Why do I get Urgency to Expel?

If I receive from someone using a douche pipe and implanted deep, I can handle a massive quantity. If self-admin'ed, I'm quickly overcome with urgency to expel - Both are plain warm water. why would this be??

If you use a very short nozzle or do not insert the nozzle deep enough, pressure builds up in your rectum. This causes an immediate urge to expel. If you insert the nozzle deeper, the water gets into the sigmoid colon and beyond. There is less pressure in the rectum and the enema is easier to hold. Has anyone a different explanation?

I know this problem.

When given by my wife, I can take 2 liters of soapsuds with a 40 cm colon tube in the ke-position without immediate urge to expel.

When I do exactly the same solo, I often can hardly finish the 2 liters.

Perhaps you are able to relax more when someone else is giving to you?

Perhaps you are able to relax more when someone else is giving to you?

Agree. And that helps my retention. Girls only need to apply. 😃

Agree. And that helps my retention. Girls only please. 😃

SUSIE, where are you?

That's what an enema is SUPPOSED to do!

Make it impossible for you to hold!

That means it's WORKING!!

@Lisak said

That's what an enema is SUPPOSED to do!

Make it impossible for you to hold!

That means it's WORKING!!

You did not read what @DaveKrue said.

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@DaveKrue said

If I receive from someone using a douche pipe and implanted deep, I can handle a massive quantity. If self-admin'ed, I'm quickly overcome with urgency to expel - Both are plain warm water. why would this be??

He can hold the enema if someone else gives it to him, but not when he gives them to himself. You did not answer his question.

I am not an huge enema fan so my experience is very limited. I would think that the urge is possibly involuntary. Aside from the obvious of "What goes in must come out," it seems to be a biological given that you are going to void. It does make me wonder how some folks hold a lot of fluid. When I have used or been given an enema, the experience of voiding was only a matter of how soon not can I last longer.

SUSIE, where are you?

I'm sure that play sessions with Susie are fun, but the first couple times I don't know if I'd be relaxed if I were her sub. Susie, what do you notice?

And yes, though a good enema will result in expulsion sooner or later (and probably sooner for most!), being relaxed while taking allows you to take more and hold onto it a bit longer.