Disapproval of spouse

I've seen many times here members, mostly males, mentioning how their spouse disapproved of enemas, that they had to hide themselves to take enemas, etc.

Could you tell us more about it?

To me it seems quite intrusive and authoritarian that a spouse would prohibit the other from douching or taking enemas.

Between acceptance and participation in enema play, and disapproval and prohibition of the same, there is what I will call passive acceptance.

I have enjoyed enemas from as early as I can remember so in the earlier days of our marriage, I tried getting my wife interested in enema play. After much sweet-talk (and some begging) I got her to give me some enemas and eventually got her to let me give her a few. She said she could not enjoy it because she was afraid of making a mess because she couldn't hold it. For a while she agreed to give me enemas because she could see that I enjoyed it, but refused to let me give her any more. Eventually she told me to just give myself an enema when I wanted one but to not involve her. That is where we have been for quite some time. She accepts that I enjoy it and that I give myself enemas when she is out, but I no longer ask her to participate. It is not ideal, but at least she has not forbidden me to do it so I don't have to hide my bag and bulb.

Refusing to partake in play is a different story. I was talking of people who actually prohibit their spouse from using enemas.