I went with my first wife to her first ever pelvic exam. I did not really know what would happen. It was AMAZING!
I can't find the words to describe the feelings. To see my wife, who was a virgin when we got together, totally under the command of this strange man was sooo hot. He looked at her bare chest and felt her up for a long time.
And he did not mind if I moved to get a good view of what he was doing. When he picked up the metal speculum—what I now know was a Graves medium—i was dumbfounded. I absolutely could not believe he was going to push that huge instrument into her tiny vagina.
But push it in he did. He wet it with water first, but water is not really a very good lubricant, so it looked like it ripped its way into her. She made a horrible face.
That speculum was absolutely the biggest thing that had ever been in her vagina.
And then he started cranking it open! Oh My God! I really could not believe it. And from the look on my wife’s face, neither could she.
It was so hot. So abusive. So painful. She had to be so submissive. And believe me this is not a submissive woman.
I watched as he used a wooden thing to collect a pap smear. She jumped and cringed when he did that.
And again, neither of us really knew what would happen, so I was shocked when he finally took the speculum out and just rammed two fingers into her vagina and just started fingering her. Finishing it off with a finger in her bottom and one in her vagina.
We got lots of books from the library after that and I read everything I could about examining women.
And one point from earlier I disagree with. Someone said you could never find the ovaries as an amateur. Actually it is really easy on a thin woman. My wife goes up and down in weight and we can see it in her weight gains. When she is thin finding her ovaries is very easy. It is a long reach, so you need long fingers, and when you do squeeze them your woman will scream. They are very sensitive. Which is how you, or a doctor, knows you have found them, cause the woman screams.
It is much more difficult, or impossible, to find them on a heavier woman. My wife goes from about 110 to 150. At 150 I have a really hard time palpating her ovaries. At 110 it is easy.