How often do you masturbate?

I should really be giving her more attention and get her masturbating with me.

I tried that once - that was enough. Afterwards, she metaphorically bit my head off and acted like it was the most disgusting thing she had ever 'been forced' to do.

This from my wife who eagerly followed up on an invitation to a foursome and threesome and liked being spanked and anally fingered. Masturbation was her version of being perverted.

But then the weird part: she really liked to climax while fingering herself (or maybe let me do it). But as long as I was touching her, kissing, caressing or whatever, it didn't count as masturbation for her I guess.

So who can figure these things out? Just be beware.

I tried that once - that was enough. Afterwards, she metaphorically bit my head off and acted like it was the most disgusting thing she had ever 'been forced' to do.

This from my wife who eagerly followed up on an invitation to a foursome and threesome and liked being spanked and anally fingered. Masturbation was her version of being perverted.

But then the weird part: she really liked to climax while fingering herself (or maybe let me do it). But as long as I was touching her, kissing, caressing or whatever, it didn't count as masturbation for her I guess.

So who can figure these things out? Just be beware.

My wife had no hang up about masturbating me, although I usually took over as I neared climax simply because I had better control of the stimulation and timing. While she was very open sexually and enjoyed anal play - giving or recieving - she drew a hard line about using a strapon. Never was able to figure that out.

Pretty sure we both masturbated separately on occasion, but never discussed it. Our sex life was pretty good so not much need nor did we have a lot of alone time due to kids being around.

So who can figure these things out?

Oh, the female mind is most mysterious!

Reading these posts gave me a stiffy.... and had to do it now.

@vato I know the feeling. And the resulting feelings!!! Just did the same! LOL

just feel so horny want to get laid but all I have is my hands

With my rickety hip and sciatica, it would be asking for trouble to mount my gal and pump once more for old time sake. So hand is best choice.

Almost every day

Not often enough!

On average once a day, roughly.

Like. Daily. At least once. And always to orgasm.

Just now literally every night. I don't know what's gotten into me!

I try not to let it get out of hand. Sorry, I couldn’t resist.

On average once a day, roughly.

You should try gently too

Two or three times a day at 77 years old.

About twice a day

Depends on your definition of masturbation.

If you're talking masturbation to orgasm--then 4-5 times per week.

On the other hand, if you include pleasure producing touch of the genitals, then it's several times a day.

What you consider to be masturbation?

What you consider to be masturbation?

Masturbation is nothing more (ha ha) than self sexual stimulation. There is nothing set in stone that it should be mandatory to end in orgasm. I would say from the strict definition: sexual self-stimulation, that an orgasm is not necessary for it to be considered masturbation.

Think back on how parents, teachers, authorities etc reacted to catching youngsters fiddling around with their genitals. Orgasm or not, it often ended in punishment of some sort.

So if they didn't wait for an orgasm to occur to punish, get worked up and offended, then masturbation needn't include orgasm to be truly considered masturbation.

Usually every night before bedtime, sometimes based on my cycle though can be 2-3 times a day for a few days a month

Every night before bed. It helps me sleep better. I also have a tendency to hold my penis, which also helps me sleep.

I have sex once and masturbate once each week when at home but when I am away travelling without my wife I masturbate watching porn every other day. Typically 3 or 4 times each week.

Often one time a day but when I'm in a period it can be more.

About 50 times more often than I have sex.

Isn't masturbation just having sex with yourself?

Every day in some form, usually it's in the morning when I shower and I soap my bits and have some fun with the showerhead. I don't always allow myself to cum though. Does that still count as masturbation? Sometimes I think it's good to feel tension throughout the day and wait till later for my husband to sort me out.

I need to elaborate on what I said earlier "I have sex once and masturbate once each week when at home but when I away travelling without my wife I masturbate watching porn every other day typically 3 or 4 times each week".

Typically I ejaculate twice a week when at home, once with sex with my wife and once when I masturbate. I masturbate much more often but not to ejaculation but with an erection probably watching porn. I save myself for 3 or 4 days without ejaculation before sex with my in order to be primed for action with her. When I'm travelling I just enjoy masturbation without holding back just as the moment arrives and this will be ejaculation 3 or 4 times each week.

Due to having the privilege to work from home I do have enough relaxed time to masturbate. Generally, daily, 2-3 times. It depends on the mood and the 'trigger'. According to john graham I sometimes just like the feeling to jerk my hard cock without ejaculation. I enjoy to masturbate while I'm listening to (my) heartbeats or watching porn clips or other movies on the internet. When I'm horny 'enough', I always do it 'til orgasm.

I have a female partner but she normally doesn't watch and she doesn't like it. So I do it when she's (already) sleeping but normally during the day when she's off for work.

Not often enough..although I'm nearing 80.

Who has time to think about being horny enough to need or want masturbation for sexual relief? I don't have the time myself. Or even many times to fully enjoy sex with my sub. I worry about his satisfaction and the long "to do" list of what needs done on the homestead. My satisfaction and needs come after that many times. He may not know that, because I haven't told him, I don't want to add more to his worries and defeats than he already has.

Back to the masturbation question...it is very rare for me.

Aw @MissStress I understand the difficulties of running a big property & other issues - just hope you find opportunity to have a little quality time soon. Al

At least once a month