Wives and Husbands - How often do you play with enemas?

@sirensong and I are very curious about how often, and how other married couples play with enemas. For us lately, it's been almost weekly, and it has made our ‘traditional' sex life even better than it was before. While we're not into enema play outside of our marriage, I think we would enjoy becoming ‘pen-pals’ with other similarly-minded wives and husbands. Who knows what we could learn from each other!

About every 4 to 6 weeks but usually she giving me enema and she does not like to receive, but I lwould love more but happy get what I get

We play about once a week. She does not receive, but is more than willing to fill me up. Regular sex has become less of the norm than enema play.

But trust me… she gets to enjoy my tongue between enemas.

I get an enema from my wife every 3-4 weeks, she doesn't like enemas, so I only get to give her one if she has a constipation issue that lasts 2 days. I enjoy the sessions and she is really good at giving enemas, so I'm happy!!

Every 2-3 weeks here, unless there's a need for more frequent ones

Just a question for all, primarily the ladies. What is the best way to convince my wife to at least give an enema a try?

I do a shower enema daily with my morning shower after my run and work out. My husband does one upon occasion as well, but not as many as l. We do together enemas at least 2x a week and sometimes we leave a Sat or Sun open for a full/total clean out and play. Sometimes we have our play friends over and that will lead to at least a bag or 2.

Every 2-3 weeks here, unless there's a need for more frequent ones

My wife let me give her one about 30 years ago. 😃

@Flushky …. 30 years ago I was just working up the courage to tell @sirensong that I fantasized about her being my nurse!

@Flushky …. 30 years ago I was just working up the courage to tell @sirensong that I fantasized about her being my nurse!

And look where it ended up. Congrats. 😄

Well, since we started this post 5 weeks ago, @sirensong gave me a very memorable enema, and I have given Sirensong 3. Physically she needs them more than I do, and besides, I really like caring for her that way. It turns me on to give her an enema - and I know she was the last time she gave me one. So, I guess I'm reporting our answer, which is 4 enema dates in 5 weeks.

We have been married for nearly 50 years and we enjoy our enemas weekly. Usually on Saturday or Sunday. My wife didn't like enemas as much as I did at first, but now, she's always wanting that tube. 😃

Honestly, it's been a while!

One day I pointed that out and told him I didn't mind doing that, but the next time we do it, it's HIS turn to be on the receiving end!

Since then he has avoided the subject entirely. Not only has he not done it, but he does not really want to discuss it.

We HAVE found other ways to have fun! None of them involving enemas. All ending in good passionate sex, so I'm not willing to force the issue. At least not now.

This is one of those cases where action speak louder than words… If I was you I would surprise him with a ready to go enema, without saying a word. After a few good clean outs, and some good experience with several enema sessions, then open up discussion.

“Just a question for all, primarily the ladies. What is the best way to convince my wife to at least give an enema a try?”

@KY_kid Just ask her to please give it a try and if she really, really doesn't like it, you won't ask again. I'm betting she might not totally like it the first time, but will be intrigued enough to ask for it again in the future, and then you can modify it so she likes it better next time.

My wife has had a few and hated every one. I don't even mention it. That battle was lost long ago.

We have been married for over 50 years. It was in the first week we started getting romantically involved that she asked if I would mind giving her an enema for her stomach cramps. She said she was afraid after asking because my eyes arched but then discovered quickly that I could do it for her and in short order found out I was going to let her give me one also. She ended up getting a couple of enemas that night and and it was unmistakable that she enjoyed them. Instead of going out to eat we took turns giving enemas to each other along with the accompanying activities. Nothing has changed other than several bags have been used up through the years. In more recent times, I gave her four two days ago. Tonight she commented on my eating a few small bowls of chips that with the poor diet I was consuming she was going to have to give me the tube in the morning so don't bother getting dressed. To miss a week is unusual, to miss a couple of weeks is rare. I'd guess that we each get four to six a week, taking turns in separate sessions of two or three at a time. If one of us is down with something you can bet that the Vicks will be covering more than the chest area daily. We may not be as eager to accept them but we know the intimacy and touching is nice. For either of us to suggest that the other was going to have to have an enema to this day starts the blood flowing to all the right spots.

Enemas are not “playtime” in our marriage, although I adore the gentle massages that he gives me if I’m stressed out and hurting, and he’s helping me through a cleanse.

However, even at our age, the afterglow of me “feeling much better” can be a great motivator to experience some very pleasurable times once I’m out of the bathroom!! That is, if I don’t fall asleep afterwards!

@Vicki_V Enemas are not “playtime” in our marriage...

Well that's the way it is with my wife; but for me - well I have to admit, when she needs an enema, as much as I try to be comforting; oh do I enjoy giving it to her!

A lot. Not every time, but at least over 50%. Sometimes I give to her, sometimes she gives to me. Always a blast! Figuratively and literally.

Years ago, my wife had me limited to an enema session every two weeks. Since she retired early last year and we have gotten closer and able to spend more time together, she has been willing to have an enema session once a week and on occasion, I have even been able to coax her into a couple sessions in one week. She has only had a few enemas when constipated and is not crazy about receiving them but loves to give them to me.

My wife likes to enjoy a good enema a couple of times a month and has for as long as I've known her. I think I have often mentioned that growing up I did not like enemas at all but would tolerate one. Between my early teens and mid 20s I was happy to have had very few of them, but a year or two after getting married I had a situation where I needed a bit of help and my wife insisted on giving me an enema. Wow, but what a different experience from what I remembered. That sort of changed my mind about them and my wife and I would frequently engage in mutual sessions. Now it is decades later and we will still do that although not with the same frequency. My wife will do solo ones, but when we manage to engage in one together it is a wonderful time and still culminates in some decent sex.

When my wife and I were first married, we did enemas together two or three times a week. It got started in part, due to my sister. She and my wife to be shared an apartment the year before we were married. Shortly after sharing the apartment, my wife came in sick one evening with the flu. After discussing it with my sister, my sister suggested a couple of enemas would help make her feel better. Telling her that’s what our RN grandmother did whenever we got sick. My wife finally agreed. So, my sister gave her a soapy then a rinse enema. When the enemas were over, she told my sister, “Those enemas really helped, I feel a lot better now.” Afterwards, the girls started doing enemas together during their periods. Which lead too my sister telling my wife about our after-school activities as teenagers, giving enemas too each other a couple of times a week. My wife hadn’t been a fan of enemas, using them primarily for relief of constipation or period cramps. After my sister gave her, a few enemas using a curved douche nozzle and her resulting orgasms while holding them. Changed her opinion and usage of enemas, making her a fan. This was one of the reasons we start doing enemas together, once we were married. Plus, my sister had taught her how to use the douche nozzle when giving an enema, because both girls enjoyed being anally masturbated. My sister had also taught my brother and I, and my teenage girlfriend how to masturbate someone using a curved douche nozzle while giving them an enema. Something else, my sister told my wife about. So, once we got married, we continued to use enemas to pleasure one another using the douche nozzle. Which was why, my sisters told my wife the things she did, because she was aware we both loved being anally masturbated with a long-curved douche nozzle.

My partner and I also have long sessions with large enemas and bulbs several times a week.

I (40m) administered my partner’s (33m) out of necessity. He had used small water douches a few times prior to anal play but had never experienced a true laxative enema. However, about two years ago he became severely constipated and I convinced him to give himself a saline fleet. Having finished it and then standing up right away, he wasn’t able to hold it. I very hesitantly suggested he lie over my lap and allow me to give it to him, after which I could rub his back and provide comfort in the hopes of retaining it longer. To my relief, he agreed. I was insanely erect during the process but it had the intended effect, for which he was grateful. That experience opened the door for many more enema experiences — mostly for enjoyment — as well as giving him glycerin suppositories at least 3 times per week. The trust of this play has significantly enhanced our relationship!

It's a pretty rare time when Dan and I have sex when we don't involve an enema. We share enough other bodily fluids that we have no reservations about sharing a nozzle, so we usually split a two-quart bagful.

Hugs, ~Diane

When I first started exchanging enemas with an older woman in college, we both used the same large douche nozzle.

Then we added a second bi-nurse to our play and we all used the same nozzle.

That was back in the swinging 1960s.

It was only years later that I became concerned about sharing nozzles and I could afford more equipment.

In my 70s now and luckily I still have a couple of enemates. I think I enjoy our sessions more now than ever. I’ve never gotten tired of a bulging bag.

It use to be all the time. But as many you known, I have rectal cancer so it has only been a couple times in the last three years due to that the cancer keeps me from holding it.

But there might be light at the end of the tunnel. This week I visit with a colon rectal surgeon and he thinks it can be removed since it is only in the rectum. Then I would get chemo and radiation to treat the two tumors in my lung.

It use to be all the time. But as many you known, I have rectal cancer so it has only been a couple times in the last three years due to that the cancer keeps me from holding it.

But there might be light at the end of the tunnel. This week I visit with a colon rectal surgeon and he thinks it can be removed since it is only in the rectum. Then I would get chemo and radiation to treat the two tumors in my lung.

@medfedcouple Wishing you the best!!! ☺️🥰👍

For my wife giving me enemas is mostly as a dominant power thing for her and also feminine training me .