How do you give/take a sexual enema?

To me enema's are all about sex and sensual. From the filling of the bag, to insertion, to letting it all out, to multiple orgasms, it's about sex 😄

I'm not into discomfort and neither is my wife.

I fill the bag with warm, filtered water then add a little salt. The only sound is the portable heater as it warms the bathroom.

I get a little hot and very hard as I lube up the 36" colon tube with KY. I've already laid out a warm towel and plugged in her magic wand.

She assumes the position her baby soft, sexy butt in the air. I can't help but run my hands over her naked body. I kiss her soft skin.

She becomes impatient for me to start. I lube up my gloved finger. Parting her butt cheeks I slowly insert my finger, She is relaxed and ready, my finger goes in easily. As my finger goes to the knuckle I can feel something. She really need this enema. Her impatience kicks in.

I start the colon tube going in while caressing and kissing her butt. Once I get in to knuckle depth, I start the warm water. She reacts with a shuckle. The water help me insert the tube along side of the blockage, it's in about 10 inches now.

Once the 2.5 quart bag is about a third empty, he impatience kicks in, she's got to go. I pull the tube out and help her to the toilet.

As soon as she sits down a gush of clear water bursts out. She looks into the toilet for fecal matter. Nothing. She sits back and spreads he legs so I can watch. More clear water. She cramps. I watch as a large hard brown mass as it struggles to get out. It hits the toilet water with a splash followed by a burst of more clear water.

"I need more," she says. I rush to top off the bag not wanting to miss anything...

To be continued.

What is a sexual enema to you?...

Nice, sound very sensual and must be fun to have a willing partner.

With an invitation that allows time for anticipation and pre-cleaning; a warm bedroom with candles, our soft 'play blanket' on the bed, followed by a lot of lubrication, cuddling, teasing, and caressing; then release; and finally incredible love-making.

Take a regular enema when you are feeling frisky anyway!

That question would require a book to answer!

"I need more," she says. I rush to top off the bag not wanting to miss anything...

To be continued.

Good grief! Don't stop now!! Although you DO allow us to write our own ending, so to speak.

Thank you!!

Every enema I've ever had (solo or given by a woman) since the first at age 15 through today almost age 69 have been sexual either by intent or by the arousing effect they have had on me once started, even the ones I've done specifically for medical pre-cleaning. They all started out or later became sexual from my arousal from them. Every enema I've given an ex-GF or ex-wife were always intended to be sexual and worked very well thank you, as they wanted me to give them their enemas as part of foreplay or sexual arousal. I think I'd have to be very ill indeed to have even a cleansing or medicinal enema NOT be sexual.

Even the large volume colonics I've had over the years turned out to be sexual even though I didn't discuss that aspect with the therapist. I did however tell multiple therapists that I enjoyed very large fillings and they should make my fillings and retentions as large as they were permitted. Every time I thoroughly enjoyed the colonic and later masturbated at home right after arriving.

Eric

While I have always been anal erotic, until I joined Zity I would have never thought an enema could be sexual.

I was lucky to receive my first non medical enema from a playmate, a few years ago.

While I knew the “mechanics” of what was going to happen I did not expect exactly how sensual and erotic it was going to be. The anticipation & nervousness soon give way to the delicious, slow, deliberate lubing, caressing and fondling that makes me eager to feel the nozzle enter me.

Instantly,I want and need to feel him inside of my pussy or ass.

Whether he uses his fingers, toys, mouth or cock, add that to the full feeling and it makes for such an intense orgasm!

Absolutely delicious!

There are few thing in life that can bond two people more. Make someone very happy and tingle.

Few things beat the tingling, toe curling, chilling aspects of an enema that is done in conjunction with adequate foreplay. A thorough massage/manipulation, oral teasing, verbal encouragement, and plenty of TLC, certainly can prepare one for those intimate sensations triggered by the gentle insertion of an adequate nozzle and the gradual flow of solution as it builds in intensity and tickles the most inner nooks and crannies that are often neglected in the usual hustle and bustle.

The sexual enema is a process that is designed for the enhanced release of sexual tensions during the intimacy of a relaxing cleanse. It's not mechanical; there's no rule book or directions to follow. The variations of appropriate setting, equipment and solutions used, role play and conversations, and techniques employed are almost endless. It's a lot like porno..... I can't tell you what it is but I know it when I see it.

The sexual enema is a process that is designed for the enhanced release of sexual tensions during the intimacy of a relaxing cleanse. It's not mechanical; there's no rule book or directions to follow. The variations of appropriate setting, equipment and solutions used, role play and conversations, and techniques employed are almost endless. It's a lot like porno..... I can't tell you what it is but I know it when I see it.

@redbulb, you are so right on so many points. I would add that going into a "sexual enema session" you must be in a sexual frame of mind. That's part of the secret sauce for me. It sets the stage for what's to come.

And as you rightly point out, it's like porn...hard to define, but easy to identify when you see it!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

Well written, can visualize it all (and envy you, my Beloved Miss M is 500 km away from me, not reachable due to Corona

"I need more," she says.

These few words, very sexual, can make every daddy proud of their girl.

Thanks for your great writting 😄

Give her many orgasms along with her enemas

Giving a "vanilla" enema to a partner for legitimate health reasons for which enemas were intended, can take an unexpected, sensual detour that becomes a really nice cuddling interlude or even mind-blowing "heavenly triple chocolate" experience. An unassuming light touch here or there, soft encouraging words, and a spark is ignited. Life's small treasures that you don't expect can happen amid the emotions of giving or receiving what began as a need for moving out what's stuck in there. I remember one of my husband's famous lines, "Wow, how did that happen?" He's pretty dense sometimes. Lol

My read is the touch makes all the difference. A sensual/sexual enema should have touch throughout it, and not just genital contact - rub back, belly, butt, chest, as well. Kisses help too. Slow flow, warm fluid, and plenty of verbal encouragement.

If solo for my own enjoyment I plan on drawing it out and it certainly including being plugged at the end. If with a girl I like taking turns on each other

As I said down in #7, almost every one of mine solo or partnered is sexual for both of us. The soft gentle easy ones described here mostly really are sexy and lovely, but here's another very wonderful sexual version. My exes and I and even I now utilizing vivid Dommes like them in fantasy during a real enema are extremely delightfully sexual enemas. My exes and I were switches and one scenario we loved was her being very Domme and giving me large, long held submissive enemas, mixed with our other kinks for added eroticism. The addition of our D/s dynamic with her physically with the fetishes and large enemas plus verbally interacting to make me as submissive, helpless and humiliated as we could is extremely sexually satisfying. My enemas by themselves of course were wonderful, but adding other kinks and D/s made them more emotionally intense and exciting. The potential embarrassment and humiliation of getting and being made to retain a large enema becomes extremely desirable and erotic taking it from a trusted Domme keeping it strictly between the two of us. I really miss the real life version but even envisioning her in fantasy Domme-ing me through a real enema is very satisfying and exciting.

Eric

If I don’t need an enema and have them anyway. Then it’s all about erotica and sex! For the enJOYment.

Vicki V put it in great perspective as did others. While those early enemas as a kid were never intended to be sexual/sensual, as we approached puberty, some sensations triggered feelings that altered our personal feelings toward enemas.

As a teen, an enema in the hospital from a younger nurse, who had a very calming and nurturing approach, triggered some sensations previously not experienced aside from typical self indulgences (masturbation).

Later on, enema treatments at home from a caring spouse/partner, triggered some other reactions. The realization that common negative perceptions regarding enemas were misleading, the intimate administration of such treatments took on new meaning. If accompanied by some of those other factors as described in this thread, enemas can provide some additional sensations not otherwise experienced.

Enemassage is my favorite, although other efforts certainly can create that "unexpected, sensual detour" Vicki V referred to.

@Vicki_V said,

Giving a "vanilla" enema to a partner for legitimate health reasons for which enemas were intended, can take an unexpected, sensual detour that becomes a really nice cuddling interlude or even mind-blowing "heavenly triple chocolate" experience.

Vicki did an excellent job of describing the feelings my sister an I discovered, as young teenagers, while giving each other a couple enemas after school one afternoon for constipation. Which in turn, lead to my brother, sister, an I experimenting with enemas and our sexuality. A few year’s later, this lead to benefits with my girlfriend, thanks to my sister, during both Junior High and High School. And after I got married in my late 20’s, too my wife an I.

Giving a "vanilla" enema to a partner for legitimate health reasons for which enemas were intended, can take an unexpected, sensual detour that becomes a really nice cuddling interlude or even mind-blowing "heavenly triple chocolate" experience. An unassuming light touch here or there, soft encouraging words, and a spark is ignited. Life's small treasures that you don't expect can happen amid the emotions of giving or receiving what began as a need for moving out what's stuck in there. I remember one of my husband's famous lines, "Wow, how did that happen?" He's pretty dense sometimes. Lol

Vicki,

As usual, you write elegantly about things sexual and in this case sexual enhancement from enemas. Just one question and a comment or two. Question: I'm quite sure I'm far more dense than your husband, but please just clarify for me and explain what do you mean by heavenly triple chocolate? Something specific about orgasms and enemas or just a delightful sensory experience like chocolate?

Below in #7 and 19 I tried much less elegantly to describe my enjoying both the the gentle loving as well as the intense erotic kinky exciting sexual enemas I've had with my exes, mostly by large, long held enemas enhanced by her being very Domme and me submissive, helpless and humiliated. The enhancement of our sexuality and climaxes was wonderful. I'm sure you have your own unique exciting way to enjoy your sexual enemas but that was wonderful for us. I surely don't mean to offend you.

I also want to admire and compliment you in the way you wrote above however briefly about an enema given to your lover resulting almost unexpectedly in either or both a gentle loving sexuall/emotional experience or on the other end of enjoyment a very intense mutually enjoyable sexual experience made beautifully kinky and exciting from the enema. I've had many of the second type, mostly solo, but I would deeply love to have had many more of the first. I wish for you and hope for your and your husband's continued happy marriage and many more of both kinds of enema-enhanced sexual joy and bonding. Thank you again for your elegant, loving and exciting writing.

Merry Christmas, and all the best you you and your family.

Eric

That’s a long colon tube! What does the salt do?

The salt changes the salinity of the fluid. There are good reasons to try and match that due to fluid/electrolyte shifts and absorption within the bodily organs.

A single enema or two with tap water shouldn't pose issues, but more fluid injections and longer retention can be problematic for some people and kids.

Consulting medical pros is often advised.

I went for many years without adding anything to the water, didn't even add soap, had no way to know, as if the internet existed in the '70's.

I don't think I knew until the internet came up and people were using the usenet, internet news to find out what other people were doing.

That explained why the water stayed in so long and the cramps. I always add a bit of salt to the water if nothing else.

the hoseman1

I find it all very sexual, culminating in a powerful orgasm at the end. It begins with the urge that

leads to the slow anticipation, then the preparation, and finally the actual Enema or series

of Enemas. And it is always a powerful orgasm. It is largely in my head, perhaps, but the

physical sensations that go along with it definitely add to the experience!

How do you make holy water?

Start with regular water and boil the Devil out of it!!!

How do you take a sexy enema? By being horny and taking an enema!

As a teenager, asking my sister to give me a couple of enemas for pleasure, knowing she’d do her thing with the douche nozzle while giving me the enemas. Of course, the opposite was also true. She’d asked me to give her a couple of enemas for pleasure and too work the douche nozzle magic. In the end, it really didn’t matter who ask who, because we both got a couple of enemas whether she ask me or I ask her. Enemas were our way, as teenagers, to scratch an anal erotic itch and relieve our sexual tension at the same time.

I need more is music to the ears. Nothing better then refilling the back and laying her back down as she returns as she knows she is going to repeat it until she is fully cleaned out. It's also good to change positions for each enema to make sure you hit all the spots and enjoy her in different views as she gets filled.