Where are all these closeted young enema lovers?

With all the 1000s of guys on here telling stories about how they loved to get enemas from their parents, it seems extremely difficult for me to find west coast boys who are into this. It seems it is almost taboo on the west coast. Most enema guys seem to be from the midwest, southeast or the east coast. I think parents in those areas were more into old school, traditional ways of bringing up their kids. Whether on this site or others, for some strange reason, it seems that there are very few younger guys (except maybe in SF), west of the Mississippi who are into enemas, or willing to admit it. Why is it that mostly only people over 50 are interested?

I looked this up and the bell curve for California does appear to peak in the 40-50+ range.

Some pages have more older members 60-70-80+, some pages have more younger members 20s-30s.

The age distribution for Florida appears to be similar to California.

New York, on the other hand definitely at first glance has many more younger members into enemas.

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A great new feature would be the ability to download or view a spread sheet for age, interest, and location.

That's who has the self-confidence to admit it!

I'm convinced it is there all our lives, and a lot of the problem is just the stigma, and the lack of willingness to admit it even in today'a more tolerant world.

By the time most men get into their 50s they have a strong self-identity and, pardon the accidental humor, don't give a shit what other people think any more

@LisaK - Aren't enemas all about giving a shit? They sure make me give a shit! ROFL! Happy New Year!

K

I'm from the uk, again seems very taboo here. Never knew what they were until I found an enema porno. I'm 19 and thought I was some weirdo with a messed up fetish... until I found zity.biz

Once again the topic of how prevalent enema usage is being discussed. It is safe to say that the members here on zity represent the tip of the iceberg given most have not found or looked for the site, and many others are very closeted fearing even searching on their computer or phone may somehow reveal their interest in enemas.

So you go with what you know. Susie is right, all you can do is look at the members on this site and make some generalizations about how many members there are claiming an enema fetish and where they live. I have looked for other sites and there is one other site called enemaguys.com, which is a gay site that does give member location. Other hookup sites that allow you to search key words in profiles and give location might also be helpful, but you will likely have to join the site and may require a membership fee.

So the information is out there and you may have to spend some cash on memberships. If you really want to meet someone, those are your options.

Zity is still a good place to meet people so don't be shy, reach out to others near you and see what happens. If you don't ask, you'll never going to meet someone.

This is a very good topic! I think in Europe the situation is pretty much the same or even worst considering how enema, medical or fetish in general are a taboo! I think that most of the time you find older patient because as a lot of people said, you start to know yourself better and you become more conscious and confident of yourself!

On the other hand I also find more complicated to find young male patient than young female patient... don't know why! Is it something related to the self confidence again??