@cal1082 , was your mom a nurse or have a medical background? My mom never did anything like that to me; at best, she stuck a suppository up my butt as a little girl when I got real sick from frequent ear infections.
With Anthony and I, our play exams used to be all about the rectal temperature taking. He had asked me one time how I'd feel having a vaginal exam, and I wasn't initially fond of the idea. Heck, I used to get so weirdly shy at gyno exams and that was with female doctors! 😏🤭🤦♀️
Anyways, fast forward, and now that I've opened up to the idea plus have had several vaginal exams, I can say it's most thrilling. There's lots I enjoy about them. For starters, I enjoy being explored, this is, of course provided I feel comfortable with the play setting and that I'm not adversely experiencing any vaginal discomforts prior to or during. 😋
I also am naturally and erotically intrigued by my vagina. Female anatomy is fascinating; since being a participating play patient in vaginal exams, I've noted how unique vaginas are, they are unique to each woman, and have their "buttons" if you will. It's fascinating. That goes back to my turn on with the idea of exploration. Exploring what makes me tick.
What works for one woman, doesn't always work for another. It's fun learning what makes Shygirl 🙋♀️ orgasm 😊 I'm multiorgasmic so I enjoy that aspect of a play exam. I'd like to get to the point where I just embrace the moment and let go, not be so overly shy; which is why I usually have a few shots before a play exam to let down my inhibitions 🤭