About ten years ago or a little longer my wife and I became empty nesters and things were busy for both of us. She owns and runs a florist business and it takes up a lot of her time and effort. I am an engineer and consultant for energy agencies and industries and I am away from home quite a bit and I spend a lot of time flying. I used to do a lot of international projects which kept me away from home a lot more than it does now. When we were raising our children I kept a lot closer to home and was kept busy with wells and extraction methods and developmental technologies.
Both of our daughters wanted to help pay for their own college and worked a couple of years on their own to make sure what they wanted to study was what they really wanted. Even though they put away the money for college, when the kids left for college or other studies, my wife and I worked to put them in college and keep them there and help them as much as we could. One of our daughters is a year away from becoming a lawyer and the other finished med school and in residency to become a surgeon. Something that impressed me was that she can sew the skin of a grape back on the grape and for some reason that is something that impressed me. I lost $10 on that one and I'm not totally sure it wasn't some kind of trick.
And those 10 years ago my wife and I decided we wanted to spice up our sex life. My wife, Beth Anne, had an ongoing love affair with another woman she has called Sarah. I knew about Sarah from the beginning of my relationship with Beth Anne and Beth Anne sang at Sarah's wedding to her husband. That was a strange relationship and I have my theories about it and I always felt that Sarah was different and maybe a little jealous of me taking too much of Beth Anne's time. Knowing what I know now, I think Sarah had other ideas about Beth Anne but Beth Anne, as she tells me, discovered the joy of a penis, which I just happen to have, and Sarah just wasn't as big of an influence in Beth Anne's life anymore. Then came our children and Beth Anne seemed to get pregnant just by thinking about it. Three kids later and we had "altered" the odds in our favor by a tie here and a clip there. I am never going to shave my balls again, just FYI.
During that time Beth Anne, aka @Ms_Lila, was my only sex partner and I never had to wonder if I could have sex with her. The early years were, have sex with this beautiful woman, wait for her to get over her pregnancy, have sex with her after wards, wait for her to get through her pregnancy, and that happened two more times.
Beth Anne is a very assertive woman when it comes to sex and not afraid to say what it is she wants and how she wants it. Her sexual relationship and relationship in general with Sarah was coming to an end or a change when Beth Anne found out Sarah was not healthy for her. And that is when we turned inward on our marriage but felt that we wanted something more. Because of Sarah our marriage was more or less "open" and Beth Anne and I began our "sexploration" as she has called it. I see that a lot of what happened after that is covered by Beth Anne here so I won't get into that too much and I'll skip to Charlotte and how that all happened.
I mentioned somewhere that Beth Anne and I knew Charlotte and her husband (I'll let Beth Anne give him a name) when Beth Anne would fly with me upstate for little getaways. Charlotte and her husband live up that way and it is a beautiful place far away from where we live. Charlotte is also a pilot and her fields are similar to mine and I liked her and she was interesting to talk to. When we were visiting with Charlotte and her husband, Beth Anne noticed that she was a "toucher". By that I mean that I did notice that she would touch my arm when we talked and she did stand pretty close and had great eye contact. If I had been paying attention, I would have noticed that Beth Anne was having a lot of eye contact too but she was just doing her "Beth Anne thing" and it could mean doom if you don't pick up on it. But I also noticed that Charlotte's husband would check Beth Anne out a lot. The thing is, is that when were at parties or gatherings at Charlotte, their demeanor was totally different. Charlotte gave off a signal that kept a nice distance between her and the rest of the guests. I didn't notice it so much as Beth Anne did and on our way back home one weekend Beth Anne told me that Charlotte was flirting with me and probably wanted to "fuck me."
It was an interesting flight home.