Retention Rituals ....

Good Morning Everyone, just sort of wondering here what most of you do during the retention times while taking a enema or series of them?? I have masturbated frantically, even if I am being given the enemas, my hands and fingers always seem to find their way to my vagina and it is 98% of the time totally saturated and my clit is throbbing wildly. I have also been made to do household chores while holding--although this is rather difficult, it can and has been done. Things like washing dishes manually, or setting up my dishwasher, vacuuming totally nude with the hose and nozzle left trailing out of me, while someone nearby holds the bag and watches my abject humiliation, I still force myself to struggle through -- all the while the cramps are biting hard inside my very distended tummy ...I have even been paraded around my home while holding in no less than 3 to 4 quarts of very strong soapy solution. So if you do not mind sharing, would you all please share with me what you do after you have been filled and are waiting for the solution to really loosen things up and for the pressure to build to the point where you feel as though you might burst at any second?? I hope this topic does not seem odd, just wondering what others do during this time, as I might like to try some ideas or even a few suggestions... Thanks again group , your help and or assistance is greatly appreciated and I do look forward to reading some of your responses. Be well everyone and God Bless during these hard and difficult times we all are going through. Hugs, Tammy

I think your experience combines all of the elements that make an enema arousing for many of us. Embarassment struggling high arousal and suffering. For me during that time just focusing on the sensations or edging to take my mind off.

I think your experience combines all of the elements that make an enema arousing for many of us. Embarassment struggling high arousal and suffering. For me during that time just focusing on the sensations or edging to take my mind off.

I don't find your discussion of activities and chores forced on you while holding your enema to be odd at all. As as I mentioned earlier, I loved having to perform submissive humiliating tasks for my Domme as she makes me hold my large enema as long as she wants, especially dressed in arousing kink clothes like rubber and sneakers to make the enema even harder to hold. See my earlier comment on the other thread for some erotic suggestions.

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The more submissive, humiliated and moaning she makes me, the more she gets aroused from watching and hearing me.

Win-win.

Eric

Tammy,

It just depends upon three things: the enema solution, how much volume, and what is it that I'm doing doing during an enema.

The Enema Solution: Baking soda, coffee (sometimes in combination) and salt water enemas generally allow me to have the longest hold times depending upon the other two factors.I can and have taken 4.0 liters of baking soda, coffee, baking soda /coffee, salt, and coffee / salt enemas and been able to hold them for 60 minutes or more. Plug in an inflatable nozzle. The lower the volume (say 3.0-3.5 liters), the easier it is to hold these solutions for a longer period of time. Once above 4.5 liters, the retention time shortens dramatically even though these are the easiest solutions to hold (though I did hold more than 4.0 liters of coffee for more than 90 minutes one morning while chatting with a friend. Once I get beyond the first few hard contractions with these solutions, the peristaltic contraction intensity tends to drop dramatically for quite a while.

Soapy enemas can be rather difficult to hold, particularly when they are strong. I define strong as more than 15 grams of Ivory soap per liter or more than a tablespoon of liquid soap per liter. These usually have a peristaltic contraction reaction within the first few minutes of introduction, but if I can ride those out, I can usually get at least 15 minutes of retention for these soapy solutions. A hold time of up to 30 minutes is possible with weaker solutions. And the toughest ones I've tried is soap/glycerin combinations. Holding 20 minutes is outstanding (10-15 minutes is more typical, though once I was able to break the one hour barrier but only with the help of someone trying to coach me through it once I got through the initial worst part). I generally limit soapy enemas to a maximum of 3.5 liters, though lower volumes are more typical. I want the enema to fill me enough to get spread throughout my colon and give the muscles the colon space to contract and churn the contents.

The Enema Volume: The larger the volume, the harder it is to hold. I can hold a 2.5 liter enema longer than a 3.0 or 3.5 liter enema, generally speaking. A 4.0 liter enema for a shorter period than a lesser volume. Times start getting appreciably shorter once 5.0 liters is taken in and the few 6.0+ liter enemas I've taken aren't associated with long hold times. Maybe 10-15 minutes at somewhere around 5-liters probably 5-10 at 6-liters. Please note that while a couple of my bags are capable of holding 6.0 liters and I may fill them to that volume, I only take what I am comfortable holding. And 6-liters is a massive amount of liquid at 2.2 pounds per liter. I can say the look on me is early male pregnancy.

Activities During an Enema: I can't exactly go prancing around with a 6-liter or even a 5-liter enema. Just swinging up off the bed or the floor is quite an exercise in careful movements. Moving around with those volumes can be challenging even with my largest plugs inserted and fully inflated. Easy enough to move around with 2.5-3.0 liters if it is not soapy. Can't run with it, but walking and moving around (vacuuming, for example) are easy enough. Irritating enemas can really limit the activity level. I've taken soapy enemas in my backyard and been able to move around (in the dark of night) if they are less than 3.0 liters but they can be a challenge to get get back into the house if I wait too long (otherwise, I "fertilize" a part of my yard).

Hope this helps, please free to ask for clarification or message me.

Tammy, after I am full and fully distended, I look to the lady who gave me the enema to help me through it.

I am extremely aroused by her talking to me and feeling me while the enema works and she concentrates on me.

If she can encourage me and comfort me and praise me for how I am doing, that helps me a lot.

If she can feel my tummy and hold my erection and test me - my tight tummy and my testicles - that helps me a lot.

It is so important to hear her words and feel her warm fingers while the solution works in me and I struggle to do my best for her.

She controls me and she is the ultimate reason why I am undergoing her repeated enemas. I am doing this for her.

It is also very helpful when she describes what my ordeal is doing to/for her.....especially to her nipples and clitoris.....but it is her description that is most important - her understanding and her appreciation for the entire sequel.

Tammy, after I am full and fully distended, I look to the lady who gave me the enema to help me through it.

I am extremely aroused by her talking to me and feeling me while the enema works and she concentrates on me.

If she can encourage me and comfort me and praise me for how I am doing, that helps me a lot.

If she can feel my tummy and hold my erection and test me - my tight tummy and my testicles - that helps me a lot.

It is so important to hear her words and feel her warm fingers while the solution works in me and I struggle to do my best for her.

She controls me and she is the ultimate reason why I am undergoing her repeated enemas. I am doing this for her.

It is also very helpful when she describes what my ordeal is doing to/for her.....especially to her nipples and clitoris.....but it is her description that is most important - her understanding and her appreciation for the entire sequel.

Nice description by 4quarts of his experience and enjoying not only the enema he's getting but especially the D/s interaction between him and his Domme who's giving it to him. I like it the same way, with my Domme giving me the enema while talking me through it and being sure I know what she's doing to me and how much pleasure she's getting out of dominating me and controlling my colon and orgasms (if I'm lucky). Frequently she'll remind me that the important part is to arouse her to give her the best orgasms she can have, and the more she sees me submit to her and her requirements, the more she gets aroused at my compliance, embarrassment, humiliation and servitude. Fortunately, all those things are very arousing to me especially while submitting to her giving me a challenging enema(s).

Eric

Hello,

I am a guy. During the end of my Enema I masturbate. That ends my fun, so I empty the contents of my enema. What do you do during the post enema period?

Earlier in life I had gotten a good collection of specialty enema gear, and I had the time to use it. I had a thick short penis shaped buttplug with a flared head on it. Something about the curve, thickness and short length of it made it the perfect plug to help me retain. After filling up with hot soapy water I' d lube it up and push it in. I would then stand up and deal with the growing waves of cramping until it was time to expel. I had to get rid of all my special gear, I miss that plug.

I can't remember the last enema I gave or received without a healthy does of Dr. Bronners in it and am a firm believer that the water should keep flowing until the recipient is very, very full (and that can vary from person to person and even day to day but I think very, very full is part of the experience).

I like the flat on the back, quiet and still, tick/tock of the overly loud mechanical kitchen timer. I know it's old school, but there's just something about that ticking and ticking and ticking until allowed to expel (that too varies from person to person and day to day, but I'm usually a 15 to 20 minute retention sort of person... never less than 10 and rarely more than 30, either as giver or receiver)

Slow, deep breathing!

Biting down on a worn-out washcloth.

Twisting up a washcloth in my hands.

That's as close to a ritual as I get!

@Lisak said

Slow, deep breathing!

Biting down on a worn-out washcloth.

Twisting up a washcloth in my hands.

If I had to do any of that, or had to keep a vomit bucket handy as Lisa has mentioned in the past, I would find some other way to have a good time.

If I had to do any of that, or had to keep a vomit bucket handy as Lisa has mentioned in the past, I would find some other way to have a good time.

Yes, so would I, and I do really love enemas to stimulate my aging orgasms. I do feel badly for Lisa or anyone else who has as much trouble with nausea and vomiting and/or enema pain that she does. Since all of mine are for sexual and enema pleasure, I would just stop doing them, which is a very unhappy prospect.

Eric

Definitely. I like my enemas to be fun when possible (though to be honest I do take some where they are just to get things moving, and though those aren't "fun" they are worth it and not nearly as unpleasant as LisaK's sound). I have had a few where I got a bit nauseated, but those are rare.

Breathing deep, mentally visualizing things working, position work (often as the enema starts working more I'll move to a position where I can sway somewhat), letting out some sounds as needed, and of course using a man's built-in distraction device helps during my retentions. Wish I could have the support of my partner, but we haven't gotten to that point yet.

I am the same way as Tammy. I have to masturbate or let someone else take care of that just to get through the cramps and retain it. My sister and her girlfriend are the same way. But we asked my sister how she did it without being able to masturbate when mom gave them to her. She told us that she got used to it. She said she would think of how good it will feel after she gets into the bedroom and masturbates. That was usually her routine. We asked if she thought that she could still do it and she said yes. So her girlfriend gave her the enema and she held it. She said she used the same mindset as with mom. She knew that her girlfriend was going to please her after. I have masturbated while doing and retaining and chatting online. Even C2C with the girlfriend who started me on enemas. By the way, sometimes the girlfriend who started me on enemas would get sick like Lisa but she never vomited. She just felt like she was going to.

If I don't feel like masturbating or grabbing my penis (sometimes I just grab and hold), or for something different, I'll rub my chest, belly and/or legs and butt. That helps too. Learned that in prenatal classes and it helps for not just enemas but also other pain issues.

Taking 2 or 4 qts of warm soapy enema with JJ soap is great, holding 15 and reading stories here on Zity, total turn on

I'm periodically given coffee enemas, usually from a 2 1/2qt red bag. The nozzle used is a double balloon retention nozzle. I had one this morning given by a friend a nurse. Vitals with RT taken. After the vitals, I was on my stomach, my cheeks parted, lubricated and the nozzle slowly inserted. As the flow started the thermometer was simultaneously re-inserted (A Filac probe type). It registered the coffee solution temperature @ 102F. As the flow continued, the balloons were inflated. I was able with some discomfort to retain the entire contents. First still on my abdomen, then in a knee chest position. Though very intense at times, I managed for 15 minutes. And I just stayed as directed waiting for the time to pass. The delivery was given in small amounts over a 15-20 minute period. The remaining time was for the retention period.

Masturbating and trying to do chores while holding a 3-quart enema is not my idea of something that would be fun to do. I just enjoy laying in a supine posture and relishing in the warmth that the enema has produced throughout my colon. I typically try to hold the first enema, a soapsuds enema, for at least ten minutes. I will hold my second enema, a rinse, for the same amount of time. My coffee enemas, I hold for at least 15 minutes. If I do a probiotic enema after, I will complete that enema as an infusion and hold it the remainder of the day.