How did the men here discover all about pelvic exams.

Having done a search there is a thread for how the women here learned about the field of gynecology and pelvic exams etc. But I did not see one for when and how men with medfet learned or heard about it for the first time.

Anyone care to share?

It will depend on the age of each male. For men under a certain age, through the sex education curriculum at school. Even though it did not provide absolutely all details about what happens during a pelvic exam, it discussed things like the position, certain tools used by the doctor, frequency of the tests, etc. I think those sessions provided enough to get our minds intrigued... and eventually fantasize about those exams.

An A-Z home medical book. How i also learned about many other things.

Hear me now. Believe me later. No matter how much you read about pelvic exams you will probably never do an adequate pelvic exam. It takes years of experience to do an adequate exam. Unless the patient is under anesthesia you will never palpable an ovary.

Hear me now. Believe me later. No matter how much you read about pelvic exams you will probably never do an adequate pelvic exam. It takes years of experience to do an adequate exam. Unless the patient is under anesthesia you will never palpable an ovary.

Good point but not really related to the question asked i don't think.

Reading, and close female friends who were willing to share what they had experienced.

I learned about them from a priest in Catholic high school. He liked to talk about what girls he’d like to examine if he were a gyno doctor.

He told me what the exam was like and that some high school girls had gotten them. Prior to that I’d never heard about them.

I learned about them from mainly reading a book my wife had from a college class and various internet searches. As I learned about pelvic exams, I started to talk with my wife about past exams and experiences she’s had. Eventually she allowed me to attend a few gynecologist exams with her.

For me, there were multiple occasions where I learned about these topics.

First of it was when I was really small, I couldn't even read properly at that time. But still I was looking into a home medical book. I was just curious. And of course, there were not that many pictures in it. Then I found a sketch of different enema positions. It kind of got me instantly.

But to answer the question asked, about pelvic exams I learned later, when I just got out of elementary school. I had a computer with unlimited 😉 internet. So I was looking around and out of curiosity I ended up on a very detailed sex education website. And it got me instantly, again. So I started looking around and got more explicit information...

Many years later, I ended up on this site

I overheard two girls talking about it and went to the library and read up about it. Both those educational leaflets "information for young women and girls" and actual medical textbooks.

I learned about them from a priest in Catholic high school. He liked to talk about what girls he’d like to examine if he were a gyno doctor.

He told me what the exam was like and that some high school girls had gotten them. Prior to that I’d never heard about them.

My priest in High School was a perv as well. He eventually got defrocked and banished to a home for old and miscreant clergy.

I learned from a zity member who taught me how to do one and insert a speculum using herself as the demo. This was long ago but still remembered fondly!

I learned about the exam from a health class textbook. I think I was just flipping through the book and came to a page with an side view illustration of a woman with a speculum in her vagina. It took me a while to even comprehend exactly what was going on, but suddenly, I started to imagine the girls I knew from school having this done to them and found it very fascinating. I would sometimes go to the library and flip through health books trying to find descriptions of exams. It sure is easier now with the internet.

As a young lad of around 12 years old, I had heard of pelvic exams, but I really didn’t know what that meant. At that age I just thought that meant a doctor probably just looks at a girl’s or woman’s private parts. When I got into my teenage years, having found my father’s old Playboy and Penthouse stash, I got my first real look at pictures of nude women’s bodies, and finally knew how women looked between their legs.

Since I still didn’t have a clue about women’s internal reproductive anatomy, I went to the library, since the interwebs didn’t exist back then, and started looking at medical books. I remember two books in particular. One was “Our Bodies, Ourselves”, and the other was “The Teenage Body Book”. That one went into great detail about what to expect for a male and female physical exam. The “Our Bodies, Ourselves” book also went into intimate detail about a gynecological exam, Pap smear, and rectovaginal/rectal exams. It even included real pictures of women with their feet in the stirrups, with the speculum inserted, and receiving a bimanual exam and also a rectovaginal exam.

My young mind was blown away! I couldn’t imagine how doctors could get away with such a thorough invasion of a woman’s vagina and rectum. I believe it was at that moment my gyno medfet was born. All I could think about that night was my female classmates eventually having such an exam. Some of them most likely already had at that point, especially the junior and senior girls. It used to drive me nuts whenever I saw one of my hot classmates wearing a cheerleader uniform, or short tight denim or leather mini skirt, tight top, tight jeans, high heels, etc. My imagination would go wild thinking of them with their feet in the stirrups, the speculum going in and being opened, the doctor’s fingers being inserted into them, both vaginally and rectally.

I still find myself today imagining a random attractive woman that I see at work, or in public, getting a pelvic exam.....

When I was in elementary school I learned that my grandfather was a (retired) famous gynecological surgeon in NY City, so pretty early on I had a vague idea of what a gynecologist did. After he died, his library was moved to a barn that we had and I one summer I started going through his medical books and saw the diagrams and some images of the various procedures, so I think that is when I developed my first interest in gynecology. But it wasn't until I was a sophomore in high school that my fetish really started to develop. I had a girlfriend who was a junior and we were starting to fool around and she wanted to get on the pill. We were talking to one of her other friends who was on the pill and she told my girlfriend about the fact that she had to get a pelvic exam before she could get on the pill. My girlfriend was understandably nervous about having to undergo the exam and she asked me if I would go with her and help pay for it, since she didn't want her parents to know. She made a Saturday appointment at a local community (semi-free) clinic and I went with her. As we sat in the waiting room she was nervous as a cat. When they called her name she asked me to go in with her. When we went into the exam room the nurse did all the usual stuff and then the doctor came in to chat. He was a middle aged guy of middle eastern decent (maybe Indian or Pakistani). After a brief chat he told my girlfriend to undress completely. I can still remember it to this day. My girlfriend nervously asked if she could could keep her panties on. He told her no, that she would have to take them off because he would need to perform a pelvic exam. He left the room and she stripped naked and put on a gown. He came back in a few minutes later and did all the regular stuff, before having her lay back on the exam table for the breast exam. Watching the guy touch my girlfriend's breasts gave me a feeling I had never experienced before and the level of excitement was overwhelming, but when he put her in the stirrups and made her slide down the table and open her legs, I thought I was going to explode. I was standing up near the head of the table, so I didn't get to see much, plus the nurse was purposefully standing in my way. But my girlfriend was terrified by the process and after it was over and we had left the clinic she did not want to talk about it. I did manage to go back with her to several other appointments, but those were all at Planned Parenthood where she was examined by females.

I don't really remember when I heard about pelvic exams the first time, but I really knew very little about what happened during one even after I was married. It was only after the computer age and the Internet that I was able to watch videos of pelvic exams being done and was able to read about what the doctor did when he performs a complete breast and pelvic exam. To be sure some of those exams on the Internet were done on porn web sites, but there were a few that were videos of actual exams done by real doctors on real patients for instructional purposes to be used in a medical school.

My wife would never discuss what was done exactly during her pelvic exams and I never pressed her about it. I should have pressed her though and early in our marriage, too. The couple of times I did ask her about it in the last 20 years she went ballistic and got angry at me saying it was too embarrassing to talk about. I also asked her once to let me go in with her when she had a gyno. appointment. The word ballistic doesn't describe her reaction to that request and now she hasn't been in over ten years and refuses to go back for one. Her reaction to me going in with her ranked up there with her reaction about 10 years ago when I asked her about her labor prep she was given back in the late 1960s with our first child. She was given a full pubic and perineal shave and labor prep enema and later a discharge enema the morning of her discharge. I got yelled at for asking about that - too embarrassing to talk about.

So I have been interested in pelvic exams for as long as I have been married, many decades now. But it was the Internet that helped me to learn what is done when a woman having her pelvic exam is naked on the exam table with her feet in the stirrups, her legs open wide and the doctor is between them with the vaginal speculum at the ready. I still enjoy watching those videos and they still turn me on, too. I would give almost anything to be able to watch a real pelvic exam done on a real person by a real doctor, especially one being done on my wife. Never gonna happen though!!!

I was still young that I knew there were doctors specifically for women. I thought that they only handled pregnancies and specific problems and never realized that they also had to examine a vagina.

In high school, we got to see some educational video where the pregnancy was explained. One scene was a woman going for a gynecological check up in early pregnancy. She was completely naked and received a speculum exam. I was pretty shocked to see her vagina open that much and that all women have to get it an exam like that.

I think I first learned about it when I was about 12 and my older sister had a book called “A Woman’s Body: An Owner’s Manual”. I used to look at it any time I was home alone. Mostly drawings, no photos, but it explained pelvic exams. This question reminded me of when I was 17 and my girlfriend who was 16 was going to get her first exam at Planned Parenthood.

She confided in me that she was scared because all her friends who had gone there for exams told her that the doctor did a rectal exam and that it was really uncomfortable. I had an a anal fixation even then, though I never had yet touched her ass. I felt a bit guilty as I tried to reassure her and comfort her I quickly got a raging erection at the thought of it especially how she was nervous and a bit scared.

I first found out about the pelvic exam when I was 13. One day by pure chance, I was looking for a book in our library and I don't know why, my attention fell on a book that my mom used during her studies to become a nurse. There was a patient physical examination guide written on the cover, so I opened it and started browsing curiously. In that book there were demonstrative images, interested after a few pages I end up in the pelvic examination section. This was the first time.

I went with my first wife to her first ever pelvic exam. I did not really know what would happen. It was AMAZING!

I can't find the words to describe the feelings. To see my wife, who was a virgin when we got together, totally under the command of this strange man was sooo hot. He looked at her bare chest and felt her up for a long time.

And he did not mind if I moved to get a good view of what he was doing. When he picked up the metal speculum—what I now know was a Graves medium—i was dumbfounded. I absolutely could not believe he was going to push that huge instrument into her tiny vagina.

But push it in he did. He wet it with water first, but water is not really a very good lubricant, so it looked like it ripped its way into her. She made a horrible face.

That speculum was absolutely the biggest thing that had ever been in her vagina.

And then he started cranking it open! Oh My God! I really could not believe it. And from the look on my wife’s face, neither could she.

It was so hot. So abusive. So painful. She had to be so submissive. And believe me this is not a submissive woman.

I watched as he used a wooden thing to collect a pap smear. She jumped and cringed when he did that.

And again, neither of us really knew what would happen, so I was shocked when he finally took the speculum out and just rammed two fingers into her vagina and just started fingering her. Finishing it off with a finger in her bottom and one in her vagina.

We got lots of books from the library after that and I read everything I could about examining women.

And one point from earlier I disagree with. Someone said you could never find the ovaries as an amateur. Actually it is really easy on a thin woman. My wife goes up and down in weight and we can see it in her weight gains. When she is thin finding her ovaries is very easy. It is a long reach, so you need long fingers, and when you do squeeze them your woman will scream. They are very sensitive. Which is how you, or a doctor, knows you have found them, cause the woman screams.

It is much more difficult, or impossible, to find them on a heavier woman. My wife goes from about 110 to 150. At 150 I have a really hard time palpating her ovaries. At 110 it is easy.

I think I must have been about 16 or 17 when when my girlfriend had a very painful ovarian cyst and got her first pelvic exam as a result. It was a big surprise to her and she told me all about it. Needless to say, I was totally intrigued and now here I am today!

A girl I was very close friends with back in high school had made a remark that she may have to have one and was scared, she wasn't sure about any of it and we were very close and had started experimenting sexually with each other. We researched it together via the internet, medical books, etc.

When it came time for said appointment, she asked me the day before if I'd go with her and hold her hand through everything. We were seniors in high school and we both had vehicles. I went with her and that started the obsession and medfet.

We continued to do RTs on each other, enemas, suppositories, breast, pelvic exams, testicular, and prostate exams, DREs, and more. We're still super close friends and can talk about anything.

I guess my introduction to pelvic exams, although didn't really pay attention, was as a little boy sitting in the exam room when my mother had an appointment.

I was to young to know or really care but i recall glimpse of speculum in hand. Obviously with gown and drape and being sat at the opposite end didn't see where it went in fact I probably thought naively it was something butt related as only experiencei had with medical stuff.

Mother was an RN. There were medical books in the house. They were very informative. I loved reading them and fantasysing.

Like others, I suspect I first became acquainted with female exams and gynecological procedures through sex ed classes and medical texts.

Thinking back, there were somewhat graphic depictions of abortions (not the procedure itself, but showing the procedure table with stirrups, patient in gown, etc.) in both Fast Times at Ridgemont High and The Last American Virgin. There's also a pretty humorous pelvic exam scene in Nobody's Perfect.

I had a college girlfriend describe in pretty good detail a colposcopy procedure she underwent due to an abnormal pap smear. She dumped me right after I paid for the procedure. But I'm not still upset about that or anything.

Of course, looking at illustrations in a medical text or watching teen films is no substitute for seeing the real thing. Only had that privilege once, but it was a game-changer. That was 24 years ago and it still fuels a lot of fantasies.

I have been into doctor play since I was a child. I played with friends (boys and girls) and at some moment a girl spread her legs for me and I discovered that I could spread her labia (although she and me gave her labia a different name). From that moment on I knew that the girls pussy was between her legs and not at the front.

Later on I started reading about it, but also watched videos about it. My girlfriend submitted to me and I gave her my and her first gyno examination. It wasn’t very professional, but very exciting to do for both of us.

I was fortunate to get in contact with a nurse. She separated work and fetish and gave play doctor/gyno examinations to (submissive) females in her spare time. We talked a lot and she gave me the backgrounds, tricks and tips about such examinations. I even joined the examination of one of her submissive friends. Making me part of the surrounding being a student doctor during the examination. Of course her friend upon that before we got together. She showed me how the examination was done. I could do the examination myself under her supervision, making it perfect for the patient. She also showed me all kinds of things, for example the change of the wetness and the change of the shape of the cervix mouth during the ovulation, etc.

So for me it was about reading about it, seeing videos, practicing on my girlfriend and learning from a professional.

Health class in 7th grade

I learned from watching several being perfomed by an OB-GYN in the hosptal where I was working during college. He took pains to explain to me exactly what he as doing, how he was manipulating the speculum, and why he was doing what he was doing. I never got to practice on a woman until I had my own (play) patient.

I found our when my girlfriend (now wife) got an ‘invitation’ for a smear test on her 20th birthday. This was in the early 90's so unlike now there was no information about wat it entailed. My parents had an A-Z medical book so we looked it up. My wife was horrified, and I was turned on by the thought of how intimate and embarrassing the procedure was. It is a good job we found out what happens as she was still a virgin and would have had a painful and unnecessary speculum examination. At every doctors appointment after that she had pressure put on her to have the smear test. I did some further reading in medical text books in the university library, and there was a video in the library which I think was called ‘ the pelvic examination, what happens’. It showed 3 different women have exams, done in different ways, including the woman self inserting the speculum. It was a huge turn on watching these exams with my wife for me but not her. My wife eventually had her smear 4 years later when w were married. I went with her and it was amazing to see her on the exam table. She was asked to remove al her clothes from the waist down the lay on the table with a blanket covering her lower half. The nurse then came in and asked to remove her bra and jumper for the breast exam. it was so hot seeing my young wife completely naked on the table only covered wit a small blanket. My wife is not turned on but the exams, but we always have sex after them.

Reading all of these posts I'm wondering how much my brothers knew about me going to a gynecologist when I was 15. I've never talked to them about my appointment.

I know they knew about my heavy bleeding because I would bleed through my clothes a lot. I don't know if they knew then what type of doctor I was seeing but they probably figured it out later. They were ages 17, 13 and 9.

Reading all of these posts I'm wondering how much my brothers knew about me going to a gynecologist when I was 15. I've never talked to them about my appointment.

I know they knew about my heavy bleeding because I would bleed through my clothes a lot. I don't know if they knew then what type of doctor I was seeing but they probably figured it out later. They were ages 17, 13 and 9.

My sister and I spoke of it. Would it have been an issue for you had the eldest or eldest two known about when you first went?