When disaster hits you

Having had this happen to me twice now, have any here been "discovered" by circumstances that were out of their control? Both times for me were due to broken bones at the hospital. `It really freaked me out. Incontinence is pretty hard to use as an excuse when you're wearing baby print plastic pants, a onesie with a binkie clipped to it and some booties. As I head deeper into my old age, the possibility of a medical emergency requiring an ambulance and paramedics could prove "interesting" to say the least. I live in a very small community and all the folks around here know each other. So our paramedics would definitely have something to share if they needed to venture into what can only be described as a nursery for a very large (and old) baby.

Part of me finds this oddly fascinating. But the reality would be disastrous.

If I were to need medical help or die in my sleep, things will be VERY interesting for my wife and I. I'll become somewhat of a celebrity in our small community. I can only imagine the conversations that would ensue at the local gossip hangouts. EEK! While you can cry HIPA, the reality is it would be all out there around here. (giggles an shits)….

so, does anyone have a story or thoughts?

I've often wondered about that sort of thing and it's not just health related, also "What would I do if I were out driving around in my diapers and someone ran into me?" or whatever.

Well my personal experience is that most people--while they may tell the story of "Oh we were on a call the other day and the patient was an adult in his 60s who was in diapers and baby clothes!" they probably wouldn't say who you were.

And that doesn't just apply to health care professionals. For a while, my son delivered pizzas and told me that he once had to deliver one to a hotel room. The guy who opened the door was standing there in a bathrobe and a boat captain's hat. While he was paying for the pizza, a girl poked her head around the corner and said "Come back to bed, Captain!" The guy said in her direction, "Captain is paying for the pizza now, dear, I'll be right back..."

My son made it through this without laughing and later told me about it. He said that that "the Captain" was somebody who lived in our neighborhood and the girl he was with WAS NOT his wife, but he absolutely would not tell me who it was.

So in most cases, you're probably safe.

That being said if this ever happened to me, I'd be rather embarrassed if my kids found out but to anybody else, I really do think I'm to the point where I'd say "I sleep in diapers and baby clothes, it's relaxing and I don't have to get up at night to use the bathroom. My wife knows and doesn't care so it's our business. You have a problem with that?"

As a former paramedic I have seen some shit ,and sometimes been up to my elbows in it , let me assure you 100 out of 100 X's we will gladly take an adult baby wearing diapers and clothes to match ,than say a drunk belligerent violent individual who doesn't want anyone's help unless it involves buying them another shot of whatever .

And on a personal note several X's in my life people who know me but didn't necessarily know I needed diapers found out ,most notably a local police officer who I have been friends with for years ,my lack of continence had just not come up , one February morning around 2:30 he was on patrol in my area , he knows I am late nighter but also knows cold weather and I are enemies ,so imagine his surprize finding me out that late in the cold ,not exactly dressed for the weather in only my night diaper and rubber bloomers, he figured there must be a readon i am out ? When he tries to start a conversation all he gets is gibberish ,he knows i have a college degree and i retired from ESU because of my health ,so gibberish wasnt my primary language , he did the only smart thing and put a mad rush on a bus(ambulance) , I don't know which guys ran the call as they all know me ,but they needed a paramedic intercept to get me the last mile to the hospital ( I live exactly 3.7 miles from up the street from the E.R door . And after I got out of hospital ,i bought him coffee thanked him for saving my life ,and had "the talk" (about diapers) I just had never mentioned I needed them ( probably because I have never couch surfed his place as we live in the same town . None of us are judgemental about the things we see ,it's part and parcel of the job . Have no fear ,we don't bite often ,unless you don't like IV lines.

Also in emergency services. See adults in diapers most regularly-though never an obvious AB. 1. it is no 'big deal';2. we take the privacy issue most seriously. 3. our priority is to help with the emergency, so while I might fantasize about being called to a cute young lady in diapers, in reality the needs of the situation would, to a degree, obscure the fantasy part.

To meto; Each small town has its own personality but as an ems worker in a small town I can assure you we all take out patient's privacy most seriously. Particularly because it is a small town. Even when discussing 'calls' among ourselves we leave names out (unless there is a compelling reason otherwise that may be beneficial if we treat that patient again). Yes, we see a lot but if we are there for a real emergency we are focused on what needs to be done for the patient and safety of the crew and patient. When someone is in trouble it is not a humorous situation. That is not to say that we don't at times use humor to help ease a patient's worries. So you probably need not worry. On the other hand if you, like me, wonder how you would react to being 'found out' enjoy the moment and know that the nurse can't 'snitch' even if inclined to do so.

I live in one of those small rural towns where most everyone knows everyone else. Since I wear my diapers 24/7 I expect anyone responding to an emergency for me may very well discover I wear. I don't care. What they won't know is I wear for fun. If I'm aware they are coming to assist me, I may even be sure to pee in them so they will "know" why I wear diapers. The only thing that might catch someone's attention is if I'm plugged when they arrive. I often am so there is that possibility. But, again, I really don't care. Actually, I would only expect that to be discovered if I were taken to a hospital for treatment.

Have often wondered about having to be taken to the hospital after a car accident or something while I was in diapers and baby clothes under my real clothes. Have never had to. Also, if I was to pass away wearing them at home, who would find me and what would they think. I think of William Windsor, baby man in Phoenix. Died at home and was dead for about 3 weeks before they found him. Not the way I would want to go.

Yes. I wonder about this. I am a 72 year guy who wears girdles and bras.... BOTH for good reasons. I have 42-D boobs and wear the (men’s style) girdles for lower back support. I have very bad arthritis in my lower spine and the support from a girdle is greatly appreciated. I think anyone (EMS, ER folks) would quickly see my reason for wearing a bra when they see my boobs.

Well I will say this and keep it short, I have gone to the hospital diapered by choice. My blog has the details and the repercussions. I also live in a small rural town of 8000, who knows about me? I do not care who knows, I am who I am and a lot happier for it...especially now

Oh yeah, i've thought of this on a lot of levels.

i'm a critical care nurse and was taken to the hospital in an ambulance once from practicing Bikram (aka "hot") yoga. i was in what amounted to a speedo since the yoga is practiced in a 105 degree, 50% humidity room. i was sticky and wet. Thank goodness the charge nurse saw my name and gave me a private room.

As a sub, i have chastity kinks and have wondered if i had a Dom who locked me in chastity and i ended up in the ED (where everyone knows me).

On another note, i had a year and a half connection with a Dom who's goal (i learned later) was to open my 'hole.' It was His signature of sorts, and it was part of His creative energy to 'change my hole from an anus in to a pussy," making it more receptive than retentive. He knew what he was doing and when i have to have a bm, i cannot wait forever (understatement). i've trained my inner muscles for squeezing and milking a lovers cock, so i can 'hold it in,' but it's an effort. Honestly, the kinky sub in me is thrilled, it's a permanent reminder and connection to Him, it is indeed His 'mark' on me and i'm reminded about it daily. But, i wonder as i age if that will run into a problem of incontinence? All my kinks are individual connected. I.e., i relate that attribute to the Dom who fashioned it. i get no thrill from solo or strangers, my thrill is a direct connection to another who is also 'thrilled." Hospital caregivers are not typically 'thrilled' by bowel incontinence.

And yet another. i have a drawer full of toys. i bought them all with wishful thinking of a Dom who likes and wants to use them on/with me, but meanwhile, there they sit. I have a fuck machine in the closet. i wonder about the response of my kids (both adults) finding this stuff if i died? They know i am gay, but are religious and don't approved or accept me, so it would likely be pretty 'disgusting' for them.

Disaster hit me 3 weeks ago literally, on the way to the grocery store I was hit by a truck and dragged 30 feet .Of course I lost a great onesie and pair of pants , laying in the trauma bay on backboard in only my diaper ,everything man made died in the accident ,including the diaper ,it wasn't until all the scans came back with only broken ribs , when they got me off the backboard the diaper had split and SAP was everywhere , it was literally the 1st time the chair was outside since it was delivered ,less than 5 miles on a 34 K wheelchair .not even my watch survived .

@sap That’s horrible. How are you doing?