Deep colon enema advice needed

In a short while – when the corona vaccine has taken effect I will – at last! – meet with my beloved miss M, living far away from me in Stockholm. And I believe some progress is made during the more than a year in "quarantine" in the area of erotic enemas. Miss M accepts my deep devotion to sexual enemas, but do not share my level. Yet…

I have reason to believe (small hints and signals) that I will be allowed to give my Princess Miss M more than the mandatory one or two small cleansing enemas (the picture in my profile shows her beautiful butt with the syringe in operation…) I think she now is ready for the next step. And here is where I need your help!

I figure to use what I think is called a "deep colon tube". My Beloved Miss M complains with the small enemas I up till now have given her about the immediate urge to go to the toilet and "flush". In my imagination, this "got to go-feeling", caused by the water pressing against the sphincter from inside, would not be so immediate if I could administer the water flow further up in her colon. So my first question: Am I right in my assumption; the immediate discomfort reduces and makes her more willing to accept (and hopefully enjoy…) a larger amount of water in her anus if administered further in? If I am right, I need some advice from you experienced and skilful experts in this fairly narrow area of knowledge:

• What shall I buy? Material? Length? Width. And – in EU / Sweden – where?

• Anything else to buy? Special lubricants to ease and please the penetration?

• Best position for this virgin experience? Standing on knees with legs spread and head down? Or lying on her back, legs up in our homemade gyno bench. (This question applies to both of us, inexperienced as I'm, despite of half a century enema addiction.)

• How deep in can I go with the tube?

• Shall I wait to turn the enema-water on until the tube is in its "final position"?

• How do I pass the different "bends" in the intestines?

• How high the water enema jar? Speed and pressure…

• What volume (-s) are sufficient for my enema – for her own part – inexperienced, 160 cm tall, weight 60 kg Beloved Miss M?

• Any other tips or advices are more than welcome…

You can get great colon tubes from siliconenozzles.com You don't want to get too small a diameter because it can fold back on itself and just bunch up in the rectum instead of entering the sigmoid colon. Also if it were too small it could perforate the colon. And that is the big issue, so being fairly timid when inserting it is a good idea. There will be some resistance, I use water based lubes and there are a ton of them available. One with a bit more body might be a good starting choice. Once the tube has been inserted, open the valve to the enema bag and let the water flow. I tend to hang my bags high maybe 4' above me. This is going to be messy because there is no balloon etc to keep the water entrapped. It will leak out a little as the tube is inserted. Best if you are fairly clean to begin with.

Caution is the byword here, and at the least sign of pain stop. You could pull the tube out a bit and gingerly push it in again but slowly and carefully. If you sense much resistance stop. If your bottom says it's hurting stop. This is edge play and there is always a risk of colon perforation. But it can be very exciting if you are careful. Error on the side of caution.

I wouldn't go too deep, just up into the sigmoid (about 19-25cm), and be careful and use GENTLE pressure on the tube so you don't puncture her intestine.

I don't know if I would go for siliconenozzles. They make great stuff, but they're on the wrong side of the Atlantic for you. Perhaps getting one of the soft Rusch rectal catheters from Medtech3000 would be better - https://www.medtech3000.de/Darmrohr-Ruesch-12-mm-Einlauf-Klistier::91.html

Put it in on her back or side, slide it in gently until you feel resistance, then you can put some water in to inflate the rectum/sigmoid some and make it easier to slide in a bit more.

I don't know why Cal comments on it being necessarily messy. I usually have either no leakage at all or just a few drips on the towel.

In my first experience going deep I used a #30fr single balloon latex enema tube (you can by a 3 pack of them on Ebay for about $25.00) which is about 20” long. It has a closed end and side ports and is soft so the chance of puncturing the colon is less than some of the other colon tubes which are much stiffer. You’ll need to get the rectum cleared of solids by using a suppository or small enema beforehand. I find using a solution that’s a bit slippery, one containing Ivory soap or glycerin (although that tends to increase the urge) or one with baking soda and salt (which is rather benign) helps in advancing the tube. You’ll probably have to administer about ½ to a quart of solution into the rectum before the tube will advance easily. Having a flow indicator (available through siliconenozzles) is extremely helpful as it lets you know when the flow stops due to an obstruction or if the tube has kinked. At that point you withdraw the tube some and advance it again. I start my enema in the Sims position and once the tube is in the sigmoid colon I roll over onto my back and continue to feed the rest of the tube in. Do lube the tube as you go. Sometimes I feel a slight sensation as the head of the tube pops through into the sigmoid. Another indication is there is less urge to go (less pressure in the rectum) and the flow rate seems to pick up. As others have said, play it safe, take it slow, talk to one another and stop if there is any discomfort.