Ladies: what do you like about rimming?

So several females have said "hey, if you're into ass play, we should talk." Well, I'm totally into rimjobs, giving and receiving. I eat healthy, have super immaculate hygiene, and regularly "flush" via enemas. I have yet to find a participant who really wants to have a good ol fashioned tongue punching fart box session. Wondering if talking up my jaw gymnastics abilities is either scarry or intimidating? Any insight would be great as quarantine has me wanting to get super flexible and rim my own ass.

Ladies: what do you like about rimming?

Doing it or having it done?

Both. How do you prep to have it done? And what do you like when giving the action?

It depends on how deep one plans to go. If it's just a licking, a hop on the bidet or a shower.

If one plans to go deeper, an enema may be in order.

As Susie said, it depends on who, how long, and just how in depth this adventure is going to go.

If it is myself and hubby, usually a shower unless its a spur of the moment, throw me over the back of couch and lick me from toes to nose because l was naked and walking around as usual.

If we just got out of the hottub and are getting frisky, let it go as it may. If it is a planned event with guests, an enema and douche will be in order.

I’m male and have rimmed 20+ women over the years, some girlfriends, some very short term hookups. My sense is that a lot of women definitely enjoy anal play including rimming, HOWEVER do not like or feel comfortable discussing it explicitly. Some do, many don’t.

I’m always quite cautious and gentle leading up to anal anything, checking her reactions as things progress, gently checking in with her, “does this feel good?” Etc. And never forgetting it’s as much about her pleasure as mine, if not more so. Rimming definitely does not happen on the first hookup. Well except for one memorable shitty drunk one night stand!

I guess my point is that with the women I’ve been with who really enjoyed rimming, if I had opened by offering to “tongue punch her fart box”, the sex would have ended on the spot. Although I can think of one former girlfriend who would laugh at that.

Patience and subtlety can go a long way sometimes.

I guess my point is that with the women I’ve been with who really enjoyed rimming, if I had opened by offering to “tongue punch her fart box”, the sex would have ended on the spot..

Exactly what I thought when reading the original post. It may not be the act, but rather, the overture, that’s fouling things up.

Thanks for the pointers on the delivery. Maybe I'll repackage the delivery as I often forget how some individuals are unable to say what they mean and mean what they say. I've always had a small censor button causing my inside voice to be heard others on the outside.

"Tongue punching Fart Box session."

Well I need to add this to my lexicon. And I must say that approach may inspire your partner after an evening of heavy drinking. However, if that discussion where to take place at, say, an event with lots of people, it might not receive the desired response.

But in truth...I had to laugh when I read that line.