What implement do you prefer to be spanked with?

Hand spanking over the knee is my favorite way to be spanked. A paddle or wood hairbrush is also very effective but usually does hurt more!! Denise

1> Razor strop or other leather strap.

2> Hickory switch or cane.

3> Wooden paddle (anything from an 18 inch carpenter's ruler to a senior boys' school paddle).

4> Hair brush or bath brush.

5> Hand.

My favorite is the traditional paddle. And OMG there is nothing that turns me on more than seeing an attractive woman holding a paddle that I know is about to be used on me.

I like to spank by hand ,I love the feel of it when it land on heated bottom .sometime foe a change with any green branches they make a nice swish sound , they sting and no damage to skin .

MarkB

Totally agree with you

For intimacy and personal connection you can't beat the hand, in my opinion! I also like the hairbrush - it has a real maternal quality and aura to it. The paddle also is a favorite of mine! I'm not so keen on the cane; to me it is rather cold and remote; though it really singes your behind and leaves hot and tender welts! LOL The belt I can take or leave also.

If the spanking is a prelude to sex the hand is the way to go, whether giving or receiving.

If it's a 'play' spanking then the tool(s) are up for negotiation. The paddle (hair brush, bath brush, wooden spoon, etc.) is my first choice with a strap being my second. Canes/switches, no thank you.

We have a kitchen spatula with a plastic handle and thick rubber (or maybe silicone) blade on it. This is delicious although it hurts like fuck.

Otherwise a wide leather belt is good for me, or hand

Yes, your quite right John, as a prelude to sex you can't beat a good old fashioned hand spanking!

Hi ameredith, I guess eggs and bacon are not the only thing a spatula is good at frying! LOL

With a shoe, on the bare bottom for sure, over her knee. First, we watch a movie. Before we start the movie, she would pull my pants down, remove one of her shoes, make me sit on my bare butt during the movie, put her shoe along side her, and we watch the movie.mafter the movie, I go over her knee, and she begins to whack me with her shoe, until she is satisfied. If it gets me crying, I'm okay with it. During the spanking, I feel that her eyes are fixed on my naked butt. The pain and humiliation all evolve into sexual pleasure.

Hi SickBoy69; I'm 100% on the same page; for me leather says it all, with a good, sturdy, old-time razor strap, single-ply (or better double-ply) being at the top of my list. When I've connected with guys where I was the top, I found most guys also preferred the old-fashioned strop, perhaps like me thinking back on younger, bad boy days when every boy knew what a razor strap was and that it's primary purpose was not for honing razors but honing character! No recent experience with this, top or bottom, and I really miss playing either role.

Switch rod. Not whipped too hard. Just enough to get some small red welts and have to struggle with it.

Hand

Nothing beats a good old fashioned butt warming with a wooden paddle....

You are so right, grandpa 1 - nothing beats (hahaha) a good old fashioned paddle on the ass!!! Of course a hand is ok, so is a belt, but a paddle is the utmost best!

You are so right, grandpa 1 - nothing beats (hahaha) a good old fashioned paddle on the ass!!! Of course a hand is ok, so is a belt, but a paddle is the utmost best!

Or how about a ping pong paddle, across a bare bottom

My favorite implement is a belt always loved that...but I also like a good paddle both leather and wood...a switch would feel good not real hard but I do like to have welts raised they look and feel wonderful

Just leather implements .

I'm most often the spanker, but will switch with the right person or for the right reason. For a play spanking, the hand is great. For a punishment, a belt or razor strop would be ideal. I'm familiar with these from my youth (I only got the razor strop once, thank God!), and they spell P-U-N-I-S-H-M-E-N-T to me. They not only deliver a painful spanking, but they also push my emotional hot buttons.

I'm a submissive in a relationship with a mistress who is a few years older than I. She is a friend of my step sister and was at our home a lot. One day we were watching tv and she noticed I was wearing pantyhose. My sisters and step mother all knew that I wore lingerie all the time and also liked to cross dress. So my soon to be mistress came right out and asked me if I liked wearing panties too and wanted know what kind I had on. I admitted did and told her I was wearing a pink thong. She asked my sisters if they thought I needed special training They jumped at it and so I was told I was going home with her that night. The first night was mild. She asked me if I jerked off and how much. I was honest and told her I did it a lot. So my first lesson in domination was being diapered and then put into tight plastic panties. After I was diapered she gave me a satin girls pajama top to wear. So far so good. She told me my real training would start tomorrow. It would involve being put in restraints on a regular basis, punishment, wearing a collar and being put on a leash and last but far from least, weekly maintenance spankings. She explained that I'd receive my first maintenance spanking on Friday night at 8 PM and every week at that time thereafter. These she explained were different from disciplinary spankings or whippings which I would receive when needed. Finally she told me that fairly soon I would have to start wearing a steel chastity device.

She then switched back to the spankings. She asked if I was ever spanked and I told her my step mother still spanked me regularly and my sisters as well. "What did she use?" "I've been whipped with a belt, a leather strap, a switch and a paddle." "Which do you prefer?" "The strap or the belt because they don't sting as much as the switch or the paddle and definitely not as much as a cane." "Do the girls watch when you are spanked." "Usually we are all punished at the same time so we watch each other. Sometimes if I'm to get a beating by myself she calls the and they watch." She then told me she'd take all this into consideration and tomorrow would explain how I was to comport myself for the weekly spankings. She showed me where the punishment instruments were kept and told me she would tell me during the day what she decided to use and I was to bring it to her when I reported for my spanking. "since you prefer a strap or belt we'll start you off with a leather strap I like to use. I also need to tell you that I also have a couple leather whips which I will have to use on you sooner or later." Then she told me it was time for me to go to bed. But first I had to kneel in front of her while she put a leather collar around my neck. I have long hair so as she was doing it she told me to hold my hair up so she could lock the collar. I must admit that I found it all terribly exciting and had a very hard cock for the entire conversation. She guessed that I'd be jerking off during the night so she told me that I'd have my diaper changed in the morning and might have to wear one all day until she decided what to do about my masturbation issue as she called it.

I agree with all posters who mentioned the hand. It is always immediately available and flexible. However additionally I like a leather strap.....various lengths and widths. It is another flexible tool. Hand and/or strap they both do a good job on bare cheeks. Interested in a switch, butt not always available around here.

I find the hand to be very personal and the favored implement to be used. Second would the paddle. That is good to use when the hand starts to hurt or when the spankee really would like to utilize some serious "positive reinforcement". Third would be the large hairbrush. When walking in for my spanking just the sight of the paddle or hairbrush would get me excited. Of course, all spankings are administered bare bottom and over the knee. No better way !!!

I have only been spanked by a hand. I would like to try other implements.

Definitely a paddle but a close second is a wooden hair or bath brush.

I have a nice oak paddle for my personal use

Although a caning is generally acknowledged as the most intense implement, I've always been partial to the leather strap. Unlike wooden or other stiff paddles, the strap conforms to the contour of the buttocks and delivers its energy over a larger area more uniformly.

Recently in connection with my work I received a piece of Neoprene; not the foamy stuff they make wet suits from, but a dense, high-durometer rubber (like thick inner tube material) that came in a quarter-inch thick piece. I cut off what I needed for work and then sliced off another piece about three inches wide and maybe 16 inches long.

As soon as I got home, I bared my bottom and gave myself a good whack. Wow! It certainly packs a wallop; there's enough weight in a piece that size to teach someone a very valuable lesson. This could become my go-to implement of choice.

I'm planning on crafting a nice wooden handle for this hunk of rubber, with maybe only 12 inches coming out past the handle, and maybe cutting the width down to two inches. Then I need to find someone to use it on me. My Mistress got married and has quite limited availability now.

Hand, belt, flogger is my favorite, deer skin is wonderful, expensive but worth it.

Hand is my favorite, but I'm open to just about anything. Only implement I don't like is the belt because it reminds me of getting spanked growing up - not very sexy, lol.

Hairbrush, belt, cane and paddle.

I havn't been thrashed since i was 21, and prefer is an interesting term, at the time i would have prefered it to hurt the least, but the most effective punishment hurts a great deal, it is also not just the implement used, but the ferocity, my father often went to extremes with his belt causing bruising and lacerations that kept me off PE or school altogether, however in usual school beatings, it was the "slipper" a large size worn plimsoll in PE, or the cane, with the cane being the most painfull, the question is what would i prefer now?