Warm up spanking

When you are being spanked or giving a spanking is there a warm up period involved where the spanker spanks on underwear or bare with their hand just to get the bottom ready for the real punishment?

Spanking given in stages. UNDERPANTS on then lowered for bare hand or paddle or hair brush.

Spanking given in stages. UNDERPANTS on then lowered for bare hand or paddle or hair brush.

I think that's very important and understanding this seems to be have been missed by my father who would lock me in position, yank my pants and underwear down and begin whacking full-force my tender backside with the back of a hair brush.

At times when I was spanked they started out maybe hand over undies or pj’s then they were lowered so my bare butt would feel the harsh reality of being disciplined.

At times when I was spanked they started out maybe hand over undies or pj’s then they were lowered so my bare butt would feel the harsh reality of being disciplined.

Now that's perfect - just what I was talking about; where it allows you to become sensitized a bit and able to take a longer/harsher spanking.. the goal being to make it difficult to sit down after it..

Growing up there was no warm up and today I do not want one.. That said to prolong things I often do get warm ups with a hand. My "Daddy" now tends to finish with his hands but almost hurts worse than the strap or paddle he is using... I am very thankful when ever I come across someone not afraid to lay on some good marks on my bum.

When I was younger and at home my mother didnt do warm ups, it was straight into the main event. But my wife sometimes gives me a hand spanking then I have corner time for 5 mins, then she spanks me again properly. I love that.

I like to give spankings in stages. I instruct the lady that it is in her best interest to where a dress or skirt with bikini panties and no pantyhose. Her OTK starts over her dress, with slow but hard spanks. Then the dress is raised to expose her panties which are adjusted before resuming her spanking which now is a little faster but not as hard as it was over her dress. When the color of her bottom is a certain shade of red and she is squirming on my lap, I instruct her to stand up in front of me, with her dress up over her hips exposing her panty clad front and bottom to me. I have her turn around, bend over and inspect her bottom. I usually look her in her eyes while telling her that she is now warmed up and the real spanking can begin. I reach for her panties and lower them to mid thigh and direct her back OTK. The spanking resumes on her now bare bottom.

Never any warm ups, just a brief talk and then dad would say off with the clothes and over the lap or on hands and knees on the bed..

I do prefer a warmup, several lighter paddle swats, I can then take a longer and harder paddling and hold position better

Yes I certainly have had what you might call were warm up spankings prior to the one given in earnest.

Most of the time when I was growing up there was never a warm up period. We went over mothers lap, she would pull our PJ's or undies down to our ankles, pick up her oval oak hair brush and start smacking our naughty bare bottom till it was bright red and swollen and we were crying promising to behave. She stopped and gently rubbed our bright red bottom round and round. She also put moisturizing lotion on it which felt real good. The spanking made us behave for maybe a week or two before we would end up across her lap with our naughty bare bottom being spanked once again with the oval oak hairbrush.

You can start with the bare hand and alternate cheeks until you get a nice reddened bottom. Then you can go to implements and turn up some heat. This can be more arousing to the spankee.

As much as i get horny for a good spanking i am very inexperienced. that being said I think my preference would be no warm up and just a hard start into a bare ass spanking….. but …. with a sensual cool down after that involved some gentle caressing strokes warming me up to whatever activity is next …hopefully a big enema 😃

In the past I have always done the spanking and I usually start with tight pants being worn then after a warm up removing them completely. Recently I have tried being spanked and this was done with me dressed in white pe shorts just like I was at school then being told off for wearing pants under my shorts - having everything pulled down then spanked - very gently for my first time but wow what a thrill to recreate my school days. More please

During a general spanking session I start spanking over clothes with hand then paddle. Round two is hand and paddle over underwear. Finally, the third round is bare with hand then paddle. Learning more with strap and belt, just not super confidant in safety and accuracy with those yes.

It depends on the game scenario but bad little boys get spanked over their trousers, then over there underpants, then bare till they are good and red. Then the get a real strapping.

For straight up discipline for breaking the rule, it's get naked and bend over the chair for my whipping.

Funny, I fantasize about this - instead my spanking were all done out of anger and there was no warm up.

Growing up there wasn't much warm up besides the few smacks on the butt when initially caught doing whatever I was doing bad or the few spanks while being taken to where I was being spanked (in the house, up to the bedroom, etc.). Pretty embarrassing when getting in trouble while playing outside with friends and getting those few spanks while being brought into the house with my friends knowing I was about to get a spanking.

Then it was pants and underwear down for the main event lol

@LameUsername … the few spanks while being taken to where I was being spanked (in the house, up to the bedroom, etc.)…

Seeing someone being led home while their backside is being given a few spanks or tapped with a folded belt was something that both scared me and excited me.

My spankings always have an initial warm up period. When I was a kid and got the belt from mom, it took about a half dozen licks before she got her rhythm and started to really give it to me good. I had a girlfriend back in the day that enjoyed role play sessions that included both spanking and enemas, and I would give her the same treatment with the strap that I used to get. Fun times.

My husband gets strapped similar to the way Bob1952 wrote. Before he outgrew them, my husband had a spanking outfit, complete with short pants and knee socks. First, it was over my lap 5 strokes of the strap on the seat of his short tight pants. Then, he was stood up, shirt tucked up, short pants taken down, and back over my lap for 10 strokes- 5 over his briefs and the other 5 on the backs of his upper thighs and over the leg band of his white briefs. Finally, he was stood up again, his briefs were slipped down to join his short pants around his knees, and back over for 15 strokes on his very sore- and very bare- behind!

@LameUsername It was identical for me! Mom would catch me/us in the act, then it would be the scolding, held by the arm with a few swats right then and there, no matter who was around, and then back into the house for the actually spanking. Pants and underwear down (or skirts as it may have been for my sisters) bare hand, on bare bottom, and something to remember. The worst and most embarrassing I remember as a kid/tween were those first few swats and the scolding in front of others! They knew what was happening and what was coming! The only thing worse was if Mom had company at home and my actions had distracted her and “rudely" disturbed her. The spanking was still given!

Well for my fore play spankings they are just a warm up only. BUT for punishment, since it has been a long time scince i had a “Leather Butt”, i can not make myself stay in position only after a few spanks from MY Vermont Bath brush 😢! My wife can no longer help to restrain me as she could up to a few years ago. As such i asked her to take the advice of "The Discipline Wives Club" by quick spanks of 8 or so followed by a pause, so i could recover / get used to it, then a slightly longer spanking with a pause for me to compose my self,then another longer one with a pause before giving me a long & hard spanking with no safe words, no mercy till i can no longer beg or plead understandably! So far it has not happened as she did not like my “Topping from the bottom” 😢

Yes, I typically receive a warm up spanking. Usually starts over the clothes and then layer by layer removed until I'm naked.

For adult spankings there are almost always warm up spankings given with the bare hand. If you want to make a session last, there almost has to be a warm up of some kind, otherwise it’s just too much too fast and then your butt either gets too much damage (bruises or bleeding) or goes numb.

Childhood spankings for most, me included, were quick and to the point, and over in a couple of minutes. No need of a warm up for that.

For me it has been around 15 years ago, since I got my last spanking. But when I did get them on a regular basis, it was almost always first on the skirt/jeans, then underwear, then on my bare bottom. Which was already of a nice red color when it was time for the bare bottom spanking part. Implements were used as well, always on the bare bottom. But even when it was a hand spanking only, that hurt a lot after the other 2 stages of the “warming up”. Don't underestimate a great spanker. Some might think it's sort of vanilla, a hand spanking, but you might be wrong here if the one administering it has strong hands and spanks you for a long time in a row…

If it wasn't punishment there was always a long hand spanking followed by a short but intense session with the hairbrush. For punishment it was bend over for the strap or OTK for the hairbrush.

Not even as a kid! It was always right down to business. Over the lap, skirt up or pants down, panties (and whatever down) and that's that! I think as a kid I would have hated spankings more if it was a major production and now, WHEN I get them which is not too often, I just like being told it's spanking time or whatever.

Mom never spanked. If she felt one or more of us (5 siblings) earned one, she palmed it off on Dad. Dad didn't horse around - he pulled the 4" wide leather belt he took from a dead enemy soldier in WWII from it's drawer, ordered the guilty party to the barn where we dropped trousers and received punishment. Never with bare bottom, though, and the girls did not receive corporal punishment.

No adult spankings, but I often wonder…😬