What's your favorite spanking implement for either receiving or giving or both?

You can never go wrong with a hand spanking, but I'm partial to the hairbrush as well.

Bare hand on bare bottom is best. Skin touching skin is always so intimate.

I admit though, there was one woman who I loved to cane. I used a thin wood dowel, which left pink welts (never drew blood, not into that). She hated & loved the pain, said it was so much more intense than my hand. Occasionally I added a bit of humiliation to her pain by spreading her bottom open and teasing her anus with the tip of the cane. I sanded it round and smooth beforehand.

Another woman, colleague-with-benefits, enjoyed having things done to her bottom, so once I spanked her with a thick wood ruler on her bare white cheeks. Normally an extroverted, dramatic person, she was shy, silent, compliant from the moment I told her to lie down and pull down her pants.

Riding crop between my cheeks on that most sensitive spot

Far and away, an old fashioned leather belt on my bare bum.

Depends on my subject and purpose but 450 mm flexible plastic ruler, paddle and table tennis bat most useful -and well received! I am definitely a provider only!

It would have to be bare hand followed by hairbrush or wooden spoon. Growing up i always got my spankings over mothers knee. She would sit in a straight back chair in the den and call me. There I would be instructed to undress and then told to go to either the kitchen to get the wooden spoon or her bathroom to get her hairbrush. I really dreaded the hairbrush. I would bring it back and hand it to her and then stand in front of her while she scolded me and told me what a naught boy i was. Then it was over her knee, she would always start with her hand. After a few minutes when i was crying and squirming she would announce, "lets put a little color in that bottom" and proceed to give me the wooden spoon or hairbrush. Spankings were not my favorite

I'm partial to a good old fashioned hand spanking on the bare. I'm down for almost anything though. Not too into a belt, since it reminds me of my own spankings from growing up.

I prefer an open hand for a proper smacked bottom.

I would say for the most part when I spank I will use my hand, paddle and a hairbrush to give spankings.

Females will be instructed to undress or I will undress you and you will always receive the spankings on your bare bottom.

There are times that I will use the belt and I can say that the belt does bring about different emotions and feelings and reactions from those being spanked.

The position you receive the spanking may depend where we are, why you are being spanked and how hard the spanking will be.

For a real beating, few things can come close to the welts, broken blood vessels and black and blue marks created by a 1/4 or 3/8 inch delrin (Polyoxymethylene) rod. It is a strong, very dense (1.4g/cc), heavy polymer. The density of delrin is about four times greater than rattan.

A sjambok is also a favorite. This and the delrin cane makes rattan canes look and feel like a child's toy. Once a delrin rod or sjambok hits you, you will never forget how it feels.

Me too @Amelia_Grace (#9). Too often I heard the slap of that belt as it came out of Daddy's britches and I knew what was coming next. We didn't have to lower our drawers so we felt a few wacks across the calves.

For me it is "my" Vermont Bath Brush, that i bought for my wife to spank ME with! Most of the time it is not very hard or long & it can be for punishment OR fore play! When i am told "Yes you have been a good boy but I am going to spank you because I WANT TO and because I CAN!" All my objections stop & accept that i am submissive to her and getting spanked!

SwitchableSusie, i never have been caned, and it does scare me BUT as i do crave severe spankings, firmly held in position, till i can no longer beg or plead understandably! ( Only happened about 8-10 times in 50 years) So i really would want "A real beating, few things can come close to the welts, broken blood vessels and black and blue marks created by a 1/4 or 3/8 inch delrin (Polyoxymethylene) rod. Once a delrin rod hits you, you will never forget how it feels". Every few years......?!!

Hand/hairbrush combo is what I’ve received the most and what works best. The hand to bare butt is a warm up and makes things embarrassing, then the hairbrush sinks it’s teeth into my flesh and turns me into a howling, squirming and kicking boy.

The switch or a light cane is really good too, it stings like crazy at the time but doesn’t really leave behind any evidence. The criss cross welts are fun to look at but fade very quickly.

For me, only a hand. i prolly am different from most on this one because i'm looking for pain, but will endure it to get my Tops handprint on my behind. For me, it's about the psychology of being spanked and the resultant signature of my Mate on me.

Belt or cane, giving.

For me giving, definitely bare hand

As a giver it is definately the hand. Occasionally a hair brush if she has been really bad

A heavy leather belt or strap

OTK with an open hand on my bare bottom for sure.

Love a hand spanking in any position, because a hand is always available. However, I also like a short strap. Me always completely naked.

I become highly aroused with a big erection when a woman or man strips off my clothes, has me get on a bed on my hands and knees, holds my low hanging balls firmly in one hand, and spanks my bare bottom with a hand, sandal, leather strap, or riding crop.

A warm, soft ladies hand, and a light, yet somewhat firm spank on my bare bottom would do it for me... I'm not at all into pain but a little mild discipline could really get my fuse lit. This only happened to me once, but it was really memorable!

My favorite is a type of ladies pyramidal belt that has these three rows of square metal studs going up and down its length. A good 5 spankings followed by an enema and a diapering. Laying across my wife's lap retaining my enema as she breastfeeds me.

Nothing better than a good hand spanking, giving and receiving.

I do prefer being spanked bare bottomed over my wife's lap with her hand but she prefers using her wooden hair brush

I do prefer being spanked bare bottomed over my wife's lap with her hand but she prefers using her wooden hair brush

That's because it is easier on her hand and harder on your bottom. I like to do a hand warm up, then some with a paddle or brush. It makes for a nice hot bottom.

I always favored the old fashioned razor strop. I heard my college girlfriend’s father use it on her bare backside one summer evening and I saw the results later that night. I acquired one shortly thereafter and it has been well used over the years.

. I heard my college girlfriend’s father use it on her bare backside one summer evening and I saw the results later that night.

Now that's a story worth telling.

I'd like doing bare handed on a bare butt 😃

Now that's a story worth telling.

Simple story, Moppy. We had gone out for the afternoon and when we came back, her father was waiting for her. She had taken the car and hadn’t asked “Daddy, May I?”. I saw the strop in his hand and he told me to go. I was just walking out the door when he threw her over the arm of the sofa and pulled her panties down. I could hear the smacks and screams all the way down the block.

When her parents had gone out for the evening, she called me and I came over and saw the aftermath. She had a bruised and obviously still very sore behind. She told me that she was not going to go back home during semester breaks next year and would move out next summer, and she did.