Partner Having Sex While You Watch

Has anyone ever watched their partner have sex with someone else?

Nope. I'm not into that, I don't always share well with others.

Never allowed to watch . But when she came home she gave me a detailed description of how and what happend. How it felt. I'm cuckold and not allowed to have sex. I'm in chastity , and locked 24/7 . But when she comes home, if she is satisfied , she will unlock me and let me jerk off as she describes her night. If she is not satisfied, she will still describe everything that took place, but not unlock me.

Twenty or so years ago my wife and I dabbled a bit in the swinging lifestyle. Not extensively, as it was difficult to find other couples with mutual attraction to us, and timing and scheduling were always an issue.

We were successful three times with other couples, and we both enjoyed it greatly. There were a few jealous pangs for each of us, but for the most part our love and mutual trust helped us deal with it.

The first time watching my wife was akin to an out of body experience. I was greatly tuned in to her reactions as he took his time undressing her, kissing and touching her, and eventually laying naked with her - as I stood naked next to the bed watching. We maintained a lot of eye contact as they coupled, and our unspoken communication was erotically intense. When the vocal responses began I understood from a different standpoint what she was experiencing.

Most interesting for me was my feelings as her partner spread her legs and mounted her, and I had a beautiful view of his slick cock slowly enter her. I knew what he was feeling, but a lifelong curiosity had me lusting to experience that penetration for myself.

Later, after returning to our own room, we discussed everything at length, I assured her I was okay with what had happened, and we had some of the best sex of our lives.

That is a secret desire of mine to watch my wife have sex with another man. To watch and listen to her squirm and moan would drive me nuts. Will never happen but erotic thought anyway. The initial entry especially if he had a good size cock.

I have experienced this a few times. I can't really explain it, maybe it's the voyeur in me, but just watching her from a distance, knowing that she is enjoying herself, really excites me. This all started when we would tell each others stories about our sexual past. I found it very erotic, and it sort of went from there.

The closest I came to actual sex was when another Zity member fingered me as my husband watched. I have to tell you having my husband watched me get fingered by another man was huge turn on for me. My husband and I would lock on eye contact and the feeling was out of this world. I cannot even imagine what it would be like to have him actually watch me have sex with another man. I am sure the emotions would extremely intense!

That's a fantasy of mine. I don't want to be a cuckhold. I want to be actively involved in joing another man or men in doing my wife. And then have the men do me afterwards with her guiding their cocks inside me.

I saw a video once of a wife being fucked while she sucked her husband and it was from his POV, and she held his cock out of her mouth and said "oh he's fucking me honey!" That was soooo hot that I always fantasize about that. Kind of like medfetcouple said, have that eye contact. Sooo hot!

My wife and I sometimes fantasize about this, but have never carried it out. It seems I am more receptive to the idea than she is. I believe watching her being fucked by another man would arouse me terribly. I don't know if I could even hold my load until I got my cock inside her. I do not know how I would feel about it afterwards.

Not fully carried it out either, but have got naked in front of ex wifes friends and been played with

My wife and I play with another couple. So I have seen her being fucked . Actually for me it is very arousing.Watching him pound her and listening to her moaning or just the sounds of good sex .

This is a big part of our sexual chemistry.

She had several sexually active boyfriends before marriage. It always intrigued me. Knowing she was getting extra cocks. When we talked about marriage she didn't want to give up or be exclusive with me. I said ok as long as I could be a part of her fucking other men. After many years have never tired of seeing other men's cocks fuck her.

OMG this is such a hot thread. i would love to watch my wife with another man. i would hate it and be sooo jealous, and i would love it and probably cum in my pants

We have been talking with another Zity member these past few weeks and this may become a reality. I am sure hoping that he can finally meet live with us.

I have watched my ex partner have sex with other men,and it was so horny to watch and hear,my cock would leak like a tap,i think if i had touched my cock i would have cum straight away,hearing her cum on another guy's cock was so hot.

Yes, I have been part of a 3 some (twice). The first time the husband of another couple asked me “would I join them in a 3 some”. His comment was that he has always wanted to watch someone fuck his wife. In actual fact, he needed to watch me fucking his wife so he could get his dick stiff enough to have sex with her. The second 3 some included a mate and my partner offered herself to my mate if he would do me later. I watched him fuck her twice and that was 6 or seven years ago and I'm still waiting. 😢 irrigator333.

My husband and I have just started regularly having sex with another couple and it is incredible. I love watching him enjoying her but what I love the most is him watching me with the other husband or his wife. I haven't fully figured out just what it is that makes it work for me, but all I know is that I am only just beginning to explore what it does for me and us.

This is a nice thread and I will be following it to see how others feel. 🌹

I've been asked by two different couples to be the “bull” to service the wife while the husband watched. In both cases, the husband claimed he only wanted to watch. I never went through with it. I didn't know these couples well, and was concerned that there might be some ulterior motive. Thought about it a lot, though.

I’ve watched my husband getting a blowjob and it was sexy as hell.

I’ve watched my husband getting a blowjob and it was sexy as hell.

How did that transpire? (I thought about asking, “How did that come about?” but thought better of it.)

We were having a three way. I’ve written about it in my blog.

Well when I had a real partner I loved being watched being used by our friends. And I did get off watching his dick get swallowed or him full on pumping whomever…just as well when I had a female partner. I loved showing her how much I could handle…and then watch her show me how much more I needed to handle….

I miss those days and maybe they will come back…I'm eager to play and perform.

MA

My wife and I have switched with two different couples. I enjoyed watching her get get f***** by the other guys but I got off more by her watching me f****** the other women. Go figure. Had I been drinking, I probably would have allowed them to watch me take a big enema for their enjoyment and mine.

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My SO and I have done this many times, with the bull giving me a gallon enema and making me watch them have sex and hold the enema until they are finished. Then either have sex with her or masturbate to climax before I'm allowed to release the enema.

Sounds good to me water bottom

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@irrigator333

Occasionally, I have had the bull do me after he recovered from sex with her, and I was still holding the enema. She, he and I all came at the same time, and she told me that the orgasm she had while masturbating and watching him do me was even more intense than when she was having sex with him, and the orgasm I had, as a result of watching her get fucked by him (he was very well endowed, 10+ in.), the enema and the pounding I was getting, was one of the most intense I've experienced.

I have enjoyed several threesomes before with two other guys. A big part of my sexual pleasure is watching the two other guy enjoying sex together. (That being said, I also enjoy joining-in and “helping” them achieve ecstasy together.)

I have a very special gay buddy, who shares his sexual experiences with other guys with me in intimate detail! Hearing what he experienced with another guy is a tremendous turn-on for me!

I am married, and would love to hear the details of my wife's sexual experiences before we were married…..but, alas she is not into this type of erotic pleasure. I would also enjoy hearing details, and/or watching her having sex with another woman or another guy.

One of my very big fantasies is to have a threesome with another guy and a woman. I would LOVE to feel his soaking wet penis as it slides in-and-out of her vagina, feeling her vaginal juices dripping down onto his balls, hearing both of them moaning with pleasure, and feeling his penis tighten as he orgasms inside of her! I would also love to be able to lick his soaking wet penis as he slides in-and-out of her vagina!

I'm getting hard now just imagining this experience!

This is my #1 fantasy! Many times in the past I've watched my girlfriends get fucked by another guy and I always loved it. I brought the idea up with my wife and at first it seemed like she was open to trying it. Her first comment was “who would it be?” Seems like she was considering it right? But then when the opportunity arose a few times she refused. I'm ever hopeful though that someday we'll meet a guy that she is really attracted to and wants to fuck him. I have major fantasies of licking her clit as he fucks her doggie style, or licking her asshole out as she rides him. Or giving her her first DP. Would also love some sloppy seconds or being made to clean up her freshly fucked creampied pussy. It all sounds like fun to me.

No. But For a few years it was a big fantasy of mine. I told my ex wife about it but like so many things about her sexually, I didn’t get a meaningful reply. I think, looking back, that was the source of the fantasy. She was so hard to get animated or dynamic about all sexual matters that maybe I thought another good looking, sexually experienced guy could succeed whilst I watch and learn. The few other things we experimented with met the same fate. I watched another woman massage and masturbate her to a lovely orgasm and it was electrifying. But she would barely discuss it afterwards

Yeah, I've watched a partner have sex. It was part of a threesome with one of her female friends. Both are bi and knew how much it would turn me on to watch