Three Kinds of Reponses to Enemas

The closest is the second for us. Here I can be open, as I have been in the days when I ran an enema group. For the most part though enemas, for whatever reason, are a private thing. Lots of interesting responses in this thread. Linda B

I would say I am in the first.

Log me as a long term number 1.

For a long time in the first category, and increasingly able to mention enemas in conversations, but can sometimes social circumstances still make me uncomfortable and reticent so must say I occasionally stray into 2. Never conscious (from an early age) of being a number 3!

Well I am a 1 by @SwitchableSusie standards and a 2 by OP standards

I am a number 1

I am a #1. Private because of society, but quite unembarrassed by my preference. Any "new partners" would have to be the same or at least amenable to giving & receiving...

I have loved taking enemas since my teen years, and many times would get hard just planning for an enema. I have given enemas to others several times, and I enjoy the entire process, from talking about it, setting up the bag, hose and nozzle, and the actual administration. I prefer to lube the person's anus by inserting my finger full length, and then slowly insert the nozzle and begin a slow flow of warm water.

I prefer the first bag to be given with the person across my lap. If it's a man, I can check the arousal of his penis, or the wetness of a woman's vagina.

The second bag is preferably given with the person in the kneeling position with their head on the bed. This allows the water to completely fill the colon and intestine, for a thorough cleanse. I like to reach under and massage the stomach to effect this cleanse. The third bag is also in the knee/chest position, and should produce an almost clear return.

After the complete emptying of the water , it can be time for a prostate massage for a man or a rectal massage with rimming for a woman.

Sometimes I ask the other person to give me the same treatment, for a mutually satisfying session.

I'm in group 1.5. The wife is definitely not into it and would rather not know so I feel like I can't honestly say I'm open. I use enemas for two reasons. #1 Pleasure but #2(unintended pun) because I really do need a good cleanout about once a week to feel healthy and not sluggish. I've been like that since early 5 or 6yo. The sad thing is I hear my kids say they hurt and my wife thinks is crazy to use enemas. I feel bad for my kids but the wife is the final say for health in our house. I did hint at enemas to my daughter once. She knows I take them and I just told her that I do them so that I don't hurt. She asked me how I hurt and I just said, kinda like you describe sometimes. I left it at that. Hopefully she will figure it out on her own and get the relief she needs.

Definitely type 1. Ever since about 10 I have had cramps and constipation. Accidently found enemas as a solution when about 14. I found after a few years of trial and error that it would take 2 cycles of 2 quarts with very warm water to soften things up enough to unblock things. As I got older it evolved into something sexual and the erections and masturbation quickly followed.

I am between a one and two. I really enjoy enemas as well as colonics which I do get several times a year. Enemas also several time a year but I have to do those when my wife is not home since she knows nothing about my enema desire. She in fact hates anything anally. So, I do like talking about them with other like minded people who likes enemas also

Damn computer!! Definately #1, as I was introduced to the erotic aspects of the enema at the age of five and a half by a neighbor boy a year older than me. We started with the usual naked play, then found his parents' douche/enema kit. He gave me about a pint, and I was hooked! Seventy plus years later, still enjoying all aspects of a gallon enema.

Moving from a two to a one. I was open with my wife today after Amazon purchasing a four quart bag which arrives Monday. Told her I didn’t want to be embarrassed or ashamed any more with my desire or my experience of pleasure with enemas. We had this convo before but not to this extent exactly. I told her i didn’t want to hide this from her even though I knew she wouldn’t participate. Win win In my book.

I am definitely in the first group, but I can't indulge myself because of my wife. She thinks enemas are dangerous after reading in a doctor's column in the newspaper many years ago they you can get a perforated rectum from an enema nozzle. I think that she thinks they are perverted if you enjoy getting enemas, too.

I am in group 1 since I started enemas as a teenager and never gave up that pleasurable habit.

I am in group 2, enjoy enemas a lot but prefer to stay in the closet, the exception being this forum where we can talk freely…… as I write this I am in the middle of taking a series hourly enemas, I have just taken the second one , trying to hold a 3L enema for long enough to write this 😃

The answer lies behind Door Number 1.

Very smart, Delia!!

This topic is very interesting!!

I'm in 1st class. 😉

Definitely the first

Moving from a two to a one. I was open with my wife today after Amazon purchasing a four quart bag which arrives Monday. Told her I didn’t want to be embarrassed or ashamed any more with my desire or my experience of pleasure with enemas. We had this convo before but not to this extent exactly. I told her i didn’t want to hide this from her even though I knew she wouldn’t participate. Win win In my book.

Howdyall — I'm so pleased to hear you've had this conversation. You don't mention her reaction but I'm assuming it was okay. Not easy for you.

I hesitate to give you any advice, or suggestions as involving your wife at least some is likely at a critical point and I'd not want to be responsible for bad advice messing it up. I do think my female perspective may be of help though and so I'll remind you that the male inclination is to push ahead, be it building a fence, or a sex conquest. Getting it done in a day is better than taking two! We, on the other hand, can start Christmas baking in early November and still be at it Christmas Eve. My suggestion, advice, is to take it slow. As a first step I'd suggest another conversation with her, before the bag arrives, to thank her for being so understanding. Tell her that while enemas are erotic for you on a scale of one to ten she is the ten and anything to do with enemas not connected with her is like a one to one point five.

I wish you and your wife well. I'll be watching for further posts. I've taken the liberty of sending you a friend request,

Linda

Linda,

thank you so much for your perspective. I value the input and womanly perspective. The analogies are helpful and insight valuable.

My wife did ask if enemas would replace any sexual activity with her. I told her by no means is an enema a replacement for intimacy together. The convo went well, honestly. She wasn’t jumping at the idea but isn’t repulsed either. It’s my bag and not hers😃 at least for today I assured her there was zero pressure for her to be involved as it’s completely her choice. Obviously, I’d be elated but I’m not pressuring her to do anything if she is not into it.

Howdyall, it sounds like you've got this well in hand.

It is far from an exact analogy but the visual of an enema bag in your wife's left hand, a greased nozzle in her right, and her telling you she's going to give you an enema now, has aspects of her being outfitted in garter belt, stockings, etc. and telling you she wanted you in the bedroom now! Enhancement of foreplay.

When the bag comes I suggest you ask her if she'd open it with you … a chance for another discussion. Part of that could be that as much as you'd enjoy her being part of you having an enema from the bag it would only be enjoyable if she was getting enjoyment. Not from the enema per se but from doing something with you, for you, that you enjoyed. Not unlike you accompanying her to the opera when you'd give your eye teeth for ear plugs yet genuinely enjoy being with her as it gives her such great pleasure.

Linda

Howdyall, it sounds like you've got this well in hand.

It is far from an exact analogy but the visual of an enema bag in your wife's left hand, a greased nozzle in her right, and her telling you she's going to give you an enema now, has aspects of her being outfitted in garter belt, stockings, etc. and telling you she wanted you in the bedroom now! Enhancement of foreplay.

When the bag comes I suggest you ask her if she'd open it with you … a chance for another discussion. Part of that could be that as much as you'd enjoy her being part of you having an enema from the bag it would only be enjoyable if she was getting enjoyment. Not from the enema per se but from doing something with you, for you, that you enjoyed. Not unlike you accompanying her to the opera when you'd give your eye teeth for ear plugs yet genuinely enjoy being with her as it gives her such great pleasure.

Linda

drooling thinking about that analogy!!!!! Solid stuff here. Thank you so much!!!! Much appreciated.

Box arrived and she opened it. She said, “Good Lord that’s a huge bag!” I got a four quart one. She asked if you put all that in you. I said no but you wouldn’t have to refill it😉. She went shopping and wanted to try on all the new clothes for me and I let her while the enema kit was in it clear plastic bag sitting on the bed next to all her new things. Then while she was in the bathroom fixing her hair I opened it up with her in the other room and went through it piece by piece. Pretty cool experience. No shame or embarrassment at all.

She also loved the texts I sent her about our convo the day before. I said…

”I appreciate you. Thanks again for the open conversation and communication we had yesterday otw to Sam’s. You are a safe person and trustworthy. Grateful you are my wife.”

And I said…

“Thanks for being understanding. It (enemas) holds no comparison to you 😍😘”

Thanks for the solid advice Linda

She is going out with a friend tonight and I went into the bedroom as she is getting ready and told her, “I’m going to do an enema when you are gone tonight.” She said, “I’ve masturbated many times without telling you.” 😆

I definitely am in group 1, my wife and I’s relationship from the beginning some 30 plus years ago has been very open and sexual, I have slowly added some more kinky items and finally some 4 or five years ago asked her to give me an enema which she willingly agreed but said she did not like enemas saying her and her sisters were regularly given enemas as children and didn’t like the cramps, I told her this was fine, I did ask her later if she would give me some of the details of there enema experiences which she did, any way I started by letting her use a enema bulb and after some months I then introduced an enema bag which didn’t bother her at all and we have continued using the bag exclusively, she has on several occasions said she would like to try an enema and has let me give her one but I could tell she still does not like them and I don’t push the issue I’m completely satisfied with receiving

I am definitely somewhere between group 1 and 2, a little closer to the group 1. Make sense?

Number one for sure!

Group 1 here my friend. Wish I could find other to share with on a regular basis…

I'm in Group 1 and feel no guilt being in this Group. But I choose to keep what I do or do not do to myself. I'm not a sharing person.