Tied up for a spanking

Have you ever given or received a spanking where the spankee has been tied up? What led to the spankee being tied up? Did you enjoy it? Would you do it again? How was the spankee tied up? Was the spankee tied up to something like a bed or spanking horse or were their limbs just tied together in a specific way? Would you recommend being tied up for a spanking to others who are into spanking?

Both given and received.

When I received them I got them 3 different ways. One was spread eagle face down 4 point. That's what's the easiest in the fact that I couldn't move at all, so I didn't have to stress too much, it hurt but I couldn't move.

The next was on a sawhorse. Not quite a spanking horse as it didn't have side shelves. It was four point with my arms and legs on all four of its arms and legs and my ass just stick it off the end. That was harder because I could move some.

The hardest was being bent over the horse with just my hands restrained sideways on the far legs through my ass was right on top of it. Those damn well hurt too and I could move my legs so I was bending my knees and getting my thigh slapped. My legs were completely free, I'd lift my feet up in the air. It was the most humiliating and whiney babyish.

I've done all three of those to others.

I prefer sprout eagle face down four point that's my favorite way and sometimes I like to leave their legs free on that so they can kick and scream like a little baby too

On the horse isn't the best because you have to be the most careful aiming over the side of the horse again that's the most fun cuz their legs are free and they can kick and bend their knees and move around and wiggle their ass getting away, get their legs hit and all that

I’ve never been tied up for a spanking but like the idea with the right person of course

I have never been tied up BUT did ask my wife to tie me up as I cannot force myself to stay in position😢! The best she has done is while she is sitting with me standing holding my thigh to keep me in place, making me lay over a hassock , hands & knees on the floor. The BEST for my too few severe brushings is with me lying down on the bed with her sitting on top of me & yes it made me completely restrained till i could not beg or plead understandably!

I was restrained, one time, for a spanking and caning. I did not like it and I would not do it again, even with someone I trust. It makes me uncomfortable

I have only been tied up one time for fun and something different, will never do it again. Lets just say I had a curious unexpected visitor.

Have “secured” several subs over the years for spanking, flogging, caning etc. Certainly adds to the visual aspect of a scene, for my part anyway.

Most subs have requested it to push their limits and some just like giving up control totally.

Very much an individual thing I think.

With someone I trust and have been with for a while? sure …. it would be hot to get strapped face down for a good ass play, deep probing, spanking and some enemas.

I’ve been spanked by a dominatrix during a session

She had me both over her lap and bound bent over a table, ass out.

Not opposed to being tied or spanking someone tied up but never experienced either, for there is nothing better than to be told to remove my clothes and bend over and grab your ankles and don’t move

My wife give me spankings in bondage on quite a few occasions in our sex play, as i spanked her in bondage too

I enjoy ass play and spankings so no need to tie me up.. and I'm just not into the bondage thing anyway… just enjoy my ass as presented

I enjoy spankings, I don't mind being tied up, I've never been tied up though. I would certainly love to try being spanked while tied up. Giving all control to DD and knowing what he is doing is for the best of his good little girl. Mmmm

@smolbean ME too BUT with my SWEETIE spanking ME!! As i can not make myself stay in place for the punishment spankings that i need, want & require 😃! Doubt that it will ener happen 😢 Also at our age my wife is unable to hold or help to hold me in position…. ) 😢

We have been together exclusively for 50 years & being spanked by her and married very soon after😃

I have tried many times to encourage my wife to tie me up and give me a good thrashing. Alas, she cannot bring herself to administer it. 😢

Not recently tied, but many times secured someway, to a cross, or bench, inversion table or other platform to be spanked, flogged cropped.

Never tied up but in my youth I met a very large rotund lady who, when we had our first sex had me lie prone on my back and she straddled me on her knees and began to panty smother me as my entire body was pinned down.

Her feet and ankles were upon my shoulders and her arms and hands were on my knees with me totally submitting to her physically. Before I knew it I next had my legs and feet raised from the mattress and my underpants briskly removed off my body.

After a bit of verbal chatter about how I was about to be blown until my nut sack was drained and dry she did so. One of the most orgasmic ejaculations I've ever encountered in my life. There also were moments of butt slapping and rectum fingering also. Not tied up but certainly totally subdued and dominated. Fretter.

I've never been tied up for a spanking but would be willing to.

Yes I have given spankings on a few occasions when mutually agreed. Different positions and intensities by different implements and mutually enjoyed!

It is not used very frequently, but my wife and I do have a 4-foot long bamboo stick that is reserved for only the strictest of punishments. She can only maintain self control (remain still) for, at most, five disciplinary swats with the bamboo. I can only maintain self control (remain still) for ‘at most’ ten such swats.

On the very rare occasions when we have agreed that more than these numbers of swats were appropriate, it has been necessary for the “spankee” to be very securely restrained. This is mostly for the spankee's safety, because involuntary movement during such a session with the bamboo can put easily-injured parts of the body in jeopardy.

We only use the bamboo across bared buttocks. This is one of the most painful corporal punishments that most people could possibly imagine. We don't apply the bamboo with the same force that is used for Singapore-style judicial canings, but if we did, the bamboo would tear the spankee's buttocks apart just like a rattan cane.

We we aren't into bondage in-and-of-itself, but very effective restraint is necessary when a such a very severe thrashing is being administered.

All of my spankings have been from other males, either at a one-on-one meeting with a Dom or in a group “spanking party” setting in a dungeon. While a simple over-the-knee spanking without any restraints does happen, I'm typically tied up in some way when I'm spanked.

In the case of a one-on-one meeting, I'm usually nude, spread-eagle and chained 4 (or 5) points to the bed. In case you're wondering, the 5th point is a parachute on my cock and balls that's also chained to the bed.

At a group event at a local dungeon, I might be chained to a Saint Andrews cross, or chained to a spanking/bondage bench, or wrists and ankles hooked to spreader bars, or arms chained to a dungeon wall, etc. All kinds of options are available. 😃

After my 1st play date with one of my friends from CT, he acknowledged that since my profile on the website where I had connected with him had mentioned that I was into light bondage if i would be up for it during my next visit.

So on the day of my next play date, he told me he would leave the door open, ring the phone one time when I got there so he'd know I was there, walk in and put on a blindfold that was waiting for me at the top of the stairs and tell him when i was ready.

I was going to go there around 1 in the afternoon, or something like that. I remember all while I was doing yardwork that morning, I was anticipating what lay in store for me once this were to happen, only having had one play date with him the week before, and not knowing what he had planned for me. All I knew was that he really liked my cock and he had plans to tie me up somehow. I think I did indicate to him that spanking was okay. (It's something I go along with more for my playdates' sake who are into it kind of thing).

Once I got there and put the sleeper blindfold on, he grabbed my arms and led me into another bedroom I hadn't been in at all during the 1st playdate. There he fastened another blindfold around my head before proceeding to grope, strip and fondle me, which got me good and hard. He whispered to me that I had to worship his entire body or else i would be “punished”.

After a session of my attempt to do that and believing he was satisfied, he told me I had missed a few places, and proceeded to tie me spread eagle face down on the bed. After which he spanked my ass with various things from his hands to assorted objects. Subsequently a few months later, I had compared notes with someone else from the same website who also had playdates with this guy, and he mentioned a frying pan as one of the objects. Sure enough I think I saw one on a subsequent visit, but I believe that 2nd playdate was the only playdate we had where he spanked me. After he had finished, he had expressed a kind of disappointment (I guess) that I really didn't flinch. So I guess he may not have gotten that much out of doing it since I wasn't that responsive.

A few months later when i had gone to see my orthopedic surgeon, she remarked that I had a high threshold for pain.

About a month ago while planning a visit with another playdate who also enjoys spanking me, I had pitched a scene to him about a week before, where he could spank me with my hands tied behind my back and then also tied down to his bed (which he's had me tied down to before). So he could have a few days before the playdate to think about how he might have wanted to approach the scene, etc. But then the scene got tossed in favor of improv, and he just spanked me over his lap again before having me stand & tying my hands behind my back and “forcing” me to cum while standing behind me.

No need to tie me up for a spanking. When a Daddy tells me to drop my panties and lay across his lap I do as I'm told. I love a good spanking! giggles

Yes, I have been restrained for a spanking and I love it! Bondage is my favorite kink anyway, so can you blame me? My Mistress restrains me every single time she spanks me. Usually when she spanks me she uses a leather paddle as I am restrained to the spanking bench. She secures my arms down and legs down on that while she spanks my bare ass. She used a wooden paddle one time (that hurt!) The one time I saw the owner of that particular dungeon, a leather strap was used.

I have also been restrained to the St. Andrew's Cross, arms spread, secured over my head and feet spread apart and secured. When I was secured to that, I have been whipped once (by my Mistress) and flogged three times (twice by my Mistress and once by the owner).

I never spanked anyone but if I did, I would restrain them if they wanted it or if I needed to, because they were being combative.

I generally am not because I want to have to maintain my composure and obediently present my ass or suffer the consequences of penalty strokes for moving (each offense doubles the penalty, so it goes 1, +2, +4, +8, +16, +32, +64, etc). I got restrained by wife once because she wanted to try it out because she thought it would be kinky but she didn’t really care for it. She had me tie her up once and paddle her with a hair brush but she doesn’t like being tied up either. My ex girlfriend (2 girlfriends before my wife) would give me multiple hard canings over consecutive days and we once did a full week. By day 5 I could not manage to stay still so she restrained me and doubled the number of lashes as punishment for not being able to present my ass properly.

Have used restraints quite often during spanking sessions. Secured to a bed, a massage table, and various benches etc. Also outdoors tied to trees.

I have used restraints in other BDSM scenes besides spanking.

Has a tendency to allow spankees to lose inhibitions.

Told this one before: After a lot of self spank I went to a pro. After initial amiable chat she ordered me to strip. In the hall a second woman had a padded saw horse, with kneel shelves in back. They strapped my legs to the shelves; another over my back; hands down on the legs. They tied a rope around my balls, securing it to a ring, pulling my balls down; then tied my penis down. If I jerked when she whipped my butt, I would jerk my balls, The whipping/caning was beyond description; they ignored the safe word. Told me she wanted to give me my money's worth. Then they whipped my dick and balls. Barely got home; sitting on butt was agony/ In pain 3 days. No more anyone else spanking me.

After a lot of self spank I went to a pro.

The whipping/caning was beyond description; they ignored the safe word.

I find it completely despicable that a “pro” would do this. It just goes to show you that you have to be very careful and selective.

I have been tied up to a spanking horse for some amazing spankings. Also on a cross which is also great, though I prefer a spanking bench. If I'm given a sensual warmup spanking, I'm ready for some really hard stuff which changes from being painful to being both painful, exciting, and arousing.

For most of spankings I received I was restrained. Either bend over table or bed and tied or on spanking bench, or on X cross. Or wrists cuffed to ankles enforcing head down ass up position. The latter, at least for me, causes spanking to be more painful. I guess because buttocks are stretched.

Being restrained, tided is one of my biggest turn-ons.

OTK spanking does not do it for me.