I'm a bit surprised how difficult it is to find a spanking partner. I have had a few nice experiences being spanked by women I have connected to in online forums but disappointed by apparent scarcity of women who like to spank. I am not trying to complicate the relationship with a sexual component - I just want to be over the knee of a strong woman that is warming my bare butt. I hesitate to go the professional disciplinarian route - they are typically distant and (for me) pricey. I am interested in hearing any tips from the ZITY membership about how to fulfill the in-person experience I am seeking.