The best implement for spanking

@BareFun What do you consider worse than a crop? Inquiring minds would like to know!

I had a number of implements spank me, but the one thing that I dread /love is a leather belt.

In most circumstances it will depend on one's age, size and experiences.

And of course why you are being spanked.

Once I decide you need to be spanked then I will choose the implement and the spanking will be given. And you will take what is given to to you how I say, where I say and when I say.

I had my dad's belt on my bare bottom a few times. It was no more painful than the slipper.

With Spankos, the bare hand is by far the favorite. I’m ok with that, but not my preferred method.

I am not too keen on wooden paddles, they thump, really hurt, but do nothing for me except tire my arm.

I much prefer using a leather slapper, a short one for OTK use and a handled one for use while standing over the recipient.

I consider canes and related implements for delivering pain, not spankings.

Personally, I was raised on the belt. My dad put me through the ringer growing up, and I always have a soft spot for it. That's how I like to dish it out these days.

A good spanking for me is one that challenges me. A brush or paddle gives me a nice feeling, but it can't bring me to the point where I don't like it any more. A cane or bullwhip can. I can even be proud when the whipping / caning is so hard that I can feel it for a couple of days.

Depends on person. A belt does a great job but a wood paddle is good too.

The "best" implement for a specific spanking depends heavily upon the specific circumstances.

Having said that, if I were forced to choose one all-purpose implement for all circumstances, I would have to go with a freshly-cut 48-inch stiff-but-flexible river willow switch, with a diameter of approximately a half-inch at one end (the end that the disciplinarian will wield) and approximately a quarter-inch at the business end (the end that will painfully correct naughty behaviors with srtipes across bare bottoms).

From the spankers point of view there is nothing to beat a really good sensual spanking. Both people stripped naked then on over the knee lying with bottom really well exposed then a good hand spanking. This gives pleasure to both the spanker and the spankee especially if it results in erections and you can then fondle the bottom and erection in between spanks,

My favored implements - whether giving or receiving - are household items repurposed as tools of punishment like brushes, belts, wooden spoons, rulers and such. Purpose-made paddles and straps are great but, for me, there's nothing better than having my partner grab the hairbrush from her dresser or purse, put me over her knee and set my cheeks ablaze. Similarly, the jangle of me unbuckling my belt gives my spankee the anticipation of the seared bottom she's about to receive from an otherwise innocuous wardrobe accessory.

I have always been a fan of technology, so the Lexan paddle is a favorite. In addition to it's sting, the fact that is is see through enhances it's use in a visual sense 😃

Bare hand and plastic spatula work awesome on me 😃

A nice, firm, commanding hand 🤭😉

The hand is just perfect for a nice long over the knee bare bottom spanking.

Personally I prefer the hand, but according to a friend, a 'palm paddle' is a nice little tushy warmer.

@Dr_Philip I think you are quite correct but I'm sure that after a while the hand starts to get painful. My wife only ever uses a paddle but and hand spanking is just more special.

The hairbrush brings back a lot of painful memories and it can really get my attention. The worst is probably a switch or a lexan Rod/

It has been two years since posting a response to this discussion. I will repeat it here but can now add that a riding crop is a real stinger and will have a lasting effect and reminder that you would not wanted it repeated often. lol

Depending on the intent of the spanker and the effect he/she wants to have on the spankee, I think (assuming the hand not to be considered an implement) that a paddle, large wood spoon, or large wood backed hairbrush would be very effective in getting the desire message across loud and clear!! I have never experience the cane but based on pictures of caned bottoms, I do not think that would be my dish of tea!! Denise

You're going to laugh, but have you ever seen those little signs left by lawn care companies after they treat a lawn? They are attached to a plastic stem about 24" long. Well that stem is just a fantastic spank stick! It works like a crop. It's light so it doesn't leave a mark, but it stings like crazy when you get hit. It's especially effective as a pussy or anus spanker.

For me, I prefer being spanked by a woman using her bare hands, no other impliment except for a paddle I guess. Use of belts is borderline brutal and I don't like brutality. Brutality and eroticism never mix with me.

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... It's especially effective as a pussy or anus spanker.

@zipster2004

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You make an excellent point. All of the replies in this thread seem to assume that the buttocks (clothed or bare) are the target for the discipline that the implement will impart.

It would be interesting to hear specific responses...

What do you think is the best implement for spanking...

1> buttocks?

2> palms of hands?

3> soles of feet?

4> female breasts?

5> female genitalia?

6> male genitalia?

For the purpose of this question, it is safe to assume that naked body parts are receiving the discipline. As my mother used to say when I said, "Please don't pull down my pants, Mama!"... "Why would I spank your pants or your underpants, son? They didn't misbehave! YOU misbehaved, and YOUR naughty bare bottom is gonna receive the spanking that YOU deserve!"

In terms of the experience as an adult, it's slipper or paddle for me. However, my mother used a hairbrush and that's probably the implement I think about or am drawn to the most, even if its not something I necessarily prefer the experience of.

Spanking is not part of my play, although one woman did give me some gentle spanks with her hand once. Not painful and I admit that anytime I am facedown under someone's control, I am very happy, no matter what they're doing to me!

Admittedly I've read some of the spanking posts here, which got me to look at some videos of women being spanked, paddled, caned, and so on. For me, it just looks too painful, especially those wood canes. OMG, hard to watch.

If a certain person told me to lie over her lap for a spanking, with her hand, I think I would love it. We'll see. Beyond that, hmm I don't know.

Doing a search on Amazon and surprised to see all the spanking implements!

I'm still a firm believer in the belt. I grew up with the belt from my dad, and I haven't found anything better to use.

My dad occasionally used a belt, but 9 times out of 10 he spanked me with a leather slipper. That always left me with a very sore bottom.

In our relationship, I'm the spanker, my partner has had the kink for most of her adult life and actually needs to be spanked regularly!

I really enjoy being able to oblige and give her so much pleasure, of course, it turns me on and I have introduced different methods and implements to maximize her pleasure and take it to another level!

I have learned that the method of hand strokes and varying the implement as the session progresses has a huge effect on her enjoyment.

For example, laying face down on the bed I find the upward stroke from the inner thighs at the seat of the bottom pulls the labia and stimulates the clitoris.

I change my method as I read her needs from the up stroke to the side swipe and then the fly swat, that is a downward slap.

As her bottom starts to glow Pink to dark pink I know she is ready for some toys.

I start with a stiff leather strap, then a paddle and a flogger.

As she gets closer to orgasm I look at how wet she is by pulling her cheeks apart and opening her cunt to see the lovely wet patch on the towel.

I slide my hard under her, fingers sliding between her labia pitching her clit softly whilst my thumb slides inside her enabling me to grip her putting pressure on her now swollen G spot and her clitoris.

She calls this the owned grip!

Out comes the cane for 8 to 10 strokes that takes her to her sweet spot!

My wife does the spanking and I am the spankee. She likes to use a very whippy and stingy Delrin can because it is lightweight and she can whack me for a longer time. She also likes using the smacker which is a lightweight wooden paddle shaped like a hairbrush.

I have three favorite paddles in no particular order. First is the “floppy” leather paddle because with it my wife can place a complete smack fully across both cheeks and the leather even “wraps” completely over the edge of the outer cheek, and that part stings. The “floppy” leather paddle has two sides, rough and smooth, and I can feel the subtle difference. The paddle was 22 inches long with a 6-inch handle and a 16-inch blade with a 4-inch width, but the paddle was too heavy for my wife so I cut off four inches from the blade so it is now a 12-inch blade with a total length of 18 inches.

My second favorite implement is a rigid leather paddle with two sides: a smooth side and a rough, imprinted side. Both sides feel great. The paddle is 16 inches long with an 11-inch blade and a 3-inch width.

My third favorite implement is the oak paddle with holes in it. The paddle is 16 inches long and has a 9-inch blade that is 4 inches wide a 1/4-inch thickness.