Hairy or shaved

I prefer a furry pussy. I think it adds personality to a naked woman. Once in awhile a bald beaver is fun to explore! My current GF keeps hers trimmed to about an inch.... maybe less! Plus... she says that the hair helps her when going PP.... No hair tends to allow the stream to wander a bit (her description!

When I was a nudist... I used to joke that a hairy puss meant I didn't need to floss as often! (only mentioned that to close friends)

Being a ginger I have been asked more than once “Does the carpet match the drapes?” I just smile and go on and let that be that.

Just wonder what the would do if I told them I have hardwood floors.

Talking strictly about women and their pubic hair:

I like a full bush and a clean shaven vulva and rectum but that comes with conditions!

If the lady in question has a beautiful furry thick bush, then by all means go natural and be proud.

On the other hand, if she has a thin gappy excuse for pubic hair then by all means, shave it smooth and beautiful.

There are exceptions to these sensible guidelines:

If the lady in question has ample long labia, then cleanly shave the labia so she can proudly sport those erotic flippers.

The same is true for ladies with a large clitoris. Shave those pubs up so that clit shows loud and proud.

My problem makes these suggestions difficult to always follow - like an exception to a grammar rule.

I for one like grooming both ways. I love a hairy pussy and a beautiful slick bald vulva too. I’ve mostly worked that out with my kinky medfet partners.

If they are bushy occasionally, I choose either to enjoy it or I might prefer the erotic choice to shave her for the bald beaver look. It all depends on my mood and what she has in her panties.

I was with an enemate last week who was sporting a full bush. She told me she grew it out to let me shave her bare because she found it erotic to have me closely handling her pubis and labia before we started her enema series.

I’ll have to say I enjoyed every minute because she got very wet, her clit enlarged and her labia became fully engorged. She was close to cumming with just getting shaved.

So I did what any red blooded American heterosexual male would do, I ate her out and let her enjoy her first orgasm of our session.

Warm, soapy enemas followed, more masturbation, vaginal and anal toys, anal sex, erotic photos of her and an exquisite spanking with a butt plug in her ass.

Our late morning meeting lasted until the sun was going down and I basically had to help her to her car.

I watched as she redressed without bra and panties.

I think "hard" and "wood" might be right @Tillie , but I don't think it would be anything to do with floors. 😃

Hairy or a shaved, it's all good as long as hygiene is good... both are sexy in their own way.

I tended to depilate everywhere except my head eyelashes and eyebrows. Recently I grew my bush back after an operation I could not shave it.

My Husband liked it so it stays.

For the past three months, I have just done my legs, underarms, and bum crack with a bush trim. So far It has been a success.

I have a nice fine coat of soft almost see-through micro length blond hairs on my arms and body. I like them so do Tina and Rick.

To me.....and purely in my opinion......shaved has some wonderful benefits. It is easier to stay clean, as hair hold smells. Removing hair increases the sensitivity and heightens the touch experience. It is very sexy and makes me want to provide a lot more oral attention.

Again...personal preference....but shaved gets my vote.

In the 2000s, I waxed religiously.

When I met my husband he asked me to grow it out. I complied. It’s very soft.

Post pandemic I no longer shave my pits and nothing and no one will convince me to resume. The hair is sparse, sexy, indelibly feminine, and I fucking love it. So does my man. And no one is going to convince me that I’m any less sexy au natural.

I shave my legs as I feel like it and as the weather dictates. I will always love a smooth shaved leg.

I prefer hairy pussies.

I hesitate to call something natural a fetish, but the way my preference developed was similar to a fetish.

Around the age I was starting to notice girls, I went to summer camp. We did a lot of aquatics and were in bathing suits most of the time. I was surprised, intrigued and turned on to notice that some of the girls had wisps of hair visible along the bikini line. One girl, in particular, with whom I was friendly, had quite a bit of hair on her inner thighs.

To this day, sheer panties with a full bush and other glimpses of feminine body hair are a huge turn-on

I agree don't shave it. It's a sign of maturity. I don't care about under arm hair either. I do like shaved legs but it's up to her how she decides to keep herself just what I find attractive.

I regret to say that over the past ten years my principal enjoyment of sex has been masturbating, often to porn. Such is the almost universal shaved appearance of women in porn both professional & amateur that I was actually starting to forget women had pubic hair until I recently watched some vintage 70s stuff when bushy was rather more the norm. Sad act aren't I?

Myself and my female partner both have bare vulvas. this is the norm for lesbians now generally.

We have a friend who owns a waxing business. It’s doing extremely well and she had to hire another technician to handle her client load which is mostly straight (her guess) women. She is Australian and her business is called “Downunder Waxing”.

I believe they were called merkins @Repetitious_Old_Bastard .

As well as some kind of pubic wig "merkin" can also refer to some kind of false or toy vagina. Some years back my daily commute had me drive past a country house where the nameplate near the gate read "The Merkins" As Loyd Grossman once used to say on TV "who lives in a house like this?"

Last year, I treated myself to a bikini wax. In the moment, while being waxed, I was fine - the discomfort was easily handled. I was so inflamed for days afterwards! I enjoyed the look of things, but was very uncomfortable because of that. The results did not last long, with regrowth that I considered happened too quickly to warrant, and it was ingrown-city for me. And dear husband prefers the look of maturity as defined by pubic hair.

So: trim!

@Ladybug761 Agreed. I once attended an art class with a nude model. She had shaved her pubic hair into a narrow stripe. It looked like the poor girl was suffering from a severe case of razor burn, which wasn't particularly attractive. Leave these delicate areas alone!

As a side note, I saw her a few times at the supermarket. Wasn't sure if I should say hello...

@Horace unless you spoke with her when you painted her then no.

I wonder about our perceptions of "sexy." Is the notion of hair removal being sexy, and feminine?, just a culturally conditioned ... disposition? As some have noted, there are cultures where women removing pubic hair is not the norm, and i'd be willing to bet the majority of men who like women still get aroused by them.

i'm curious why some men find hair visually sexy and others don't?

@tallslenderguy I think it is cultural conditioning combined with personal preference. During my time as a porn consumer, the norm has changed dramatically. When Playboy first came out, it was considered too risque to show pubic hair at all. Indeed, I understand there was competition between Playboy and Penthouse to show pubic hair (called the Pubic Wars by Hugh Hefner). When I purchased my first Playboy in 1988, the women were very hairy by today's standard. Harder core magazines started showing women with their labia majora shaved, while the mons was still hairy, presumably to give a better view of their genitals, and gradually showed less and less hair. I bought my last Penthouse in 1993 (closing my girlie magazine era) and it had women that were completely shaved.

As for personal preference, some men prefer small breasts, some large. Some prefer hairy or not hairy. Much the same thing.

From the female side, I can imagine that body hair is viewed as a masculine characteristic so I can appreciate some desire to get rid of it. I also wonder if Barbie had an influence on what the norm should be!? They could have put darker plastic down there....

@tallslenderguy I think it is cultural conditioning combined with personal preference.

i know it can be a rabbit hole, but i fall into it trying to see, understand?, where personal preference comes from?

I shave everything. Every. Day.

Clean. Soft. Easy access.

@Horace unless you spoke with her when you painted her then no.

@Nurse_Phillips Thank you, that's excellent advice. I never did approach her outside of class.

I have one other funny story about that class that I have to relate. One of the exercises the teacher had us do was to draw her without looking at the paper. I thought I had done a good job, but when I looked at my paper I had drawn her breasts and nipples totally disproportionately huge. I guess it shows where my attention was focused. To avoid embarrassment, I quickly hid my drawing of the giant breasts on a tiny body and started over.

i know it can be a rabbit hole, but i fall into it trying to see, understand?, where personal preference comes from?

@tallslenderguy Yes, interesting question. It must be a very complicated mixture of cultural conditioning, what you were exposed to when young, experiences you've had and even genetics (you come from a long line of men that were attracted to women)

Hairy. I find it to be “ natural”

And lovely to look at in your case @EnchantedAmethyst . 😃

I shave everything. Every. Day.

Clean. Soft. Easy access.

@EnchantedAmethyst I'll bet you look and smell great after a shower! 😉

No hair below the eyebrows. It's the only way to go. 😃

I posted earlier on this thread that one's choice of how they manage their body is a personal choice and preference. I still believe that. I would never cast negative comments on someone making a choice that suits them and how they look and want their physical appearance to appear to others and most importantly to themselves when they look in the mirror.

That said, do I have personal choices or preferences regarding body hair on men and women- YES.

So here goes. I really don't like any body hair on men or women. I think the human body is amazing and beautiful and hair detracts from this beautiful form. Yes, I know some do feel body hair is a natural part of our human anatomy and for that reason it should be left alone. I respect that POV and that is why I say each person should make grooming decisions they feel makes them look their best as they see themselves.

As far as sex goes, having a hairless genital area for me is definitely preferred. Skin on skin contact whether it be oral or genital feels so much better when hair is not present. And seeing genitals hairless is such a turn on for me- you actually can see the anatomy. I really don't like performing oral sex on someone and getting pubic hair in my mouth or worse yet having to pick pubic hair out of my mouth if any hair decides to break loose from the person I am performing oral sex on- honesty that is a gag moment for me.

So I am in the camp of smooth bodies and definitely smooth genital areas. I feel it comes across as being more hygienic and doesn't trap natural body odors- again some like the natural smells our bodies produce during sex. For me that is a negative.

The bottom line is that for you and your sex partners each has to work out what works best for them when it comes to body hair especially pubic hair. I will always opt for smooth hairless beautiful skin over hairy.

Whereas Anthony loves to shave every hair away..or try to, anyway 🤭...with the exception of his eyebrows of course, I prefer to keep some pubic hair. I do shave my underpits and legs, though. With my pubic hair, I try to keep it trimmed and I do shave the sides...like a bikini shave, if you will. I love hair personally. I keep my head hair long enough to admire, and I don't really mind if Anthony forgets to shave 🙃