’t leave everything in full view but I won’t lock it in a safe, either. I have never talked about the different reasons why I take enemas nor have I flat out said that I do, but we have shared a place for around a decade and, even if he is not the most observant of people, I am sure he has a hunch that I do what I do. He is strictly a roommate and there’s never been anything sexual between us and he has never made any comments or asked any questions about this or other activities that I engage in for pleasure or for health reasons and that would be considered personal and private by most. I’m very comfortable with the fact that I love enemas but I’m thankful that it’s never come up with my roommate).

Occasionally -and not in a while- I was given enemas after a lower GI series (barium enemas for you) by a nurse. That was essentially the case shortly after my fiancé passed away and I had to get through all the usual medical tests alone for the first time in my life and was extremely overwhelmed and sad, not to mention uncomfortable af. Those enemas were far from erotic procedures but I was thankful that they offered them and I remember mentioning to the kind souls who gave them to me that I had previously been given them by the man who would accompany me to the hospital and would comfort me after the more challenging days. The nurses were kind and patient and I have very positive memories of those days (nothing arousing there but it was comforting and it did help me feel a little bit better and less alone after a rather unpleasant test).

I might have mentioned my fondness for enemas to others but it was something that was routinely ignored. Zity, in that regard, has been a great place to explore my fantasies and be reminded that I am far from alone in craving what I crave.

I think the number of people knowing that I got an enema recently grew. A few weeks ago, I needed an enema the night before and the morning of a medical procedure. I live in a condo community and always smoke a cigar on the rear porch after eating dinner. On the night before my procedure, I was just about finished with my cigar when I heard the sliding glass door open. My wife walked out and was holding our enema bag, which was filled to the top. She instructed me to put down my cigar and to follow her so that she could give me my enema before the water got cold. I quickly obeyed, went into our home, and closed the sliding door. When I looked out the door, I saw residents in the building across from mine looking at my unit. I know that they had to see or hear what just transpired. Because of the way sound travels in my community, anyone else, who lived in my building and was sitting on their back porch, would have heard my wife's announcement. So far, nobody has come up and asked me how my enema was.

Only my Colon Hydrotherapist.

She has been amazing. We began our sessions years ago with the standard colonic and implant. She later added 1 liter coffee enemas. As time went on, and I felt more comfortable, I opened up about my enema use and she began to let me bring in my equipment and give me enema(s) after the colonic. She now knows about everything, including this forum. Not only does she indulge my desire to have someone GIVE me enemas, but also my need to TALK about enemas. While it is obvious to her (all the dripping. lol!) that enemas can be sexually stimulating, nothing sexual has, or will, happen between us. I have been VERY, VERY careful to treat her with respect. (Which is why I hesitate to post about her, despite having her blessing.) As I have posted before, I know from this forum I am very lucky to have found her.

She is always booking appointments two months in advance. She does not NEED me to come in 2-3 times a year. She has a hard time finding time for her monthly/weekly regulars. She tells me that none of her other clients indulge in enemas as I do. And she is friendly, supportive, and game for whatever I bring in for equipment. Based on that, I believe she enjoys giving me an outlet for my enemas. I always leave our appointments feeling wonderful.

While I do not have a true enemate, I am so lucky to be able to indulge my enema desires with her. I cannot wait for my next appointment in a month!

@eneman10 - Indeed, you DO have a true enemate!! Regardless of your/her professional relationship, anyone who can share your relationship with "the bag" without judgment, can support and enable you with nurturing that relationship, and understands (as she obviously does) your affinity for your "kink" is indeed a true enemate! You are most fortunate.

Regards,

duhwizzard

p.s. - I would be willing to bet that, in your fantasies, you have shared many an enema with her...and most likely more!! (lol) Enjoy!!!

Before i get married many years ago, i always try to share to girlfriend in turn, some accepted some not. So i have several enemates though the years,.

And besides my wife and these Girls no one knows my afection to enemas, sad my wife dont like practice so i still do it alone and when i can.

Well… a fair amount of people ( my wife, 3 sisters in law, and anyone who has been around if the topic comes up) know I take enemas for health reasons like constipation or upset stomach. I readily tell anyone about using enemas for health reasons if the opportunity arises. But only my wife knows I take them for any other reason. I’ve explained to her that I take an enema about every 2 weeks even when I’m feeling fine just because it’s comforting and makes me feel good in many ways. I’ve never explained the erotic element. So it’s kind of a mixed bag.

Only my ex. She didn't participate in my enema fetish with me, and often used it against me in arguments. So lesson learned - I'll keep it to myself in an unlikely event I'll find myself in a vanilla relationship again.

No adult friends, but when I was a kid, all my friends did. There was an enema bag hanging in everyone's bathroom. My dad put a toilet in the basement room and built a padded table next to the toilet When my friends came over to swim we used that room to change and an enema bag always hung above the table. If my parents weren't home, sometimes we gave each other enemas. It was never a big deal. Erections were always on display.

I am a male and have been doing enemas for a very long time. I keep it to myself and never bring it up in casual conversations. I have had conversations with different people and all of a sudden they start talking about enemas. About 80% of the time is ladies and the remainder is men. One male was my neighbor, he was in his mid 20s and living at his moms house. During one conversation he totally left the subject we were on and said “mommies and their enemas”. Then he told me his mother was giving him weekly enemas and he didn’t really like it. Women usually bring up enemas concerning themselves or their children. The point of this story is that the subject is who else knows I get enemas? It’s everyone !. People who are into enemas look healthier and younger for their age. People just seem to be aware of others that are into enemas and will discuss it with you when they feel comfortable with you.

Only my partner and the doctor that prescribed the coffee enemas. And you of course 😉.