Male Doctors enjoy examining female patients

I believe all male doctors get great sexual pleasure from the whole process of examining female and male patients. You can’t just turn off a desire that’s the product of evolution over so long. Has anyone ever thought that during an examination? Or sensed that? Wanted it anyway?

I can't see straight male doctors enjoying examining male patients, and I can't see gay male doctors enjoying examining female patients.

I would only sense that during an examination if I were to notice the doc having an erection, if he purposely rubbed himself against me, or by the way he spoke.

Now, have YOU ever noticed anything from your male doctor during an examination that made you come up with this belief ? Or is this just on the sole basis of you "product of evolution" theory?

My wife used to go to the Naturopathic College for her annual exams. She would typically see two or three students and I noticed several times the male students kept their notebook discreetly in front of themselves. On one occasion when the lead student started a breast exam and she first exposed her breasts, I know i saw a tent in his pants. He immediately moved to my side of the table so myself and the other students couldn't see. How can a doctor not get excited by a beautiful woman.

Remember my go having to adjust himself after my physical as he was leaving the room. Fretter

I have had female doctors who just by the way they look at me are telling me without saying it that they are sexually aroused by seeing my balls when they have examined me and I am nude. A doctor male or female does not have to say it to let you know how they feel about seeing you nude if you are the opposite sex.

I have watched my wife get examined by several different men. I have felt almost 100% of the time the doctors were always enjoying their selves as they were performing her exams. Two different younger doctors she had for over a decade would almost seem overly joyful while they examined her. They were always professional. but seemed to have a spirit of excitement in doing the exam.

My wife used to go to the Naturopathic College for her annual exams. She would typically see two or three students and I noticed several times the male students kept their notebook discreetly in front of themselves. On one occasion when the lead student started a breast exam and she first exposed her breasts, I know i saw a tent in his pants. He immediately moved to my side of the table so myself and the other students couldn't see. How can a doctor not get excited by a beautiful woman.

Especially a 20 year old hormone driven student!. Any female student reactions to male exams? - probably!

I don't really understand the OP's question. I presume he is talking about real male doctors doing gynaecological examinations as this item is posted under that topic, so how do male patients figure in that? Real male gynaecologists are doing this type of examination all day day in day out, it is totally routine to them just a job, there is no way they will get greatly sexually aroused or sexually aroused at all, that is against everything they stand for. Young male trainee students on the other hand could well get a discreet erection watching their first gyn exam, I can imagine that happens sometimes.

I don't really understand the OP's question. I presume he is talking about real male doctors doing gynaecological examinations as this item is posted under that topic, so how do male patients figure in that? Real male gynaecologists are doing this type of examination all day day in day out, it is totally routine to them just a job, there is no way they will get greatly sexually aroused or sexually aroused at all, that is against everything they stand for. Young male trainee students on the other hand could well get a discreet erection watching their first gyn exam, I can imagine that happens sometimes.

I agree if your doctor is one that does this multiple times a day, however you have to remember in rural areas our doctors cover everything under the sun. So getting to do a pelvic exam ever once in a while could be a treat for them.

The line from Hamlet “The lady doth protest too much, methinks” always comes to mind when I read anything on this topic. So many folks claim that this could never happen, a doctor would never do this or that, it's impossible, it's just a routine job, and so on. And just like the lady in Hamlet the ever increasing protest betrays them. Whether from a real doctor or a poser, when you go overboad with a denial you betray your real thoughts...either you are guilty of the act yourself or you have some type of guilt reaction to your own feelings on the subject.

I can find through a quick internet seach one case after another of a gynecologist losing his license for sexual imposition on a patient. So yes they were sexually aroused, and greatly sexually aroused, and yes they were licensed physicians.

No offense to those who clain otherwise - but honestly I'd like to hear …in depth… why you feel that way - what evidence do you have that it could never happen, how do you know, how can your prove your theory, why would you doubt a sincere account ( I'm not talking about wild fantasy claims ) that something occured and does occur?

Bottom line is that doctors are not robots and do in fact have sexual thoughts… just like any other person may have a sexual thought…it could be your doctor, your accountant, your mechanic, your dog sitter. I'd agree that the OP is certainly a bit over the top thinking that every exam produces a sexual thought. Having been in the exam room numerous times myself I can tell you that you get pretty good at spotting the doctor who enjoys what he is doing…it's obvious going back and watching video of the exam…and yet everything remained completely professional.

So I'd love to hear the other side, maybe a different discussion group area is more appropriate for that type of debate, but I'm interested in the theory that doctors are biologically or psychologically different from everyone else and what empirical eveidence actually exists to support it. That said I'll admit that I really enjoy those rare moments in the exam room watching the interactions between my wife and the doctor.

I think of the gynecologist as a professional like any other professional. This probably gets to be really routine to him, especially after doing it for years. I'm sure every doctor sees patients that he feels are attractive, but he probably sees way more patients that are not attractive to him in any way, shape or form. A professional should treat each patient equally well, with objectivity and fairness.

I once saw a orthopaedic consultant for arthritis. I was about 29 and when I walked in the room he looked me up and down in a very unprofessional manner. He asked if I suffered abdominal pain, I said I did as I have IBS. There followed the longest abdo palpation ever. He kept asking if I had pelvic pain. Although I did I kept saying ’no’ as it just felt wrong. I fantasise at what might have happened should I have encouraged him….

I once saw a orthopaedic consultant for arthritis. I was about 29 and when I walked in the room he looked me up and down in a very unprofessional manner. He asked if I suffered abdominal pain, I said I did as I have IBS. There followed the longest abdo palpation ever. He kept asking if I had pelvic pain. Although I did I kept saying ’no’ as it just felt wrong. I fantasise at what might have happened should I have encouraged him….

I have posted a few times on here about accompanying my gf to her appointments or checkups with her male GP in his late 60's. I always though and he enjoys examining her as everything he does is super thorough, but he also did what you said, she came in for something ENT related and when she mentioned having a bit of nausea that subsided in a few hours, he had her laying down on the table; abdomen exposed, and did a whole abdomen exam on her. I always thought he did it to enjoy himself and her beauty; couldn't really notice any tenting or erection from his lab coat.

But she did have a more weird interaction with a doc in a small city in south America when we were travelling, we had to go to a clinic after hours after she got stung by some weird bee or scorpion, all she had was a headache and some soreness in her arm where the sting was. He looked at her up and down, almost like checking her out; she was wearing nothing but shorts and a tank top, I got weird vibes from the old guy, but I still wanted her to get check and make sure she was fine. He had her lie down and when she mentioned she had a history of digestive issues . He has her lie down and palpates her for the longest. It even kinda pissed me off. But yeah, nothing we could do lol.

Her GP is always professional and has never touched her inappropriately , even if its an unnecessary belly exam, there's no sexual touching. That doctor we had in Peru though, damn, I couldnt help but imagine what was going through his head as he was standing there with a pretty blonde laying on his table, and he was prodding her abdomen. But it was one for the books.

Well, early on I enjoyed it too much. Licking and eating the massive amount of cream my patient produced………….which by the way is delicious!!……..only gave me bad colds. I had to stop!!

I think it gets to be similar to changing tires on a car. Most professional gyn exams are on pretty gross people. Nice ones are no different to them, just maybe less gross. Not a turn on.

Always different from the other side. I can only hope not all of the fun is lost in case they have a partner who find the idea enjoyable.

I just had a lovely dermatologist examine me. When she finished doing all the routine part she asked to see the sore spot under the foreskin that I had mentioned on the input paperwork I had to fill out. I told her she needed to get out that lighted magnifier she had used looking at my skin to be able to find it, --- my 82 year old shrunken penis that is. I can't imagine I had anything that would get her or the other two girls she had assisting her the least bit warm. The other two DID look though.

I would imagine that it’s like any other job, after awhile. The thrill dwindles over time. For every hot body, there’s plenty more that smell, and look like decades old roadkill. Besides, if you act on your fantasies, all of those years of hard work, and sacrifice, were for nothing.

A lot of these comments sound like they're talking about my ex, smell, roadkill, etc. Did you know my ex? 🤣🤣🤣

I gotta believe that at least with the bodies of some of the patients, the docs want to have them get dressed back up as soon as possible.

Look at porn movies all day long for weeks at a time. Naked female sex organs can get pretty boring, just like being an ear or elbow specialist. What is exciting is (1) a technical problem, like a good rash, and (2) the PERSONAL relationship we have with our patients. We are friends. It's good to have friends.

As I was reading my response to this from 2021, and reading what others have said, I have to believe that the attitude of the patient being examined has something to do with how the doctor reacts in the exam as well. My wife, more times than not, is nervous and somewhat giddy when she is being examined. This also comes across showing how she is sexually stimulated as well, I think her male doctor's pickup on that and as they talk and interact with one another during her whole exam, I think both parties end up having a somewhat pleasurable time.

I think there's probably some nervous sexual energy the first few times a young male medical student sees a female in stirrups or the first time a female student checks a patient's testicles or rectum.

But I would suspect that for the most part those feeling are pushed aside, consciously or subconsciously, and professionalism takes over.

I just can't imagine a 40-year old male Gynecologist waking up on a random Tuesday morning thinking: "Yes! I get to see a vagina today!" At some point it has to become routine, right?

A better question is one I actually heard a male gynecologist being asked: “after a day spent doing 20 pelvics, how do get interested in your wife”?

A better question is one I actually heard a male gynecologist being asked: “after a day spent doing 20 pelvics, how do get interested in your wife”?

Because she is more to me than just a vagina ...?

Trust me: When you see 20 (well, 40) breasts or vulvas/vaginas a day, they lose their allure. You have to work a bit to get any excitement going and the trick is not to do that mental work.

I have been photographing female nudes for many years: it is not my main profession, it has always been a hobby, however I have exhibited in several galleries and have been published in many magazines and have created some advertising campaigns. I have photographed, probably, more than a thousand models and I can guarantee that, apart from the very first friends, at the beginning, none, later, have aroused in me, on the set, any excitement. If you want to have a good result, you have to think about the finished shot, the final product. You have to look at the model like a veterinarian looks at a racehorse. You cannot look at her as a man, otherwise everything falls apart. Once the set is over, obviously, if she sends you some signal, evidently things change, but in the absence of this, you cannot allow yourself to be an idiot, otherwise rumors will spread and you will lose credibility and respect. In the same way, or rather, ethically more demanding, I think that medical personnel do not experience any excitement with routine.

Years ago we had a neighbor and good friend who was an RN specializing in midwifery. Her explanation was that while there might be patients that the OB/GYN would find attractive there were many that were clearly otherwise because they might be obese or how should I say less than clean. She told me that there were some patients who do not regularly bathe and that for the doc it can be pretty gross. Certainly not every female walking into the practice would be someone that the doc would like to see naked.

I heard a joke many years ago about two friends walking down the street when one of them remarked on the beauty of a woman who passed by. His friend said you are a gynecologist, you see women every day. He replied, Yes, but this one has clothes on!

Just think of it as, for every “attractive” woman the doctor might see, there’s probably an equal amount of “unattractive,” or should we say “unsanitary” women they have to see too. And all sorts of issues and whatnot they have to look at.

It’s not all fun and games, it’s a job to them. It’s probably all just a blur to them throughout the day to be honest.