This has never been an issue for me as I was experimenting with putting things in my vagina for years.
I have a friend named Bri. She had never had anything in her vagina. She couldn’t wear tampons because it hurt too much to get one in. She didn’t see the gyno until her mid twenties and she only went because I kept telling her she needed to go even if she wasn’t sexually active.
The faithful day finally came and she was nice enough to share the intimate details with me over lunch.
“The doctor told me she used the pediatric speculum. And it still hurt. I cried. The whole time. She told me I would bless some because my hyman has torn. That made me cry more. “
Me- “Oh no I’m sorry to hear that”
“On the plus side she told me there are no issues with my anatomy. It’s all just small”
Me- “Well that’s good.”
“I also can’t believe she fingered me. The first person to finger me was a girl”
Me-“Shut up. It’s not even close to the same thing as foreplay”
“And why didn’t you tell me about the butt part?”
Me- “what do you mean?”
“She put her finger in my butt”
My eyes got big. It got the juices flowing. “Well not all doctors do that I don’t think”
“Does yours do it?”
Me- “Yeah. Usually. It’s certainly not the most fun part of that day”
“She surprised me. I thought it was done. I was going to go home and cry while I showered. Then the doctor was all like ‘I’m going to do a quick rectal to make sure everything is ok’. And then in it went. I had lost all dignity at that point.”
Me “it’s not that bad.”
“You are right. It didn’t hurt nearly as bad as the other stuff. Just felt like I had to go. I just didn’t know it would happen. I didn’t like it. And no matter what you say it’s embarrassing to have someone touch you there. “
I giggled and teased her more. Then I went home and pleasured myself thinking about her torment.