Can't tell if she likes it.

So, I'm trying to figure out if my friend is starting to like enemas. Like she keeps making comments recently about being backed up and needing a good clean out.

We have done 2 1/2 before, including her first, and I'm starting to think she enjoys them.

Any thoughts on how to get her thoughts on it, without being too direct with her?

She likes it. No doubt.

So, I'm trying to figure out if my friend is starting to like enemas. Like she keeps making comments recently about being backed up and needing a good clean out.

We have done 2 1/2 before, including her first, and I'm starting to think she enjoys them.

Any thoughts on how to get her thoughts on it, without being too direct with her?

Are you blind?

You HAVE been direct with her.

You have stuck tubes and nozzles up her ass and flushed her guts with quarts of water.

She has told you she gets backed up and needs to be cleaned out.

How much more direct do either of you need to be with each other?

She likes enemas.

Give her more.

If she doesn't enjoy them she needs them. Either way you are set.

Are you blind?

You HAVE been direct with her.

You have stuck tubes and nozzles up her ass and flushed her guts with quarts of water.

She has told you she gets backed up and needs to be cleaned out.

How much more direct do either of you need to be with each other?

She likes enemas.

Give her more.

Right. She likes or loves or adores or needs them, and may be using her requests to be cleaned out because of backups to get what she wants. This is not a criticism, just observation and conclusion based in her behavior. She may have a need to claim she's backed up because of embarrassment or because it arouses her more or makes her feel more loved or submissive instead of outright stating directly that she loves getting them from you.

I'm a straight male switch who enjoys taking enemas as a sub from my GF Domme, and my preference is to either just tell her outright that I'm craving an enema tonight, or that I want or desire her to be my Domme tonight and make me take enemas from her in submissive clothing (for me, rubber clothes, hood and gloves plus thick rubber sneakers). Like Susie said, give her as many enemas as she wants and as much as you can, talk to her about exactly what she needs or wants to be satisfied. You'll love it, and so dill she. Have fun and I'm sure she will.

Eric

How does she react while you're giving her a requested enema?

Eric

So, I'm trying to figure out if my friend is starting to like enemas. Like she keeps making comments recently about being backed up and needing a good clean out.

We have done 2 1/2 before, including her first, and I'm starting to think she enjoys them.

Any thoughts on how to get her thoughts on it, without being too direct with her?

Your trying to figure it out? Really? Maybe that's a "20;s" thing. Why not just ask "Do you like me giving you enemas? Do you want me to give you more and more often?" If the answer is "no" (or "yes"), there is nothing to figure out.

Actually, it seems like she's just short of putting it on a billboard for you.

The question for you is this: DO YOU like giving her enemas? It is one thing to think about and wanting to give some undefined person enemas. It is quite another to be confronted with a specific person where it is personal and you have to define what level of intimacy/detachment in the realm of expectations that you have to deal with. And let's face it, you aren't in a professional relationship. So, even as a friend, you are sharing a level of intimacy that YOU have to decide if you are comfortable with and potentially where it might lead.

How long have you known her? She may just be reluctant to admit she gets pleasure from something most people find embarrassing. When she hints that she needs (or wants) an enema, give it to her. It won't take long for you to figure it out. Maybe you want to be more direct. Some day when the time seems right, just ask her, "Would you like for me to give you an enema?" Her response will tell you a lot.

It can be more than a "20s thing" - my wife gets very vague if I ever ask her a direct question about something sexual. I find it extremely frustrating.

It can be more than a "20s thing" - my wife gets very vague if I ever ask her a direct question about something sexual. I find it extremely frustrating.

It is a personality thing. Some people love doing this or that but will never dare speak a word out loud about it. It's just how their character and personality is. I doubt age has much to do with it, maybe more with how things were done in their household when they were growing up. If you grow up in a family where parents always beat around the bush or were closed-mouthed about (sexual) things, then you'll have a harder time articulating these things later when you are on your own.

Are you blind?

You HAVE been direct with her.

You have stuck tubes and nozzles up her ass and flushed her guts with quarts of water.

She has told you she gets backed up and needs to be cleaned out.

How much more direct do either of you need to be with each other?

She likes enemas.

Give her more.

Gotta love your reply - as usual, got me smiling. Wow! how lucky can a guy be with a gal like that - who says she's backed up and needs to be cleaned out!

Have your gf give YOU an enema or three.

I do appreciate all the feedback, thanks to everyone who has responded so far.

To follow up, or give some clarity on the subject.

It's my fantasy, and has been form the beginning. She was brought in on an agreement that we had made. So both of us we nervous, and didn't know how it would turn out. My plan was to make her feel as comfortable as possible, in hopes things would go well enough for the possibility of fallow up sections. And it did, to a point.

We have know each other for about 2 years now, and even co-workers for almost a year at one point. I've always had a "thing" for her, but her strict lesbian sexual preference, makes any future advancements near impossible. Even though we act like we are together a lot of the time.

I'm always down for whenever she makes any sort of move, but I think she gets cold feet every time, I respond positivity, like make plans on a time that we could meet up.

I guess the next question is. Is she just saying it to get my attention and keep me on the "hook"? Because she knows it's my kryptonite.

Looking forward to everyone's feedback. It's deeply appreciated.

@NotADoc92 said

It's my fantasy, and has been form the beginning. She was brought in on an agreement that we had made. So both of us we nervous, and didn't know how it would turn out. My plan was to make her feel as comfortable as possible, in hopes things would go well enough for the possibility of fallow up sections. And it did, to a point.

We have know each other for about 2 years now, and even co-workers for almost a year at one point. I've always had a "thing" for her, but her strict lesbian sexual preference, makes any future advancements near impossible. Even though we act like we are together a lot of the time.

You should have told us that in the beginning.

It sounds like you may have been a "medical technician" helping her with constipation where she didn't want to involve any of her female partners..

She may consider the enemas as a somewhat intimate act, but NOT a sexual one.