After my 1st play date with one of my friends from CT, he acknowledged that since my profile on the website where I had connected with him had mentioned that I was into light bondage if i would be up for it during my next visit.
So on the day of my next play date, he told me he would leave the door open, ring the phone one time when I got there so he'd know I was there, walk in and put on a blindfold that was waiting for me at the top of the stairs and tell him when i was ready.
I was going to go there around 1 in the afternoon, or something like that. I remember all while I was doing yardwork that morning, I was anticipating what lay in store for me once this were to happen, only having had one play date with him the week before, and not knowing what he had planned for me. All I knew was that he really liked my cock and he had plans to tie me up somehow. I think I did indicate to him that spanking was okay. (It's something I go along with more for my playdates' sake who are into it kind of thing).
Once I got there and put the sleeper blindfold on, he grabbed my arms and led me into another bedroom I hadn't been in at all during the 1st playdate. There he fastened another blindfold around my head before proceeding to grope, strip and fondle me, which got me good and hard. He whispered to me that I had to worship his entire body or else i would be “punished”.
After a session of my attempt to do that and believing he was satisfied, he told me I had missed a few places, and proceeded to tie me spread eagle face down on the bed. After which he spanked my ass with various things from his hands to assorted objects. Subsequently a few months later, I had compared notes with someone else from the same website who also had playdates with this guy, and he mentioned a frying pan as one of the objects. Sure enough I think I saw one on a subsequent visit, but I believe that 2nd playdate was the only playdate we had where he spanked me. After he had finished, he had expressed a kind of disappointment (I guess) that I really didn't flinch. So I guess he may not have gotten that much out of doing it since I wasn't that responsive.
A few months later when i had gone to see my orthopedic surgeon, she remarked that I had a high threshold for pain.
About a month ago while planning a visit with another playdate who also enjoys spanking me, I had pitched a scene to him about a week before, where he could spank me with my hands tied behind my back and then also tied down to his bed (which he's had me tied down to before). So he could have a few days before the playdate to think about how he might have wanted to approach the scene, etc. But then the scene got tossed in favor of improv, and he just spanked me over his lap again before having me stand & tying my hands behind my back and “forcing” me to cum while standing behind me.